Absolutely agree with this, this user has benefitted from administrative decisions weighted so heavily in their favour for years, now we're at a point where FC is complaining daily that this still is not enough for her despite the excessive indulgence afforded to her.
That's the entire point. I am wasting my time and that's why I'm here. My entire life is just me wasting my time away until I'm dead
Found funny response to my previous message
Could you clarify/elaborate?Found funny response to my previous message
I hope you find peace whether you decide to leave the world or not
I can sort of understand your point, I felt anti-existance and and anti-life in general when I was younger. But maybe you can also see that, for some of us on this site, even though we are suicidal (emphasis on SOME) we would rather life astronomically improve than off ourselves outright. Some of oscillate pretty dramatically between wanting to live and wanting so badly to just die. Some of us are more passive in our suicidal ideation. Some of us(at least i know i do) don't see suicide as the grandiose glorified thing…we see it as the final, depressing, grim option that we wish we didn't have to resort to, hence the encouraging words sometimes.
What or …who are you referring to funeral cry? if you don't mind me asking….
) This is kind of what I was mentioning because I don't usually see many pro lifers here unless I go into the recovery section ? But that's understandable I guess so I don't really feel the need to complain …..
Ok I found one
Sir can you please escort yourself to the recovery section ……. I don't exactly know what you're doing here ….
no way a person with so much contempt for the world and themselves wouldn't have found a way to end themselves by now
She probably doesn't want to cause any drama by replying to any of the comments which is understandable
The ONLY person you have the right to help is yourself. The right of autonomy over one's own body and decisions regarding their body is sacrosanct. Once you start your proselytizing you are seeking to gain control over someone elses inherent rights. ONLY if a person asks YOU for assistance, do you THEN have license to give them help. UNTIL someone asks YOU for help, it would be wise for you to mind your own business and ONLY concern yourself with your OWN issues.
Omg of course they have to allow me to help, i didn't say anything about forcing help to people, did I? I meant to offer help and if they are in desperate situation and tell me they need it, here i am. Why u assuming i would force anyone to get better? I have my own problems aswell. But offering help ans then help if one need it is a good thing, that's what i am saying and maaaaany times happened someone said "i am gonna ctb" And i said "need to talk first? " And they said "yes please" So sometimes it's just crying for help. Responding only "good luck" Without offering support is in my eyes cruel and inhuman. If they say "sorry, i am rly determined" Then yes. But offering help is bad? No it's not bad at all.
To me, just from your words, it seems very clear that your motivations are entirely to talk people out of their own autonomous decisions, and to see things your way. I mean what else could be the motivation to wanting to "talk" to someone? And it seems that in your views, if someone hasn't sought help and treatment, that if they haven't exhausted ALL OPTIONS, that they, somehow, forgo their right to bodily autonomy? Your views seem to indicate that people aren't capable of making their own decisions unless and until they 1) exhaust all options including undesired treatment and/or 2) talk with you first.
It's interesting in this posting that the first line you post to attack FC's personal opinions is how she, apparently, figuratively "cries" out in her posting about all of the pro-life mantra that she perceives has permeated this forum. That seems quite telling to me in so much as what she wrote struck a nerve with you (bashing the pro-life mantra). Then immediately after, you quickly seek to distance yourself and, I assume, your views, from the pro-life viewpoint with the following:
I didn't "attack" Her. I was talking about all those comments here. How ppl calling helping people being pro lifers. And how this forum stricky is against accusations it's pro-ctb, how many people here changed their minds and live happily. Yes? Okay they got better on their own not bcuz of this forum fr. And if u guys say I am a pro lifer bcuz i offer help to someone who is in desperate situation... Well guess what, thats why people study psychology to help. If you support the idea it's not pro-ctb, but pro choice, why u even having argument with me? Bcuz it seems you feel better when someone says the going to do it. We are talking about human being and their lives. I am not saying i have top save the world. I just have enough of empathy to offer help and if they accept, it's up on them. Lol am i being attacked now for being helpful or bcuz i care about others? No, it's not my selfish need to save others. It's not making my life better, it's just urge to offer help to someone in need, i think at least to offer it makes us being human beings and not ignorant ones, who just watching it from far away. Btw if you see someone struggling on the street it's even illegal to not offer help same as it should be totally usual among people to be helpful and emphasize with other people's sorrows. U can come with any argument and you won't change my mind about the topic. I will be always pro-help bcuz i know how does it feel to be lonely and don't know what to do. And I pitty everyone who just say "good luck" and sleep calmly after friend says they going to ctb. It's not human and it's not okay to close your eyes in front of someone elses misery. I am just different okay. I am severely suicidal myself and sorry. People still will feel the urge to not be completely alone with theirs feelings or last moments, that's human.
I think you attacked her ideas. Evidently, you feel differently. I'll leave it at that.
No i didn't even read that well the post itself i clicked and seen comments, i was talking to people who commented, not to her. We can leave it yes. I don't think you have any other arguments for letting people to die etc. Ciao.
