These burning lights will be out by morning. (My goodbye post)

[BurningLights]

What was the main factor in its success rate?

Dedication from the user. For ME at least.
I'm sure if I worked at it more, started from scratch, I will find it much more reliable. O strongly urge anyone reading this to read the night night method (megathread?)
Get the basics set up and work from there.

 

[1234dave]

Friend if you wan't to opt out there is absolutely no shame. I might get banned from here for saying this, hope not, but for every time someone here chooses life I will be happy. Unless you're a child molester, which I know you aren't.[/
You'll be happy, may be the person who chose life, as they didn't have another option, isn't.

I know this comes across brash, and you only intend to be caring but it's the way of the world. It's down to the individual and the individual only, nothing to do with anyone else's emotions, they don't need to be mentioned, completely irrelevant.

Maybe I'm being harsh.

 

[BurningLights]

I'm confused, I only see the text I replied to.

 

[1234dave]

There we go again selfish human nature. You'll be happy, may be the person who chose life, as they didn't have another option, isn't.

I know this comes across brash, and you only intend to be caring but it's the way of the world. It's down to the individual and the individual only, nothing to do with anyone else's emotions, they don't need to be mentioned, completely irrelevant.

Maybe I'm being harsh, its a double edged sword

 

[Letmego. Please]

Hey BurningLights,
I started reading this thinking what a useless bastard i was for not popping in for a few days & missing my chance to say goodbye to someone who had in the short time i had been here, been nothing but kind caring & compassionate and honestly in that short time you had left an impression on me, so there i was reading & gutted that i had missed you.
Where you are at now, i understand that so well (i'd be deed already otherwise) I am so sorry for everything you have gone through the last few days, the anticipation the sense of relief and calm & yep even excitement, to the crushing awareness that its failed, confusion, pain and hope all mixed up in dispare (sorry dyslexic & tried for ages to work it out)
Its fucking shit eh.....

Anyways sorry for the ramble, just wanted to give you a virtual Hug.

 

[BurningLights]

Hey BurningLights,
I started reading this thinking what a useless bastard i was for not popping in for a few days & missing my chance to say goodbye to someone who had in the short time i had been here, been nothing but kind caring & compassionate and honestly in that short time you had left an impression on me, so there i was reading & gutted that i had missed you.
Where you are at now, i understand that so well (i'd be deed already otherwise) I am so sorry for everything you have gone through the last few days, the anticipation the sense of relief and calm & yep even excitement, to the crushing awareness that its failed, confusion, pain and hope all mixed up in dispare (sorry dyslexic & tried for ages to work it out)
Its fucking shit eh.....

Anyways sorry for the ramble, just wanted to give you a virtual Hug.

Oh it's been a journey alright, an dtour totally right, you nailed the emotions and feelings. I'm going round in circles in my head at the moment, I need to be more motivated, I mean, I've really fucked up, i got a big mess to clean up, but then for what? Just to have a few days of comfort and before I land back here again.
Thank you for your message, I'm glad we are able to talk :)

 

[Letmego. Please]

Like i said my friend, i have been where you are and its not nice, not even a tiny winey bit, deflated, defeated & so much more, i wish i could be of some comfort to you but i know its not always that easy.

For whatever you do, respect and love :)

 

[Anyara]

Burninglights i said it before, and I will say it again, if you feel like talking till you are ready to CTB feel free to do so and message me.
I am here for you. Cause I can imagine you might want someone with a listening ear till you are ready.

 

[orchidteeth]

I wish you peace and comfort in whatever happens.

 

[Enough no more]

I do not know you yet after all you have said I feel your pain and anguish. Now wasn't the right time maybe, but the right time will come. You seem a really nice, honest person. Never give up on what you want and every one has your back