Discussion What do you find unattractive in women?

[NoLoveNoHope]

Share anything you find unattractive whether it's beliefs, behaviors etc.

 

[epic]

If someone is being- deceitful , a gold-digger, someone who fears saying what's on their mind, someone who can't hold down a conversation.
Looks wise you just know who your type is and who isn't rather quickly . There are no particular physical traits which put me off.

 

[chad2018]

im a bisexual woman. i'm attracted to all types of people physically, i would say personality and vibes are more important. anyone who seems high maintenance (man or woman) is a no from me.

in modern dating there seems to be a huge emphasis on not compromising on what your "ideal" relationship or person should look like, and not "settling". i think this was a good sentiment for women especially to hear because historically women had very little say in who they had to marry and what kind of life they were going to live after they got married. this is still the case in a lot of cultures where the wife/woman is just expected to put her needs and preferences aside to satisfy those of her husband and family.

however, i think this can be a dangerously immature mindset since, if you look at people in happy relationships, they might vary in how similar they are to each other, how compatible they seem on paper, etc, but one thing that is always true is that they are willing to compromise for each other.

the my-way-or-the-highway attitude is so easily recognizable and instantly offputting.

 

[Aesthetic guy]

seeking attention whether online or IRL...

 

[Undertow Mermaid]

seeking attention whether online or IRL...

Doesn't everyone want attention in some form though?

 

[Aesthetic guy]

Doesn't everyone want attention in some form though?

donno...
some people might find some sort of attention seeking cringy while some people don't find it that way and are ok with it...
may be i don't consider some of them attention seeking at all...
may be i have poor judgment... :P

 

[chocolatebar]

Based on recent events... poor hygiene.

We can adapt and learn to live with different people in so many ways, but it's simple impossible to share any space with someone with poor hygiene, and who isn't willing to improve.

 

[RoundaboutResolved]

This thread is cringe & pointless imo, but what do I know...

 

[stillmirenai]

Dishonesty and a disregard for my feelings. I'd rather kill myself and die alone than date a dishonest and disregarding woman. I hate it more than I hate myself. I'm fairly patient, so I'll put up with a lot of dumb stuff; but that is absolutely something I will NOT tolerate.

 

[Message In A Bottle]

Women who base their whole self worth around their bodies - in other words, myself.