what do you do when you don't know what you want to do

[campo d'erba]

I don't know what I want to do. today ive had no motivation or will to do anything, but i also dislike doing nothing so :P . im not feeling particularily bad, but not good at all either. maybe im just feeling anhedonic. i want to be happy but i don't know what to do to be there. does anyone understand

 

[Jadeith]

what do you do when you don't know what you want to do

I try to be useful. Support someone one way or another. That's how i usually do with emptiness inside.

 

[Hollowman]

Yeah I understand but I don't have any advice.

 

[mushi]

i doomscroll tiktok, eat, get groceries, make coffee. sometimes i exercise but not particularly well. my cats keep me company but after a few hours they get annoying. i think about my life and what i could do to make it better. i think about having friends but none of my friendships work out. i think about dating but i get annoyed with most people and the people i like never like me back. i think maybe i could go to one of those social events but i find the people boring. i think about my old hobbies like reading and writing and video games but everything is repetitive and i don't get sucked in like i used to. so now im doomscrolling sasu until i sleep lol

 

[SadGirl]

I don't know what I want to do. today ive had no motivation or will to do anything, but i also dislike doing nothing so :P . im not feeling particularily bad, but not good at all either. maybe im just feeling anhedonic. i want to be happy but i don't know what to do to be there. does anyone understand

I feel exactly the same way. Sometimes I invite friends over, but they leave soon after, and I never know what to do: watch a movie, listen to music (which is what I do most), or talk. When I'm alone, I also don't know what to do; often I just sleep. This is depression.

 

[boredandoverboard]

Do anything regardless. I don't know what to do either and I consistently change what I do since I cannot decide. I would open a book, read a few lines, and then watch youtube or continue writing my draft, etc. repeat in different variations.

Just to keep the self busy.

 

[campo d'erba]

i doomscroll tiktok, eat, get groceries, make coffee. sometimes i exercise but not particularly well. my cats keep me company but after a few hours they get annoying. i think about my life and what i could do to make it better. i think about having friends but none of my friendships work out. i think about dating but i get annoyed with most people and the people i like never like me back. i think maybe i could go to one of those social events but i find the people boring. i think about my old hobbies like reading and writing and video games but everything is repetitive and i don't get sucked in like i used to. so now im doomscrolling sasu until i sleep lol

yeah i can relate

Do anything regardless. I don't know what to do either and I consistently change what I do since I cannot decide. I would open a book, read a few lines, and then watch youtube or continue writing my draft, etc. repeat in different variations.

Just to keep the self busy.

i can see the logic, it just feels very futile. its feels like everything i do is a chore

 

[ScaredCutter]

when i have nothing to do i just play games, listen to music and hangout with my cats. i dont have many things to do since ive given up a lot of things but, i do those 3 things. it may be unfulfilling and lacking in what u want.

 

[Systemic]

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