tinyghost
go home at dawn sleep in the sun
- Sep 13, 2023
- 209
no one is ever too far gone. if someone wants to keep fighting then they should be given as many resources as they need to get through it.
hermestrimegistus
Specialist
- Sep 16, 2023
- 341
I think being "too far gone" is subjective. I know I feel and believe I'm too far gone. But from someone else's perspective they might think I'm not. And vice versa. It depends on how much you're willing to take I guess
deadtomorrow
Member
- Oct 25, 2023
- 74
penguinl0v3s
Wait for Me đź’™
- Nov 1, 2023
- 798
Agreed, it's up to the person to choose if they want to continue or not.
What counts as a hardcap? There are ugly people still living their lives, and there are disabled and bedridden people that are happy. I mean, I respect people's right to choose to give up, but there's definitely no hard line. You can either adopt the mindset of a.) I have a disadvantage but I'll continue on despite that b.) I'll give up.
yeahokbuddyboy
Member
- Nov 4, 2023
- 45
here I'm speaking from my own experience of being my naive self, but I do think most people are not too far gone. I don't even really think I'm too far gone either.
But I started feeling like it when I realized I wasn't going to get anywhere without connecting with other people about my problems, and realized that I'm too weak to do it. I finally went to get counseling for my problems and before we even started, she asked if I was experiencing suicidal ideation, and of course, I lied and said no, I wasn't. And at that point I was just like, ok, what's the point of this? I can't open up to anyone in my life about my issues, and I get nowhere trying to fix most of them myself. I'm too anxious to talk to my own parents/family or even my girlfriend, let alone this random stranger. Sure, she's confidential but she'd put me in a psych ward if I told her what's been going on lately. It's too late for me. Doesn't mean it is for you or anyone else; that's for you all to decide.
But I started feeling like it when I realized I wasn't going to get anywhere without connecting with other people about my problems, and realized that I'm too weak to do it. I finally went to get counseling for my problems and before we even started, she asked if I was experiencing suicidal ideation, and of course, I lied and said no, I wasn't. And at that point I was just like, ok, what's the point of this? I can't open up to anyone in my life about my issues, and I get nowhere trying to fix most of them myself. I'm too anxious to talk to my own parents/family or even my girlfriend, let alone this random stranger. Sure, she's confidential but she'd put me in a psych ward if I told her what's been going on lately. It's too late for me. Doesn't mean it is for you or anyone else; that's for you all to decide.
