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Meditation guide

Meditation guide

Always was, is, and always shall be.
Jun 22, 2020
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This site has people with very severe mental illnesses, who don't always know how to act or say things politely.
 
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checkouttime

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Jul 15, 2020
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The issue here isn't infiltrators. There's a significant minority of genuine members who are not exactly fluffy, and the community has a difficult choice of allowing them and their brand of suicidality at the expense of a more hostile environment, or expelling them and making this place a censored hugbox.

the member posted that some miserable people enjoy making others miserable, so i made the comment in regards to what type of people do that. what do you mean not exactly fluffy? i find there alot of members that claim things like oh he's toxic etc because they aren't genuine themselves. i feel the issue is infiltrators in alot of cases myself, they are the ones that spark the genuine members to react in a toxic way.

no1 is forced to stay here, if people don't like the way the site is run and things that get discussed don't moan about it just leave.why stay somewhere you don't like, just doesn't make any sense at all. the rules are there and the moderators are here to decide what right and wrong NOT the members, thats how it is.

like i'll quite happily post toxic stuff about the revenge groups because they like to antagonise members of this site, you'll find thats tolerated on this site though and so it should be. they don't like a taste of their own medicine. but i have no problems with genuine members though.

its a suicide forum sum stuff gets heated, why people expect it to be Disneyland is beyond me. i'd guess them people don't understand mental health myself.

there's also alot of toxic threads mocking members, mocking SI, mocking goodbye threads, mocking ordering stuff, mocking the search being able to find the search button and all sorts. none of that stuff gets removed, but you get on with it as it ain't me who makes the rules.
This site has people with very severe mental illnesses, who don't always know how to act or say things politely.

and what a shock/horror it was, when i found that out after joining a suicide forum!!! I mean really, are people so naive they thought it was going to be anything else. you'd think genuine suicidal people might understand what its going to be like.


i mean just say it to yourself a few times....suicide forum....suicide forum....does aptly what it says on the tin, provides information about a person killing themselves. some people aren't ok with that and thats fine. just leave then, its rather simple and easy answer to the problem.
They need to learn to use harmless sarcasm to hide their true (truly scary) nature like you, me & our bitchboy G. Well, I'm off to work. Old men's asses won't pound themselves.

i think some people need to grow a set of balls and stop claiming there being attacked every time something they say is questioned. its like everyone is meant to just believe what others say, only a fucking idiot would do that. i spent time researching. unfortunately alot members don't seem to bother, then they try blaming methods when it was there fault.

unless you want to slag off the social media mob, then there just fair game:blarg:
 
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checkouttime

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Jul 15, 2020
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This is often bothering me as well. Recently 2 forum members announced to CTB and someone straight on asked them to PM a link to their livestream. Come on.

I think sometimes people do this so others can see what its like or maybe even because hey want company. you will also have people doing it in order to prove how easy or what happens etc, they probably do this because of all the information posted to scare people on the site. this is EXACTLY the sort of issues the misinformation causes, people going to extremes because of the false stuff put on this site to show other it isn't true. I think the lad from Sweden ( think thats right) did exactly this and for that reason, so others could see alot of stuff posted is false. so although people think there little post of misinformation is doing no harm you can see what type of shit it can cause, and no its not good at all.

you got people doing it on fucking FB aswell now
Usually I'd comment on post/comments because…well it's the open internet, people post what they want, people respond how they want.
Bur literally the best thing to do is use the ignore/unwatch/block features.
The amount of users I've blocked/ignored is crazy high.
People sharing too much info, people saying weirdly odd shit, people asking questions that can be easily answered just by a simple search in t comments.
If you disagree with somebody, it's literally like the other person logs out of one account into another (accounts made same day lol) just to disagree with you further.
It's crazy, then again some people are too heavily invested into this place.
Some ask questions that are black or white answers that causes odd content.

Also people need to start putting off topic stuff in the off topic sub, not the suicide sub lol

Tldr: make use of block/ignore feature.

I'm with you on this, so much BS is posted on the forum, thats equally as toxic a a person just getting angry with another. fake profiles, threads to mock members, misinformation. Its worse now than when i joined at 1st. Seen all this crap before with bipolar nonce and his chums. i sussed them out well before he was sacked off the site aswell. he had multiple accounts aswell i would agree with you on there being a few of the m aswell.

I don't know why we have constant threads on stuff thats been talked about a 1000 times before myself or people bringing back threads where someone has ctb already and they ask a question like they will reply lol

like you said ignore people or leave the site if you aren't happy, its just common sense to most. and don't expect it to be a stroll in the park either!!!
 
