Discussion To die alone, or to die alongside another.

[Oudenophobia]

I'm familiar with the concept of suicide pacts, but I'm unaware of how common they are. What would be your choice if both options were available to you?

 

[Abyssal]

Alone. Can't explain why, it just feels right. I know I'll die happy that way.

 

[Oudenophobia]

Alone. Can't explain why, it just feels right. I know I'll die happy that way.

Sometimes things don't need to be explained.

 

[hurting]

I would like to take that journey alone and on my own terms.

 

[Oudenophobia]

I would like to take that journey alone and on my own terms.

You do what you feel you need to do. if and when the time comes.

 

[hurting]

You do what you feel you need to do. if and when the time comes.

Absolutely

 

[FuneralCry]

I wish to die in peace far away from other people.

 

[ijustwishtodie]

I honestly don't even care if I died alone or with others provided that I actually end up dead. Nonetheless, I did choose the first option because I prefer to die alone

 

[Oudenophobia]

I wish to die in peace far away from other people.

Perhaps in time you will get what you wish for.

I honestly don't even care if I died alone or with others provided that I actually end up dead. Nonetheless, I did choose the first option because I prefer to die alone

It would appear that the goal of dying is more important to you than the circumstances surrounding your death.

 

[Tokugawa_Yoshinobu]

I don't trust anyone enough to commit suicide with. This is a sole and lone endeavor for me at least.

 

[Oudenophobia]

I don't trust anyone enough to commit suicide with. This is a sole and lone endeavor for me at least.

It's hard to have faith in others when life seldom gives you a reason to.

 

[Slow_Farewell]

I don't trust anyone enough to commit suicide with. This is a sole and lone endeavor for me at least.

This. I know I'm going to have trouble with my own SI, i dont need to deal with someone else's SI on the day as well.
Aside from that, I dont see the logic on the need to have a pact with someone or have someone present and do it at the same time.
Logically speaking, i'm sure i'll just be a statistic when I do it anyway, and that somewhere, someone in the world is attempting the same thing and will probably be successful as well. So same result (me dying with someone at the same time, just different locations) without the pact thing.

 

[Oudenophobia]

This. I know I'm going to have trouble with my own SI, i dont need to deal with someone else's SI on the day as well.
Aside from that, I dont see the logic on the need to have a pact with someone or have someone present and do it at the same time.
Logically speaking, i'm sure i'll just be a statistic when I do it anyway, and that somewhere, someone in the world is attempting the same thing and will probably be successful as well. So same result (me dying with someone at the same time, just different locations) without the pact thing.

I certainly see your point there. Thank you for this.

 

[hikikomorizombie]

i've always wished i had some1 to make a suicide pact/commit shinjū w. it would def greatly lessen my fear, & after being alone my whole life + being alone for eternity after death, i think ending my final moments w a nice change of pace & having companionship would be pleasant, & add another layer of feeling to it as well.

a user on here (can't remember who unfortunately) also told me once that they were greeted into the world when they were born, so they'd also like to be sent off by some1 when leaving it. & i like that.

 

[Oudenophobia]

i've always wished i had some1 to make a suicide pact/commit shinjū w. it would def greatly lessen my fear, & after being alone my whole life + being alone for eternity after death, i think ending my final moments w a nice change of pace & having companionship would be pleasant, & add another layer of feeling to it as well.

a user on here (can't remember who unfortunately) also told me once that they were greeted into the world when they were born, so they'd also like to be sent off by some1 when leaving it. & i like that.

Is there any particular way you'd like to spend your last day with said person? I imagine that everyone has their own idea of how they would like their last day to go, be it complex or simple.

That's an interesting sentiment.

 

[onbekend]

Both have their perks, Going out with someone else might make me feel a little more comfortable with it but going out alone is probably a safer option because I'm more likely to go uninterrupted so I chose alone.

 

[divinemistress36]

When my dog gets put down I wish I could be put down together with him and holding him

 

[hikikomorizombie]

Is there any particular way you'd like to spend your last day with said person? I imagine that everyone has their own idea of how they would like their last day to go, be it complex or simple.

mmmm, not really. there's not even a particular last day i'd wanna have solo. there's nthg abt life i <3/will miss enough when i'm dead to ensure i experience it 1 last time b4 kms.

we'd prob just chill around somewhere smoking weed & cuddling & shooting the shit, eating copious amts of junk food, swapping life stories + traumas till it was time to die :) that's the dream.

 

[Oudenophobia]

mmmm, not really. there's not even a particular last day i'd wanna have solo. there's nthg abt life i <3/will miss enough when i'm dead to ensure i experience it 1 last time b4 kms.

we'd prob just chill around somewhere smoking weed & cuddling & shooting the shit, eating copious amts of junk food, swapping life stories + traumas till it was time to die :) that's the dream.

A rather simple way to go, but it seems incredibly fitting for you. I appreciate you sharing.

 

[mortuarymary]

Got to be alone.

 

[Oudenophobia]

Got to be alone.

We all have our reasons for our decisions.

 

[mortuarymary]

We all have our reasons for our decisions.

That's just for me. I know others like to do it with someone else

 

[Oudenophobia]

That's just for me. I know others like to do it with someone else

Thank you for sharing.

 

[Linda]

Alone. Preferably out in the wilderness.

 

[Oudenophobia]

Alone. Preferably out in the wilderness.

To each their own preference.

Both have their perks, Going out with someone else might make me feel a little more comfortable with it but going out alone is probably a safer option because I'm more likely to go uninterrupted so I chose alone.

At least you've considered both options.

 

[Aim]

I would love to die with someone else. And the comfort in bring to be two people. Or if someone would hold your hand. Or just chatting

But after thinking about this subject long and trough. I don't I could handel it. I think I would be to worried if I survive and the other person dies. That it will probably just make it even more stressful. I think.

 

[Oudenophobia]

I would love to die with someone else. And the comfort in bring to be two people. Or if someone would hold your hand. Or just chatting

But after thinking about this subject long and trough. I don't I could handel it. I think I would be to worried if I survive and the other person dies. That it will probably just make it even more stressful. I think.

That's a risk one would have to be willing to take, and not one that anybody could be expected to take lightly.

 

[Oudenophobia]

When my dog gets put down I wish I could be put down together with him and holding him

That sounds peaceful.