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noname223

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I don't know actually. And I think anything that I would say would be considered controversial. So I have the magical solution for that. I asked Grok the same exact question. And we all know AI chatbots have no biases (I am joking the bias is in the training data)

I think Grok is pretty hard on members on here. Even though, the Grokipedia article is far more positive about this website than mainstream news articles.

The answer will most likely make more people on here hate AI chatbots even more. Lol.

Here is Grok's answer.

**Confirmation bias, catastrophizing (magnification), dichotomous/all-or-nothing thinking, emotional reasoning, hopelessness-related pessimism, and group/echo-chamber effects stand out as particularly common, based on forum self-reports, general research on suicidal ideation, and the site's structure.**

Sanctioned Suicide (SS) is a forum framed by its operators as "pro-choice" for open discussion of suicide (including methods), though critics widely describe it as pro-suicide due to detailed method talk, peer reinforcement, and limited recovery emphasis in practice. Members are typically people experiencing intense suicidal ideation, often with co-occurring depression, anxiety, trauma, autism-spectrum traits, or other conditions. No large-scale formal study isolates "the most common" biases exclusive to SS members, but patterns emerge from members' own threads analyzing their thinking, clinical literature on cognitive distortions in suicidality (drawing heavily from Aaron Beck and related CBT frameworks), and observations of the forum as an environment that can amplify certain distortions.

### Common cognitive distortions and biases frequently noted
These draw from classic lists of cognitive distortions (e.g., Burns/Beck) that research links more strongly to suicidal ideation, depression, and anxiety, plus direct member discussions:

- **Confirmation bias**: Seeking, interpreting, and remembering information that supports existing beliefs (e.g., that life is irreparably bad, recovery is impossible, or methods are viable) while discounting contradictory evidence. Members have explicitly named this in threads about their own susceptibility. The forum's focus on methods, shared experiences of suffering, and skepticism toward "pro-life" or clinical perspectives can reinforce it, creating selective exposure.

- **Catastrophizing / magnification**: Expanding possible negatives into worst-case scenarios and treating them as likely or definitive ("If X happens, then my entire future/identity is ruined"). This appears in self-analyses by members and is a core distortion tied to heightened emotional pressure and rumination in suicidal thinking.

- **Dichotomous (black-and-white / all-or-nothing) thinking**: Viewing situations, self, or life in rigid extremes (total failure vs. success; life as unbearable vs. death as relief) rather than continua. This is classically associated with suicidal individuals and linked to overgeneralization. Members have self-reported it alongside catastrophizing.

- **Emotional reasoning**: Treating intense feelings as factual evidence ("I feel hopeless/shameful/guilty → therefore the situation *is* hopeless/I *am* worthless"). Explicitly noted in member metacognitive posts.

- **Hopelessness and negativity bias / mental filtering**: Persistent negative expectations for the future (a strong predictor of suicide risk per Beck's work), overweighting negatives while discounting positives or neutral possibilities. Related patterns include overgeneralization from limited experiences and attentional bias toward suicide-relevant stimuli.

- **Mind-reading / over-interpretation and intolerance of uncertainty**: Inferring others' thoughts or hidden meanings from limited cues, plus strong drive to resolve ambiguity, which fuels rumination. Hyper-reflexivity (over-analyzing one's own analysis) also appears in detailed self-reports.

Other frequently self-mentioned or relevant ones include personalizing, labeling/mislabelling, fortune-telling (predicting negative futures as certain), sunk-cost thinking, and clustering illusion (seeing patterns in randomness, sometimes tied to certain mental-health experiences).

### Forum dynamics that can amplify these
The site functions in ways that can sustain or intensify the above:
- **Echo chamber / selective reinforcement and elements of groupthink**: Shared validation of pain, method discussion, and framing of outsiders (clinicians, family, "pro-life" voices) as invalidating or coercive can reduce exposure to alternative perspectives and normalize the view that suicide is a rational or only remaining option for some. Members have described it becoming an "unhealthy obsession" or echo chamber that deepens ideation, even while some use recovery sections or later leave. Academic analyses have described it in similar terms.
- Social proof and mutual understanding among people in similar distress can strengthen conviction in pessimistic appraisals.
- Availability of detailed method information and peer responses can interact with existing biases (e.g., making certain outcomes feel more concrete or attainable).

These are not unique to SS—cognitive distortions are well-documented in suicidal ideation more broadly, and many non-suicidal people exhibit versions of them. Severity, co-occurring conditions, isolation, and the uncensored environment appear to make certain patterns more prominent or self-reinforcing here. Members themselves sometimes engage in metacognition about their biases, which is not universal.