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baby blues
Apr 17, 2021
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Been on here for almost 2 years now(different account) and it's certainly gotten worse. I left for about a month or two, just came back and there's so many new people as well as rude comments and harsh judgement. It really hurts to see that especially when we are all so vulnerable and finally found a place we can talk about our true thoughts and feelings. The amount of times I've hit "ignore" on a user is getting ridiculous. Then there's also the private messages you have to deal with which are hard. I wish everyone could learn to sympathize just a little better and realize even if we don't have the same problems, we are all in the same boat.
 
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StevieNixs

StevieNixs

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Jul 22, 2021
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Note I'm not talking about specific individuals in this topic, but rather about the general environment on this forum.

There has been some toxicity on this forum since I joined, but I feel like this is only increasing over time. While it may be a controversial topic to discuss (and I hope people can keep it civil in their responses), but I feel it's something that needs to be addressed. I will show two recent examples and the second one is the actual reason I'm creating this topic.

1) The goodbye topic of a user who announced she would be using her N. For those who did not read it, I'll summarize: she poured out her N and was ready to drink it, but her SI took over and she didn't manage to do it. Perfectly reasonable. While there has been a lot of support for her, the topic is also full of people questioning her, being judgemental and accusing her just of asking for attention. Wow. Just wow. This is a clearly vulnerable person who's in a lot of pain, yet some people feel like it's acceptable to start behaving like this.

2) Related to that topic is the case of @Octavina. In the topic above, she asked if she could have the unused N. Obviously, this question is not appropiate at all. In the next posts, people pointed this out to her in a rather harsh way. A few minutes later, she created her own goodbye topic, announcing she just took SN impulsively. From what it looks like based on her last posts, this incident may have been the final trigger for her. This is a really sad story.
https://sanctioned-suicide.net/threads/taking-sn-now.71772/

(As someone pointed out in this topic, Octavina showed toxic behavior in that topic as well, on which people obviously responded quite harsh. My intention is not to let anyone feel guilty here, but rather address the atmosphere sometimes occuring on this forum.)

Especially this second example is what let me write this post. I get it, we're not always in a good mood to say the least. Still, maybe we (yes, that includes myself) should reflect on how and what we post. We're all vulnerable people here, for many of us this is the last place to go, hoping to find people understanding us. This place shoud be a welcoming place, and while it often is, toxic behavior is ruining it sometimes.
Happened to me as a new user when I was outlining the pain of having to pack up my deceased sister's house whilst feeling suicidal myself. I explained that clearing her house with my family was traumatic, causing flashbacks and exacerbating my desire to CTB when my family certainly did not need two funerals to plan within a month! So I just spoke about how the impact of this made me determined to pack my own house up beforehand so my family didn't have to go through this again. The backlash from one user was immediate and did leave me wondering whether this was the site for me. I simply do not understand this need to be so combative. When I followed the other posts of this individual - same thing - almost bullying tbh. In future should this individual respond to any of my posts, I will simply ignore them. I wish there was a block function.
 
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Dear Agony

Dear Agony

The Void
Jan 24, 2020
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Lol sorry, but the funniest thing to me is that the people who accused her of bragging or doing it all of attention; that she wasn't going to kill herself anyways etc, probably wouldn't have even been able to pour it. Suicide IS a hard thing. You are going against the most basic biological instinct ever. It is the hardest thing one can do in life. Being paralyzed by fear is not something to be ashamed of, and I'm honestly disgusted and shocked at any answers that aren't supportive in her thread, considering this is a site to offer support and resources to suicidal people.
 
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motel rooms

Survivor of incest. Gay. Please don't PM me.
Apr 13, 2021
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Yeah but before you reported me and got the post removed you quoted it, which means it's still there.
I know exactly what I did & why I did it. You think you won because people can still read your self-incriminating comment, genius? :haha:
 
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Taki

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Jul 30, 2019
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I agree with the OP though I've been spared it myself. My own thoughts on toxicity:

-Almost everyone here is extremely isolated in their real lives. They don't come here to fight.
-A subset of people here are just angry about everything and clearly get off being sarcastic, sharing gory information. That has no place here. If you're angry about things and people outside this forum that's fine but don't target other users.
-Joining a suicide forum doesn't absolve you of responsibilities to other people. If you want to be freed of all your obligations there is an obvious solution to that.
I also thank everyone who's taken quick action to get abusive and manipulative users banned.
 
