RainAndSadness

RainAndSadness

Administrator
Jun 12, 2018
2,133
Hello everyone.

It seems there are a few bad actors in this community trying to lure members of our forum into Discord servers with the goal to expose them to abuse. So if anyone here invites you into a Discord server and you're suddenly confronted with toxicity and bullying, take screenshots and send them to us - immediately. We will take swift and appropiate measures and remove these bad actors from this forum to ensure the safety of all members. There were reports about isolated incidents like these and I just want to inform the community for more awareness, in case it happens again.

The perpetrators in this case have been removed from this forum. Thanks for reading.
 
Last edited:
  • Like
  • Love
  • Informative
Reactions: Spectre, kråkevind, YandereMikuMistress and 101 others
strawberry_lemons

strawberry_lemons

Feel free to contact me <3
Aug 29, 2023
134
Thats awful, im glad its being taken care of! thank you for doing all you can <3
 
  • Like
  • Love
Reactions: Heartaches, sadandlonely99, Life'sA6itch and 10 others
アホペンギン

アホペンギン

Jul 10, 2023
2,199
Thank you for doing this, its horrible how bad people on this forum are capable of doing such things.
 
  • Like
  • Love
Reactions: sadandlonely99, Life'sA6itch, ImsooDone1N and 8 others
P

Praestat_Mori

Mori praestat, quam haec pati!
May 21, 2023
10,954
Thanks for all the efforts to make SaSu a safe place for so many people!
 
  • Like
  • Love
Reactions: Spectre, Psych3Lug3r, lachrymost and 12 others
D

Deleted member 8975

Guest
Remember to be safe than sorry...use a throwaway. They can't really do anything if they don't know your typical aliases.
 
  • Like
  • Love
Reactions: ImsooDone1N, Praestat_Mori, not-2-b-the-answer and 3 others
Anna.

Anna.

Wishing I never existed
Aug 24, 2022
68
Thanks for making this a safe place for us<3
 
  • Like
  • Love
  • Hugs
Reactions: ImsooDone1N, ShornSoloists, Praestat_Mori and 6 others
heavyeyes

heavyeyes

Oct 9, 2022
1,712
Remember to be safe than sorry...use a throwaway. They can't really do anything if they don't know your typical aliases.
Maybe use a vpn too?

Also don't use your actual email when signing up for a throwaway. Duckduckgo offers generated email addresses that will forward mail to your actual email address

It goes without saying don't use your real/full name, don't post any recognizable pictures of yourself or use them as your pfp, don't give out any specific details as to where you live, etc. Do your best to remain anonymous. Most people on this forum are trustworthy but there are outliers so use your best judgment

Like @atari said better safe than sorry
 
Last edited:
  • Like
  • Love
Reactions: therealcruffp, Ashu, ImsooDone1N and 7 others
not-2-b-the-answer

not-2-b-the-answer

Archangel
Mar 23, 2018
9,002
Thank you Rain. :heart:
I don't do discords anyway but we need to keep members safe.
 
  • Like
  • Love
Reactions: sadandlonely99, ImsooDone1N, AvoidingMyself and 5 others
Suicidebydeath

Suicidebydeath

No chances to be happy - dead inside
Nov 25, 2021
3,559
Thanks, that's disgusting behaviour from those individuals. I also don't do random discords, and I've only seen a few public links.
 
  • Like
Reactions: sadandlonely99, ImsooDone1N, AvoidingMyself and 4 others
RainAndSadness

RainAndSadness

Administrator
Jun 12, 2018
2,133
Bump.
 
  • Like
  • Hugs
Reactions: ImsooDone1N, AvoidingMyself, Praestat_Mori and 4 others
E

End Durance

Member
Jul 18, 2023
10
Gotta love it when people take advantage of the vulnerable. Totally doesn't reinforce any desires or thoughts at all! /sarcasm

I swear, Humans are just the worst sometimes...
 
Last edited:
  • Like
Reactions: maniac116, maneose, FERAL_FRENZY and 7 others
L

Louise Payne

Member
Sep 13, 2023
25
Hello everyone.

It seems there are a few bad actors in this community trying to lure members of our forum into Discord servers with the goal to expose them to abuse. So if anyone here invites you into a Discord server and you're suddenly confronted with toxicity and bullying, take screenshots and send them to us - immediately. We will take swift and appropiate measures and remove these bad actors from this forum to ensure the safety of all members. There were reports about isolated incidents like these and I just want to inform the community for more awareness, in case it happens again.

