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Not in this lifetime
- Jun 13, 2024
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Yes, it's mandatory hereDid the police investigate his cause of death?
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Yes, it's mandatory hereDid the police investigate his cause of death?
Thanks for sharingI'm sorry for your loss. I remember him, although I didn't actually know him or anything. We clashed a bit on anti-natalism stuff, actually. He was a huge proponent of it and I think I said it was a waste of time as people will always want to reproduce, because it feels good if nothing else. I do get the sense he was hurting a lot, and I really hope he's in a better place.
That was beautifully written and I think you got his character pretty wellI'm so sorry for your loss. I really appreciate your open-mindedness, though I would totally understand if you're (also) feeling frustrated or even angry with this forum.
I didn't have the chance to meet your brother, but after reading his posts I really wish I had, as we have a lot in common. I think it has been really tough for him to deal with (probably) autism and OCD in his own life while at the same time holding a philosophical pessimistic outlook on life in general. I read that he was also vegan which, from my own experience, makes it (almost) impossible to have a positive view of humanity and life itself, because wild animals suffer immensely as well.
Many of his posts are driven by frustration, but it's clear to me that he was a clever and compassionate guy. You can only be frustrated with something if you care about it. Reading between the lines in his posts, I'd bet that he really loved you and his close family. He was an anti-natalist, so rationally he didn't feel any gratefulness for his birth, but it's obvious to me that he deeply cared about your mom.
I hope you can find some closure and maybe understand him and his decision a bit better through his posts. Please feel free to (privately) ask any questions.
Thank you for your wordsI'm really sorry for your loss. Your respectfulness, compassion and lack of judgement is really such a breath of fresh air and appreciated. It sounds like you really cared for your brother. If it helps, I frequent the chats a bit and I don't quite recall seeing him there. I will ask around and let you know if anyone knew of him and wants to reach out. I hope you find what you are looking for
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