Venting War is taking its toll

[patonthehead]

The more I stay with my parent, even as an adult, they refuse to let me go home. I'm trapped here. All because russians decided it would be magical idea to attack us again, and because my parent purposefully treats me like a pet. I can't stand it. I tried to live so many times, to push through, and tried so many methods that i feel weak.
Now I quit my job, and when I finally get to talk with my parent over the fact hat I'm going home, they outright refused after long, long talk. No matter how much I try, it's always the same. I'm thinking of trying a lethal method now. No matter how painful - life is much more stressful than hours of slow death would ever be.

 

[Hvergelmir]

As an adult you don't need your parents approval. Their refusal shouldn't be allowed to hold power over you. Do what you want to do.

 

[patonthehead]

As an adult you don't need your parents approval. Their refusal shouldn't be allowed to hold power over you. Do what you want to do.

I certainly don't. I tried to tell them that. The only thing is, we're poor and their salary is higher than my own, bus from the country I live in back to Ukraine is expensive. Even if I do collect enough amount of money, I don't have a place to go bc we always moved houses and lived on a rent, they will quickly notice my absence and 100% immediately go after me. That happend several times already. If you're saying so, I believe you had similiar experience? I really would appreciated tips.

 

[Hvergelmir]

I believe you had similiar experience?

Experience with people trying to assert power that they don't have, yes. As simple as it sounds, the solution is simply to assert one owns power and independence.
They can come after you, but they can't legally stop you from doing anything.

I'm mostly stating the obvious, but more often than not, parental control is an illusion.
Focus on solving the practicalities, and try to ignore the control and oppression.