The perpetrators in this case have been removed from this forum. Thanks for reading.
I am here just to say that I appreciate you.
You are also a part of this community.
Yet you are here to protect us and keep this a place that we can all feel so welcome and safe.
Thank you for all that you do.
It does take up your time and effort and this is so valued.
 
  • Like
  • Love
Reactions: Seaghost, Ashu, Praestat_Mori and 3 others
Valky

Valky

Petulant Child
Apr 4, 2023
1,322
Ahh, had someone like that in my convos. Got really upset when I told them that I don't trust new discord servers from new members. Made me believe that I was just overreacting but he is banned now anyways lol, watch out people.

Bump bump bump
 
  • Like
  • Love
Reactions: lachrymost, ImsooDone1N, banger12 and 7 others
ManWithNoName

ManWithNoName

Enlightened
Feb 2, 2019
1,224
Thanks for your due diligence in this matter. There are times when I see a post from someone and it has a trollish vibe to it, and then I notice the member in question had joined the previous day or something.
 
  • Like
  • Love
Reactions: Ashu, lachrymost, ImsooDone1N and 3 others
Dot

Dot

Info abt typng styl on prfle.
Sep 26, 2021
2,847
Ahh, had someone like that in my convos. Got really upset when I told them that I don't trust new discord servers from new members. Made me believe that I was just overreacting but he is banned now anyways lol, watch out people.

Bump bump bump

Alwys trst ur instnct if u cn & rport
Thanks for your due diligence in this matter. There are times when I see a post from someone and it has a trollish vibe to it, and then I notice the member in question had joined the previous day or something.

Alwys rport if a pst cncerns u in n.e wy
 
  • Like
  • Informative
Reactions: ImsooDone1N, Praestat_Mori, heavyeyes and 2 others
W

Winterreise

I wanna be a baby and cry and be held forever
Jun 27, 2022
149
I can't be hurt
 
rainwillneverstop

rainwillneverstop

Global Mod | Serious Health Hazard
Jul 12, 2022
275
Dear all,

just another reminder about this post.

While incidents are isolated, mods have been made aware of another attempt of a group who lure members into discord servers with ill intentions.

2 users have been banned from the forum but please keep the following things in mind when interacting on the forum and contact mods with any concerns.
  • Off-site invitations from users who recently joined the forum.
  • Unsolicited server invitations from users with 0 prior contact.
  • Servers that are newly created from recently joined members.
  • Someone inviting you to a server following you posting a thread or asking for specific information.
  • Servers who have a user named Novi in the member list (This is the name of a profile that they are using to seemingly defame an innocent person.)
  • Their full name will not be given in order to prevent members searching for them but the acronym for the group name/server is 'NTS'
Remember that while these servers are separate from SaSu, no one on any site, forum or Discord server should ever actively encourage or suggest someone to ctb (including personal guidance,) and if that happens then the server and user profiles should be reported to Discord via the report option.
 
Last edited by a moderator:
  • Like
  • Informative
Reactions: sweetcreep, Higurashi415, Marine and 21 others
nottinghams

nottinghams

Official Written Apology for Being a Buzzkill
Apr 15, 2024
270
Dear all,

just another reminder about this post.

While incidents are isolated, mods have been made aware of another attempt of a group who lure members into discord servers with ill intentions.

2 users have been banned from the forum but please keep the following things in mind when interacting on the forum and contact mods with any concerns.
  • Off-site invitations from users who recently joined the forum.
  • Unsolicited server invitations from users with 0 prior contact.
  • Servers that are newly created from recently joined members.
  • Someone inviting you to a server following you posting a thread or asking for specific information.
  • Servers who have a user named Novi in the member list (This is the name of a profile that they are using to seemingly defame an innocent person.)
  • They like to call themselves Nourish the Soul but might use other aliases.
Remember that while these servers are separate from SaSu, no one on any site, forum or Discord server should ever actively encourage or suggest someone to ctb (including personal guidance,) and if that happens then the server and user profiles should be reported to Discord via the report option.
I just can't even imagine why someone would go out of their way this much to expose (and torment) users of this forum. I can't wrap my head around it, now my head hurts.
 