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mossyfox

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Aug 4, 2021
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I find some responses a bit too nonchalant, like asking technical questions or derailing to own story on a goodbye post, not the right place. A person's life is ending in front of us after all.
yes, I hate reading a goodbye thread and people posting selfish questions. I would want the comfort of knowing that if I choose to make a goodbye thread on the forum that it would be focused on me and words of peace and not interrupted by self centered humans. just stay off the thread if you aren't there to give good bye wishes of peace or just be there.
 
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Feb 1, 2021
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Over the past two years it almost seems like this place has been the subject of a 4chan raid.

Or maybe when Reddit shut down /r/watchpeopledie, they all moved here.

I remember when mods of that subreddit stalked the PTSD forums asking for salacious stories from users.

There are some real fucking creeps out there. Be careful on here, particularly because if you're here for real, you"re in a real bad spot.
 
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Pure

Specialist
Jun 29, 2021
366
I think as SS becomes more well known to the public, more people who are not suicidal are going to come for incorrect purposes. On one hand, you have the anti SS group, on the other hand, you'll have psychotic people who get off to people's despair.

Mods should take heed
 
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WatermelonMel

Melon Master
Aug 19, 2019
408
I just want to add that sometimes people come across as toxic even though they don't mean to be, like maybe they don't have much social experience or suck at communicating.

Though, there has definitely been genuine toxicity (a lot of it), and some people join this site just to troll because they don't like that it exists.

It's just important that these 2 don't get mixed up. :heart:
 
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Rhaiyne

"To be - or not to be.... That is the question"
Jul 4, 2021
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I just want to add that sometimes people come across as toxic even though they don't mean to be, like maybe they don't have much social experience or suck at communicating.

Though, there has definitely been genuine toxicity (a lot of it), and some people join this site just to troll because they don't like that it exists.

It's just important that these 2 don't get mixed up. :heart:
Really stupid question but I'm going to ask anyway... how do you tell the difference? I'm driven by emotion and if I happen to identify with someone's emotions through their perception, then I sometimes reach out.
How do you tell on forums who is for real?
 
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WatermelonMel

Melon Master
Aug 19, 2019
408
Really stupid question but I'm going to ask anyway... how do you tell the difference? I'm driven by emotion and if I happen to identify with someone's emotions through their perception, then I sometimes reach out.
How do you tell on forums who is for real?
I guess if there's a pattern of toxicity with someone then that's how you know, but if it's just a post or two that you've seen with that behavior it could be a misunderstanding.
 
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checkouttime

Visionary
Jul 15, 2020
2,899
Really stupid question but I'm going to ask anyway... how do you tell the difference? I'm driven by emotion and if I happen to identify with someone's emotions through their perception, then I sometimes reach out.
How do you tell on forums who is for real?

you don't realistically, That is why people are told to do plenty of research, and figure it out for themselves. I actually had the old email for the sources of N, i came back on here and figured out the new email and where to find it. I mean i'm not going to question if a moderator is legit or not, i would think they are chosen for a reason.



really makes me laugh people telling the moderators how to do their job and whining on, seriously if you don't like how the sites run feel free to leave. people make out like they are being forced to say. Its pretty clear also that sum people don't understand anything about mental health and there are thousands of different types and versions, this site isn't prejudice against any of them.

I could totally see them anti SS social media mob groups (notice the owner of the site doesn't even refer to them as pro choice, thats his name for them lol) whinging about people being toxic and complaining about moderators. awww poor them getting a taste of their own medicine back, fucking cry babies, what a load of mard arses they are. you'll find they are fair game on this site.

No 1 is forcing anyone to be here. If people see something they don't like feel free to report it and an offence is committed it will be dealt with. or just block member otherwise there are plenty of options available.

I noticed on one of the other threads alot of people claimed a member was being nasty to someone and their posts taken down. in the same thread a member was banned. then you had all the people ganging up on the member who had actually had their post deleted, and started abusing him and suppose they think thats ok, when its not.
 
