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What Do You Think People Dislike About You the Most?
Thread starterCelerity
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The people I know in real life must think I'm an asshole. To them I must seem like a distant bitch who thinks she's too good to step down and talk to them. Doesn't help that I unconsciously try to act cool at parties; my SO even says I seem like a different, more rude person when at parties or meet ups with these people. One of them even told my SO he should break up with me because I act so rude around them — and I must treat him so badly behind the curtains! I get so anxious I don't know how to carry myself. And then I'm too depressed to engage with them in Whatsapp or whatever. These people were supposed to be the most like me and I can't even fit in with them.
I don't really miss them though. I have reliable online friends who know what I'm like. I think so, anyways.
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Insane how much I relate to so many of the posts here.
There's many things about me that people dislike that I don't know what would be the most annoying. I'm shy and socially awkward, I often talk about subjects that are uncomfortable for most people, I am different than most people in quite a few ways. But dislike me all you want, I don't like most people either so it's all good.
Insane how much I relate to so many of the posts here.
There's many things about me that people dislike that I don't know what would be the most annoying. I'm shy and socially awkward, I often talk about subjects that are uncomfortable for most people, I am different than most people in quite a few ways. But dislike me all you want, I don't like most people either so it's all good.
I come across as stupid and incompetent IRL (autism + overthinking + a bit of actual stupidity and incompetency + non-responsiveness + apathy + weird emotions + low confidence + psychogenic death stage 2 + etc), I can spin it by being "friendly but a bit simple" or activating joker-mode.
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