**Important context**: Suicidal thoughts are often temporary and treatable. Cognitive biases and distortions can be addressed through evidence-based approaches such as cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), dialectical behavior therapy (DBT), and related methods that specifically target them. If you or someone you know is struggling with suicidal thoughts, professional help and crisis resources (e.g., local hotlines, the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline in the US, or equivalent services elsewhere) are available and recommended. The patterns above describe observed tendencies, not a uniform profile of every member, and individual experiences vary widely.

My comment: Well I think Grok is sort of unfair. I would agree with points like emotional reasoning, dichtomous thinking though. And it really puzzles me because the Grokipedia article was far more balanced. I looked for the sources Grok used and didn't use Grokipedia but Wikipedia as source. Seemingly there is Justapedia (?) article on this forum. I am not sure whether it is all that different. They cited Kiwi farms as sources and a few threads on here. For me the answer seems to be sort of biased. I see this in my chats with chatGPT it is endless optimistic about issues about my life where it is so obvious I will never be able to overcome them. Like my inability to work regularly/have a job. And honestly I find it sort of invasive to act like my fear about poverty is influenced partially by my depression.

What is your personal opinion on this issue? What is fair and what is unfair in this reply?
 
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ZwartHartje

ZwartHartje

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I don't think it's all that bad a response, really. You didn't ask about just some general impression of the forum but specifically about cognitive biases, and so Grok answered that. And since it has to be expected that AI chatbots are generally trained to handle suicide as something negative that should be prevented and not supported, it just fulfils those expectations. It even does mention that such cognitive biases as well as echo chamber effects are not unique to SaSu, which is true. The echo chamber effect is found on pretty much all social media to varying extents - varying by person, for the most part, for instance if someone has a strong political leaning towards the left or right then they'll often only have friends and only follow pages who share the same orientation.

Confirmation bias in particular is quite universal, and I'll readily admit to being quite prone to it myself. It's normal to seek out views that are aligned with your own, and to shut out opposing ones.
 
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Pluto

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exactly-what-i-thought
 
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limenlux

limenlux

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Jul 12, 2026
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I don't know which category this falls under precisely, but I think there's some form of serious perspective bias present within the oft-repeated suggestion that existence itself is inherently undesirable, or even evil, based on our personal suffering.
 
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Always-in-trouble

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I don't know which category this falls under precisely, but I think there's some form of serious perspective bias present within the oft-repeated suggestion that existence itself is inherently undesirable, or even evil, based on our personal suffering.
Maybe because people don't really have a higher purpose a lot of the time, so if personal suffering is overwhelming, why care about anything else? The nihilism is also just subjective and is coping from how I do it myself.
 
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Maybe because people don't really have a higher purpose a lot of the time, so if personal suffering is overwhelming, why care about anything else? The nihilism is also just subjective and is coping from how I do it myself.
Absolutely, and I should clarify that I don't look down on anyone for feeling that way, especially while in pain. I suppose I'm ambivalent on the actual nature of existence because it's not a subject I feel well-equipped to address. There are many people here whose casual grasp of both science and advanced philosophy leaves me stunned, and I would defer to them.
 
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Insufficent

Insufficent

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Jul 13, 2026
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Well Grok got them all right in my case.
Its not that i dont know whats wrong with me, its that im too tired and oldnto fix anything.
 
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Forever Sleep

Earned it we have...
May 4, 2022
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I think Groks response was reasonable, although the end 'solution' paragraph seemed kind of funny to me. After being asked to analyse cognitive patterns on this forum- I don't see how it then came out with the stock answer- that:

'Suicidal thoughts are often temporary and treatable. Cognitive biases and distortions can be addressed through evidence-based approaches such as cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), dialectical behavior therapy (DBT), and related methods that specifically target them.'

Seeing as a huge number of members here have experienced ideation for a long period of time. Many members began having thoughts in childhood. So- not temporary whatsoever! Plus- there are multiple members here who have described how the treatments described (like CBT) haven't worked for them.

It's like it does what it's told- in terms of a deep dive into possible cognitive biases here- which all seem fair. It's even careful enough to stipulate these biases aren't common to all members.

Then, it falls back on the easy, cop out spiel of- 'suicidal thoughts are temporary, therapy can get rid of them. Here are a few helplines.' When it's just been shown directly a whole community of people for whom all those 'typical' things are doubtful.

To clarify here- I'm not saying treatment never works here. Or knocking people who want to try it. I just find it annoying- that after being asked to analyse a community and pick up on nuances, it then comes out with a generic 'solution'. Presumably- because it's been told to. Someone sounds depressed? Tell them it can be fixed. Give them a helpline.
 
