I do agree with you, but many people on this site would clutch their pearls at that suggestion, and prostitution is illegal in most countries, So, "fuck my life!" (no pun intended), as most virgins would say.
I'd say a better suggestion would be: "lower your standards, have sex with whoever shows interest the soonest, then worry about the fallout later".
For women, but not for men. Women's sexuality is far more fluid than men's. Haven't you seen "Girls Gone Wild"? Your suggestion doesn't help men at all!
My goal wasn't really to help men but to explain why I don't want sex. Actually understanding that can help men.
Don't be in such a hurry to get in her pants. Try to genuinely duscover who she is as a person, compatible interests, bond over them.
Try to care for her messed up emotions even if you can't see the logic in the chaos, comfort her with a hug without trying to get in her pants, just genuine affection. As a person not as a sex object.
If someone had done it for me, I'd probably be fucking my husband right now.
To the person who gave me an angry reaction because men tried to threat me like a toilet... I wasn't born to be a man's toy. I want a partner. An equal.
I'm glad Hollowillo made that comment. She seems to not mind being a virgin if it means having to wait for the affection and trust of a strong relationship. I wonder if those who complained about their virginity have standards as high?
Its certainly easier for woman then for men.
Thank you. But my standard are very low. Just not low enough to be discarted as a kleenex after he empty his balls. Or to be assaulted, dragged by the hairs, groped by strangers... I need a hug but some talk first... Assault isn't romantic.