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Snake of Eden

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Jun 22, 2021
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I agree and I would add that many here are socially inappropriate due to autism which has a spectrum or severe untreated BPD. In @Octavina case specifically, you could tell she was very young or (developmentally stagnant) and possible unaware of her inappropriateness. Thus she had an inappropriate response to both the thread and a strong response to those who gave her a reprimand.
Thank you very much for bringing ip the point of autism here. People dont realize how autism can make someone sound like insensitive or that they lack empathy. I struggled with the same thing too on one recent ctb with partner thread when I pointed out my frustration that a witness who was supposed to be documenting the process of their friend taking N wasnt realized and I kept whining about it and everyone pointed out how insensitive and tastless my complaints was and that makes me into a selfish prick. I apologized in the end but also explained that as an autistic it is really frustrating not to see things pan out as planned. A friend here whom i said that to dismissed it as bogus autism stuff and didnt want to believe that it is a thing and she insisted that I am showing my true colors. I had to apologize because people wont leave me alone one after the other were coming at me with all sorts of accusations
 
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checkouttime

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Lol sorry, but the funniest thing to me is that the people who accused her of bragging or doing it all of attention; that she wasn't going to kill herself anyways etc, probably wouldn't have even been able to pour it. Suicide IS a hard thing. You are going against the most basic biological instinct ever. It is the hardest thing one can do in life. Being paralyzed by fear is not something to be ashamed of, and I'm honestly disgusted and shocked at any answers that aren't supportive in her thread, considering this is a site to offer support and resources to suicidal people.

I would think a genuine member might realise that sometimes suicidal people do things as a cry for help and do want attention, i don't think you should judge people that do that as they are some of the most vulnerable people there is.
 
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Jun 28, 2021
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Report people who cross the line and are assholes. Then ignore them. Reporting is what should happen. I'm surprised a few are still not banned. It clearly states in rules one must not be disrespectful.

It's so obvious how frantic and angry the beligerant people are on here. Brash and bizarre.
 
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celan

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I didn't read the whole thread (because my depressed brain makes focussing on reading quite hard) and I don't want to sound like a hippie. But we are all sad, hopefully lost and suffering people. People that suffer should be empathic and feel for other people that are in the same place.

I know that life breaks you and drags you down and I understand that some people get cynical.

But I don't think it's necessary to be unnecessarily rough, implicitely insulting or harsh to others.

A lot of people, including me, are highly sensitive persons, and that doesn't mean that they are pussies by the way, and we could just be a little more supportive and empathic to each other.
 
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checkouttime

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Report people who cross the line and are assholes. Then ignore them. Reporting is what should happen. I'm surprised a few are still not banned. It clearly states in rules one must not be disrespectful.

It's so obvious how frantic and angry the beligerant people are on here. Brash and bizarre.

I'm not 100% sure but i would think mocking people for being angry might be against the rules? I mean people come on here to vent you know, they are angry. are you judging them people , i don't think thats fair as a genuine member i can understand it though

I mean you do them fixthe26 and stop SS types getting really angry because of their own failures in live, they just try and blame members on here for their lack of parenting skills, when they should just get on with it really. nothing going to bring there dead kids back, its seems even revenge(the one who mocked and abused rue89) isn't good enough to stop here anger.

I did read a laughable post by one of the angry member of the social media mob saying just give me the address of one member lmfao:pfff::pfff::pfff::pfff: why didn't she post her own address if she's so tuff lol not thats some anger that!!!!
 
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Alwaysbadtime

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Jun 28, 2021
1,158
You're not making sense...and I suspect you are trolling...I don't care. Mocking? Huh. I'm ignoring you. This comment is jibberish and I don't need this kind of shit. I'm responding to @checkouttime They quoted my response but it's disappeared.
 
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HopelessFight

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It's quite ironic how I make a topic about toxic behavior in another topic and the people involved come other to this topic to continue their toxicity.

If you somehow manage to have a conflict with other people in literally every topic you're activily posting in, you should ask yourself if maybe, just maybe, you might be the one who's wrong instead of everyone else.
 
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checkouttime

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You're not making sense...and I suspect you are trolling...I don't care. Mocking? Huh. I'm ignoring you. This comment is jibberish and I don't need this kind of shit. I'm responding to @checkouttime They quoted my response but it's disappeared.

whats doesn't make sense about people come here to vent who are clearly angry??your mocking them saying they are brash and bizarre. i don't think thats very nice at all.
I see alot of the fixture26 and stop SS people whining about stuff on here, there a bit late there kids have already CTB. they like to post toxic stuff , they gang up one people and claim people are angry, gang up on members and attack themas they don't like being bullied back.

