our families know us, they know the hell we are going through, they would understand that potentially this isn't impulsive and that our choices were made through a life time of pain and trauma, they would know not to blame themselves, whilst maybe holding regret they could not help us, but would in some ways be able to say, they did everything but the demons won,
Strangers on the other hand know nothing about us, would sit and question everything, want to understand, wouldn't understand, couldn't understand, wouldn't know if it was an impulsive choice that would have been changed,, they would hold guilt and so much more
Families you can leave letters for, strangers you simply cannot as you do not know them, nor do they know you