wisp
Member
- Oct 19, 2023
- 65
To live as an eternal neet as if there were an invisible hand crushing you, that doesn't allow you to find a work situation or a partner during your entire life, even if you work hard taking courses, going to therapy to understand where the problem is, for years.
True, as long as you have a roof over your head (a house you own, so you don't pay rent), you have two parents who love each other, you have food, you have the internet, you have a PC, you have a smartphone... nothing is missing, except your independence and your emotional and 'spiritual' (I can't think of another term for a relationship) development.
You rely on strongly materialistic things when you make these speeches, totally leaving out the psychological aspect. When you get to a certain age, it becomes burdensome not to be independent, not even to be able to pay for the upkeep of a car and petrol, because you can only find underpaid, undeclared jobs, which obviously do not guarantee you any (even a short) future.
What is the point of continuing to live like this? As a neet, every day is the same. You only leave home if you have a gym membership, because you don't even have a penny to go out with your friends. You have no job and the wages you get are embarrassing even for refugees.
For years I've been going on telling myself 'whatever, it's a phase, tomorrow is another day', when the next day is exactly the same as the one before. I'm going crazy, I wish I could at least be useful in the family but I'm just a burden.
I'm tired of living like this, but tomorrow is another day
True, as long as you have a roof over your head (a house you own, so you don't pay rent), you have two parents who love each other, you have food, you have the internet, you have a PC, you have a smartphone... nothing is missing, except your independence and your emotional and 'spiritual' (I can't think of another term for a relationship) development.
You rely on strongly materialistic things when you make these speeches, totally leaving out the psychological aspect. When you get to a certain age, it becomes burdensome not to be independent, not even to be able to pay for the upkeep of a car and petrol, because you can only find underpaid, undeclared jobs, which obviously do not guarantee you any (even a short) future.
What is the point of continuing to live like this? As a neet, every day is the same. You only leave home if you have a gym membership, because you don't even have a penny to go out with your friends. You have no job and the wages you get are embarrassing even for refugees.
For years I've been going on telling myself 'whatever, it's a phase, tomorrow is another day', when the next day is exactly the same as the one before. I'm going crazy, I wish I could at least be useful in the family but I'm just a burden.
I'm tired of living like this, but tomorrow is another day