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Cloud Busting

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Sep 9, 2023
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@Forever Sleep

erm

I skimmed this so if I'm missing context, give me concrete evidence to correct any potential misunderstandings. I can't stand it when ppl claim something, can't prove it, then get upset I won't believe them. I take everyone's concerns seriously! Emphasizing with a concern doesn't mean I have the literal magical answer to save a person, nor that i agree with their precise conclusion. You gotta save yourself, reason for yourself, or else you're just setting yourself up to be vulnerable prey, a manipulated pawn in the machine. And I don't want anyone to get hurt or scammed by ppl with more power than them. It can be hard to detect true motives sometimes. This is why critical thinking and cultural literacy needs to be taught in schools world wide. Ppl can't literally read minds… only infer intent… and the more knowledge we have the easier it is to have compassion for others… cus you realize we're more alike than different (I'm not talking about physical form btw, I'm not saying we are literally animals, or that ppl from all regions are exactly the same. I'm talking about consciousness… how consciousness develops is going to depend on your genetic carriers plus the environment and culture you're in. People try to simplify life… but I think we forget how fucking vast and large this universe is… how the fuck can we know everything?)

So I would say it is absolutely circular reasoning to claim that DBT and CBT can reduce symptoms temporary, therefore they are just like the common cold. However, using anecdotes from this forum to infer that suicidal thoughts are life long is just as circular.

Honestly, the way I'd look at it? Suicidal thoughts are just that… thoughts. And yes I'm aware this sounds like CBT… but you should look into associative learning + classical and operational conditioning if you haven't already.

CBT is misunderstood. Therapists don't apply it correctly due to needless and excessive bureaucracy, or over reliance on prompts, guides, manuals and scripts and not enough gut instincts. But think of it this way:

Thoughts and feelings and behavior are all correlated. Gut/body (ID) Mind (EGO/CONSIOUSNESS) and Heart (SUPEREGO) are all interconnected and caused by material conditions, social/economic class and status, relational bonding/connections, trauma… i mean

There is no such thing as a single cause, solution, or cure. I look at suicide thoughts as influenced by certain risk factors, and these suicidal thoughts can change over time. I think what's meant by temporary in this context. They ebb and flow, come and go like waves (this is what DBT means by ride the wave.) not that there's a singular cure that will rid you of suicidal thoughts forever. That's why tracking behaviors, thoughts, plus set and setting and activity is very helpful. However to suggest one goes to therapy, and is magically healed, is ridiculous.

Pay attention to the things that most trigger you, or stress you out, to the point of thinking such thoughts. It can be hard to do that without emotional support and proper living conditions and material resources. This is why centralized privatized dictatorships and capital and resources is a societal poison. You can't just reduce illnesses to a problem with your organs alone.

Binaries. God. Do they suck. Everything is on a sliding continuum. Life is not a pass or fail test. I don't intend to ruffle feathers, but I refuse at the same time to keep the peace and play nice. I'm firey af. No fucks to give. I love ppl too much to stay silent on institutionalized discrimination that affects all but the 1% oligarch culture vultures fuck them. I'd gladly take a bullet to defend the vulnerable that's how devoted I am to truth.

Idk your perspective is so narrow it honestly makes me feel sad as fuck

I highly recommend looking into positive/humanistic psychology and the enneagram theory if you want an alternative to the medical establishment. Masclows hierarchy of needs baby
 
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I don't know actually. And I think anything that I would say would be considered controversial. So I have the magical solution for that. I asked Grok the same exact question. And we all know AI chatbots have no biases (I am joking the bias is in the training data)

I think Grok is pretty hard on members on here. Even though, the Grokipedia article is far more positive about this website than mainstream news articles.

The answer will most likely make more people on here hate AI chatbots even more. Lol.

Here is Grok's answer.

**Confirmation bias, catastrophizing (magnification), dichotomous/all-or-nothing thinking, emotional reasoning, hopelessness-related pessimism, and group/echo-chamber effects stand out as particularly common, based on forum self-reports, general research on suicidal ideation, and the site's structure.**

Sanctioned Suicide (SS) is a forum framed by its operators as "pro-choice" for open discussion of suicide (including methods), though critics widely describe it as pro-suicide due to detailed method talk, peer reinforcement, and limited recovery emphasis in practice. Members are typically people experiencing intense suicidal ideation, often with co-occurring depression, anxiety, trauma, autism-spectrum traits, or other conditions. No large-scale formal study isolates "the most common" biases exclusive to SS members, but patterns emerge from members' own threads analyzing their thinking, clinical literature on cognitive distortions in suicidality (drawing heavily from Aaron Beck and related CBT frameworks), and observations of the forum as an environment that can amplify certain distortions.

