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Parnate

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Dec 16, 2021
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I am gay. I don't want to be a woman but I feel very uncomfortable in my gender as a man. My body, my voice, my body language. I am extremely conscious about all this. I often very uncomfortable when I see myself in videos of mine. Or if I hear my voice recording. What do I do ? How do I overcome this ?
 
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metfan647

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Jun 12, 2025
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What is it that concerns you most? Perceptions of others? Do you live in a country where being gay would be frowned upon?

I'm no expert at all, but I strongly believe you have to just embrace yourself and the traits you have. Interact in a way that you want around people you feel 'safe' with. Avoid people you perceive as judgmental and you'll be fine.
 
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Parnate

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Dec 16, 2021
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What is it that concerns you most? Perceptions of others? Do you live in a country where being gay would be frowned upon?

I'm no expert at all, but I strongly believe you have to just embrace yourself and the traits you have. Interact in a way that you want around people you feel 'safe' with. Avoid people you perceive as judgmental and you'll be fine.
Perception and f others is one thing, but also I feel that I don't fit into my gender that so many things about me are not as they should be. I mean my behaviour etc is not as per my gender.
 

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