If one is a thinking caring person, then one knows the issue is more than just "pronouns". Depending on the source, Trans kids are about 6 x more likely to either think about suicide or actively attempt than cis or hetero kids. Those are staggering statistics. If using the preferred pronouns can reduce the incidence of suicide, then why is it even an issue? And the whole argument about identifying as a "cat", etc. is simply a bull-shit argument that has no basis in reality. It is the same as the Stella Awards which are made up by the insurance industry to discredit lawyers and the civil court system.
As one of the older folks on this forum, I can't fathom what it is like everyday to have your mental health questioned. Anyone who is openly trans has to have more courage than I can imagine. But, know there are people who are pulling for you to succeed. I am one of them even though I'm not sure I actually know any trans people. I believe that the quality of a person is based on what is inside their heart and not their pants.