Venting Weird

[Renv1o_]

Now that I'm in uni I have no choice but to be around people daily- Hearing other people that are my age talk so happily and arrange regular meet-ups is such an odd feeling. They're able to talk about things theyre excited for, go out, get wasted and come back smiling the next day-
I feel jealous. I feel like such a terrible person because I'm jealous, too.
When I do get invited out, I'm quick to turn it down because I hardly feel like I fit in and like I can handle the pace of everything- I'm so negative and anxious in comparison to others.

Im surrounded by people but feel more lonely and out of place than ever.

 

[username8888]

When I do get invited out, I'm quick to turn it down because I hardly feel like I fit in and like I can handle the pace of everything- I'm so negative and anxious in comparison to others.

Im surrounded by people but feel more lonely and out of place than ever.

Maybe you are not delusional enough to engage with them.

 

[Bruce]

Now that I'm in uni I have no choice but to be around people daily- Hearing other people that are my age talk so happily and arrange regular meet-ups is such an odd feeling. They're able to talk about things theyre excited for, go out, get wasted and come back smiling the next day-
I feel jealous. I feel like such a terrible person because I'm jealous, too.
When I do get invited out, I'm quick to turn it down because I hardly feel like I fit in and like I can handle the pace of everything- I'm so negative and anxious in comparison to others.

Im surrounded by people but feel more lonely and out of place than ever.

Engage at your own will and pace, or don't. There are no rules.

 

[godsseepiestsoldier]

Yeah no i feel that and at uni theyre are so many people with intrests ive always been bullied for yet i still have trouble connecting with them.

 

[Ksmиda]

Just accept if you're invited. Either you'll have some new friends, or you will find out what kind of people you don't like hanging out with, in which case you can just not hang out with others when you're invited.
If people are inviting you, then that means they want to get to know you or they find you interesting.
Don't expect anything to change if you don't try.
Best of luck

 

[Forever Sleep]

I sympathise. That was me both at uni and now.