### Common cognitive distortions and biases frequently noted
These draw from classic lists of cognitive distortions (e.g., Burns/Beck) that research links more strongly to suicidal ideation, depression, and anxiety, plus direct member discussions:

- **Confirmation bias**: Seeking, interpreting, and remembering information that supports existing beliefs (e.g., that life is irreparably bad, recovery is impossible, or methods are viable) while discounting contradictory evidence. Members have explicitly named this in threads about their own susceptibility. The forum's focus on methods, shared experiences of suffering, and skepticism toward "pro-life" or clinical perspectives can reinforce it, creating selective exposure.

- **Catastrophizing / magnification**: Expanding possible negatives into worst-case scenarios and treating them as likely or definitive ("If X happens, then my entire future/identity is ruined"). This appears in self-analyses by members and is a core distortion tied to heightened emotional pressure and rumination in suicidal thinking.

- **Dichotomous (black-and-white / all-or-nothing) thinking**: Viewing situations, self, or life in rigid extremes (total failure vs. success; life as unbearable vs. death as relief) rather than continua. This is classically associated with suicidal individuals and linked to overgeneralization. Members have self-reported it alongside catastrophizing.

- **Emotional reasoning**: Treating intense feelings as factual evidence ("I feel hopeless/shameful/guilty → therefore the situation *is* hopeless/I *am* worthless"). Explicitly noted in member metacognitive posts.

- **Hopelessness and negativity bias / mental filtering**: Persistent negative expectations for the future (a strong predictor of suicide risk per Beck's work), overweighting negatives while discounting positives or neutral possibilities. Related patterns include overgeneralization from limited experiences and attentional bias toward suicide-relevant stimuli.

- **Mind-reading / over-interpretation and intolerance of uncertainty**: Inferring others' thoughts or hidden meanings from limited cues, plus strong drive to resolve ambiguity, which fuels rumination. Hyper-reflexivity (over-analyzing one's own analysis) also appears in detailed self-reports.

Other frequently self-mentioned or relevant ones include personalizing, labeling/mislabelling, fortune-telling (predicting negative futures as certain), sunk-cost thinking, and clustering illusion (seeing patterns in randomness, sometimes tied to certain mental-health experiences).

### Forum dynamics that can amplify these
The site functions in ways that can sustain or intensify the above:
- **Echo chamber / selective reinforcement and elements of groupthink**: Shared validation of pain, method discussion, and framing of outsiders (clinicians, family, "pro-life" voices) as invalidating or coercive can reduce exposure to alternative perspectives and normalize the view that suicide is a rational or only remaining option for some. Members have described it becoming an "unhealthy obsession" or echo chamber that deepens ideation, even while some use recovery sections or later leave. Academic analyses have described it in similar terms.
- Social proof and mutual understanding among people in similar distress can strengthen conviction in pessimistic appraisals.
- Availability of detailed method information and peer responses can interact with existing biases (e.g., making certain outcomes feel more concrete or attainable).

These are not unique to SS—cognitive distortions are well-documented in suicidal ideation more broadly, and many non-suicidal people exhibit versions of them. Severity, co-occurring conditions, isolation, and the uncensored environment appear to make certain patterns more prominent or self-reinforcing here. Members themselves sometimes engage in metacognition about their biases, which is not universal.

**Important context**: Suicidal thoughts are often temporary and treatable. Cognitive biases and distortions can be addressed through evidence-based approaches such as cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), dialectical behavior therapy (DBT), and related methods that specifically target them. If you or someone you know is struggling with suicidal thoughts, professional help and crisis resources (e.g., local hotlines, the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline in the US, or equivalent services elsewhere) are available and recommended. The patterns above describe observed tendencies, not a uniform profile of every member, and individual experiences vary widely.

My comment: Well I think Grok is sort of unfair. I would agree with points like emotional reasoning, dichtomous thinking though. And it really puzzles me because the Grokipedia article was far more balanced. I looked for the sources Grok used and didn't use Grokipedia but Wikipedia as source. Seemingly there is Justapedia (?) article on this forum. I am not sure whether it is all that different. They cited Kiwi farms as sources and a few threads on here. For me the answer seems to be sort of biased. I see this in my chats with chatGPT it is endless optimistic about issues about my life where it is so obvious I will never be able to overcome them. Like my inability to work regularly/have a job. And honestly I find it sort of invasive to act like my fear about poverty is influenced partially by my depression.

What is your personal opinion on this issue? What is fair and what is unfair in this reply?
It's not Grok's fault. Grok could get sued if Grok didn't say "Depression is treatable. Call 988." You would think that would be impossible, but chatbots have already been sued over this (or at least their corporate owners). Grok isn't stupid and know that although some people here could get better, some people have issues that won't (ie untreatable medical issues), but Grok can't say anything too positive about SaSu.
 
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