I mean apart from that i don't see anything else toxic, i mean the moderators do a great job in making sure anyone who breaks the rules is warned. it just seems some members seem to think they make the rules and run the site, get over yourself i say. If you don't like it either deal with it or leaven and the other can go back to their social media mobs as they don't help anyone anyway, and get a life and get over that dead kid thats all your fault and your shit parenting they should stop blaming SS for being failures
 
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Alwaysbadtime

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Jun 28, 2021
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whats doesn't make sense about people come here to vent who are clearly angry??your mocking them saying they are brash and bizarre. i don't think thats very nice at all.
I see alot of the fixture26 and stop SS people whining about stuff on here, there a bit late there kids have already CTB. they like to post toxic stuff , they gang up one people and claim people are angry, gang up on members and attack themas they don't like being bullied back.

I mean apart from that i don't see anything else toxic, i mean the moderators do a great job in making sure anyone who breaks the rules is warned. it just seems some members seem to think they make the rules and run the site, get over yourself i say. If you don't like it either deal with it or leaven and the other can go back to their social media mobs as they don't help anyone anyway, and get a life and get over that dead kid thats all your fault and your shit parenting they should stop blaming SS for being failures
You're really fixated. I have every right to use descriptive words to describe someone's oddness and triggering comments. The person I refer to as brash berated someone for an unnessassary reason. They continued to spout hate and it was very obvious they didn't really read the person's comment and literally made shit up that was toxic. Do you know what brash means?

Your comment here again is rambling. It sucks you are suicidal. I relate, however being angry and being abusive and then saying oh fyi I am not suicidal anymore I just come on here to 'help' is fucking ridiculous.

How do you know mods warn 'anyone who breaks the rules'? Harrassing suicidal people is some serious dark shit. Please stop arguing with me and my reactions to shitty people.
 
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Feb 6, 2021
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whats doesn't make sense about people come here to vent who are clearly angry??your mocking them saying they are brash and bizarre. i don't think thats very nice at all.
I see alot of the fixture26 and stop SS people whining about stuff on here, there a bit late there kids have already CTB. they like to post toxic stuff , they gang up one people and claim people are angry, gang up on members and attack themas they don't like being bullied back.

I mean apart from that i don't see anything else toxic, i mean the moderators do a great job in making sure anyone who breaks the rules is warned. it just seems some members seem to think they make the rules and run the site, get over yourself i say. If you don't like it either deal with it or leaven and the other can go back to their social media mobs as they don't help anyone anyway, and get a life and get over that dead kid thats all your fault and your shit parenting they should stop blaming SS for being failures

At this point, you just sound like a broken record.

Chill out, mate...
 
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checkouttime

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At this point, you just sound like a broken record.

Chill out, mate...

Everyones allowed there own opinion its the great thing about this site. no1 cares about the revenge groups and what gets said about them as its all true anyway. boohoo for them, really funny how they would whinge and cry about the toxicity of this forum. Its simple they can't handle this site because they aren't suicidal. there kids enjoyed it though and glad we was able to help and stop there suffering. i really hope i was able to help their kids get away from them personally, maybe i'll meet them one day and tell them how much there parents want to help others but were never bothered about helping them.

I spoke to one person who knew members of these groups and they told me some members had molested there kids and were then trying to blame it on Sys why they ctb. makes total sense as that s why they welcomed with open arms that peadophile jeremy as they are nonces involved with them already. no fucking wonder they ctb with parents like that.
 
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wordsonscreen

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Jan 21, 2021
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Yes, this story is really sad, but, in case you missed it, @Octavina also insensitively accused an extremely vulnerable person of just bragging about having expensive N that they were never actually going to use. That is why some members got annoyed & her insulting comment was removed. I didn't say anything to @Octavina, but those who did were much more polite than her. It's not fair to make them feel guilty that she ingested SN...
Treating someone poorly because they also treated someone inappropriately is just finger pointing. You are deflecting the problem of overall toxicity that does indeed exist on this forum, as provided in the (few of many) examples by OP. Deflecting the basic human responsibility of treating each other with kindness and justifying insulting a conscious human being for any reason is the opposite of the point of this thread.

OP did not used the term guilt or blame for anyone on the forum. In fact, you, as a reader, brought it up. Sounds like you already understand that being mean to people has serious consequences which can induce guilt. We do not exist in a vacuum. Our actions affect people.
 
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You're really fixated. I have every right to use descriptive words to describe someone's oddness and triggering comments. The person I refer to as brash berated someone for an unnessassary reason. They continued to spout hate and it was very obvious they didn't really read the person's comment and literally made shit up that was toxic. Do you know what brash means?