  • Like
  • Hugs
Reactions: Seaghost, whywere, heavyeyes and 3 others
EternalShore

EternalShore

Hardworking Lass who Dreams of Love~ 💕✨
Jun 9, 2023
928
I just can't even imagine why someone would go out of their way this much to expose (and torment) users of this forum. I can't wrap my head around it, now my head hurts.
truly, we suffer enough already~ :( Our existence on this website is not proof of our desire to harm others (as people so falsely claim) but to mourn the sorrows of our own lives and empathize with others~ :(
 
  • Like
  • Hugs
Reactions: Ashu, whywere, heavyeyes and 3 others
nottinghams

nottinghams

Official Written Apology for Being a Buzzkill
Apr 15, 2024
270
truly, we suffer enough already~ :( Our existence on this website is not proof of our desire to harm others (as people so falsely claim) but to mourn the sorrows of our own lives and empathize with others~ :(
I don't think anybody on this site has anywhere close to the desire to harm others, just the desire to find relief of suffering for ourselves 💔
 
  • Like
  • Hugs
Reactions: Ashu, Tony24, whywere and 4 others
C

Cute_&_Loving

I like trinkets:)
May 10, 2023
424
I don't think anybody on this site has anywhere close to the desire to harm others, just the desire to find relief of suffering for ourselves 💔
I'd beg to differ…..
 
  • Aww..
Reactions: ImsooDone1N, heavyeyes, Downdraft and 1 other person
nottinghams

nottinghams

Official Written Apology for Being a Buzzkill
Apr 15, 2024
270
  • Aww..
  • Like
Reactions: ImsooDone1N, Cute_&_Loving and heavyeyes
C

Cute_&_Loving

I like trinkets:)
May 10, 2023
424
Really I meant people trying to make other people ctb, which is what some weird news anchors think we're doing.

But. yes.
I wouldn't be surprised that some people here are guilty of that. This place is not designed for anything like this. But I wouldn't be surprised that somewhere in private chats someone tried to force someone to die. Due to anonymity, we can come across all kinds of people. Truly mentally sick people who are capable of anything really.
 
  • Aww..
Reactions: Catch-22, ImsooDone1N and heavyeyes
L

lacrimosa

Experienced
Jul 1, 2024
233
I wouldn't be surprised that some people here are guilty of that. This place is not designed for anything like this. But I wouldn't be surprised that somewhere in private chats someone tried to force someone to die. Due to anonymity, we can come across all kinds of people. Truly mentally sick people who are capable of anything really.
That's why the whole partners thread is really sketchy IMHO. What if there was a real sadist on there? You never know until it's too late.

Be safe, be smart, don't meet some random off the internet to CTB. Other than that, this site is pretty safe provided you aren't a complete idiot.
 
  • Like
  • Love
  • Informative
Reactions: Downdraft, Cute_&_Loving, heavyeyes and 1 other person
maniac116

maniac116

My own worst enemy🌹💔
Aug 10, 2024
438
Hello everyone.

It seems there are a few bad actors in this community trying to lure members of our forum into Discord servers with the goal to expose them to abuse. So if anyone here invites you into a Discord server and you're suddenly confronted with toxicity and bullying, take screenshots and send them to us - immediately. We will take swift and appropiate measures and remove these bad actors from this forum to ensure the safety of all members. There were reports about isolated incidents like these and I just want to inform the community for more awareness, in case it happens again.

The perpetrators in this case have been removed from this forum. Thanks for reading.

Hello everyone.

It seems there are a few bad actors in this community trying to lure members of our forum into Discord servers with the goal to expose them to abuse. So if anyone here invites you into a Discord server and you're suddenly confronted with toxicity and bullying, take screenshots and send them to us - immediately. We will take swift and appropiate measures and remove these bad actors from this forum to ensure the safety of all members. There were reports about isolated incidents like these and I just want to inform the community for more awareness, in case it happens again.

The perpetrators in this case have been removed from this forum. Thanks for reading.
Thanks for the heads-up!🌹💔
 
  • Like
Reactions: Myforevercharlie
S

sadlittleman32

Member
Sep 17, 2024
90
It's so ironic that it took me to the point of wanting to end everything to finally feel safe for the first time in my life! Thank you for creating this forum 😊
 
  • Love
  • Like
Reactions: Plato'sCaveDweller, Myforevercharlie, lacrimosa and 1 other person

Similar threads

GuessWhosBack
Replies
7
Views
935
Recovery
butterflyguy
butterflyguy
bugs_for_brains
Replies
6
Views
568
Suicide Discussion
bugs_for_brains
bugs_for_brains
RainAndSadness
Replies
20
Views
5K
News & Announcements
jarik
jarik