Your comment here again is rambling. It sucks you are suicidal. I relate, however being angry and being abusive and then saying oh fyi I am not suicidal anymore I just come on here to 'help' is fucking ridiculous.

How do you know mods warn 'anyone who breaks the rules'? Harrassing suicidal people is some serious dark shit. Please stop arguing with me and my reactions to shitty people.

if a person did something wrong report it to the mods and stop thinking you run the site. they will then do something about it if needed.

Aww don't say it sucks i'm suicidal i might cry, i bet it doesn't suck as much as finding your kids dead and SS was good to them and stopped them suffering. I really hope i helped these peoples kids, i understand how shit their lives must of been with those type of parents. nothings going to bring them back, try as they might there gone forever.

the mods run the site how they seem fit and is you don't like it i guess thats just tuff look. no1 is forcing you to be in this 'toxic' place. I've been warned for calling someone a liar, nothing else though :wink: so i know they warn people,i did apologise for it though.

i agree these revenge groups claim they want to help but its just simply revenge and nothing else, and even then its not enough. my kids dead so i'll go and dox another families kid so their relative ctb, yeah that what were dealing with here. braindead morons who aren't even clever enough to realise how stupid they sound

your right harassing suicidal people is dark shit, and its even better when you get to bully them people back as not everyone is weak like they seem to think.I mean these idiots try to act tuff by saying if they had members on here address what they would do....yeah fuck all thats what apart from post it on social media.shit bags using there kids death to look good on FB and twitter
 
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Some people here really have no chill and is why I'm barely active now.

As for your presented case, I'm fortunate enough to not have encountered the post, but learning of this leaves me massively disappointed.
I feel you.

I left for a bit because of toxicity and have returned to, honestly, a worse culture on here. By worse I mean - lacking in self awareness, compassion, and helpfulness. It is more than disappointing since this is supposed to be many user's only social interaction. I also do not think illness or suicidality absolves one of the responsibility of their behaviors. I doubt it helps people that are already hurting to be met with unkind comments on here. I've definitely seen people go out of their way to be rude on here.

Its a challenging issue however because this site does not represent a "normal" slice of society. As such, expectations where you'd have a balance of heavily compassionate, empathetic folks and those who have varying degrees of it including non-existent compassion may not show up in the interactions.
THIS. Precisely. I also have a sense that sometimes people that have malicious intent try to blend in as well. Hurt people do hurt people.
I know it sounds like a cliche but as general rule I ask myself this before I post:

"
T – TRUE. Is what you are saying actually true, or is it 'fake news'? Lies and misinformation hurt others and reflect the liar as someone untrustworthy.
H – HELPFUL. Are your words helpful? Assisting others to make better decisions through offering good advice is also important.
I – INSPIRING. Are others inspired by what you are saying? People are greatly inspired by words which have the influence to prompt others to do amazing things.
N – NECESSARY. Do your words really need to be said? Useless chatter is annoying, while language that actively hurts others is wholly unnecessary.
K – KIND. Is what you want to say kind? We all know the saying "if you don't have anything nice to say, say nothing at all". Unkind sentences obviously have the power to hurt people.
"
Thank you for this! It is a lovely guideline we should all think about before posting. It is better to not say anything than cause harm - overtly or covertly.
 
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if a person did something wrong report it to the mods and stop thinking you run the site. they will then do something about it if needed.

Aww don't say it sucks i'm suicidal i might cry, i bet it doesn't suck as much as finding your kids dead and SS was good to them and stopped them suffering. I really i hope i helped these peoples kids, i understand how shit their lives must of been with those type of parents. nothings going to bring them back, try as they might there gone forever.

the mods run the site how they seem fit and is you don't like it i guess thats just tuff look. no1 is forcing you to be in this 'toxic' place. I've been warned for calling someone a liar, nothing else though :wink: so i know they warn people,i did apologise for it though.
Somehow even though I am 'ignoring' you I am still seeing your continued fixation. You must stop. You can't control others. Your comments really aren't making sense. I already have a headache...and I have no fucking idea why you are so FIXATED. I never said this is a 'toxic place'. I agreed there are toxic people. You're right- since I am not a mod I have 0 control over banning people. I DO have every right to report them and call them on their shit. I don't exactly understand what you are pissed about.

Just because you were warned doesn't mean EVERYONE is when they do shitty stuff. Again, trolling suicidal people is dark shit. You really need to calm down. I don't think it's useful what you are doing and resaying again and again.

I really will IGNORE now. You're not warranting me to report you, however it's really a drag.
 
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