The demonization of personality disorders

[PeacefulTonic]

Blah blah blah blah have you studied psychology? You're an expert? Have personality disorders? No? None of it?
Why are you even talking this is so embarassing. Imagine having 0 knowledge about something and speaking over people with the disorder.

Most men don't rape people? Oh my god. Why are men speaking over victims???????
There are no "good men" "less abusive men". They're all equally bad. All they want is sex. Rape isn't always violent. And no, you're not entitled to talk about people with personality disorders and demonise them further. Not even surprised pissful tonic liked your replies. You all are openly misogynistic and you don't even try to hide it.
People with no prior work in psychology really claiming crap about personality disorders and having it labelled informative

Not sure why you involve me just because I liked a post. You call every guy here misogynistic, but your misandry is okay? @Hass @RainAndSadness @Meretlein

 

[PDAnnie2610]

It's your choice to make a very generalized comment that I, a random internet stranger wrote, about you.

It is your choice to use your brains and not make generalised statements about people and conditions you don't know. Do you have a specialised degree in psychology to make that statement that you did?

@Meretlein
@RainAndSadness
@Hass

 

[liberty_222]

It is your choice to use your brains and not make generalised statements about people and conditions you don't know. Do you have a specialised degree in psychology to make that statement that you did?

@Meretlein
@RainAndSadness
@Hass

Baby i just want you to remember you and your experiences are very much valid.

 

[PDAnnie2610]

What demonisation? Can you or someone be a little more specific? Is being called out for your abusive behaviour demonisation?

If you read my post again i was specifically talking about people with cluster B PD's, not people with PD's. My post came from my personal experiences about those people, and i have known a quite a bit of them.

Also i don't think it's that part they found informative, but the concept of many cluster B people having a mind that experiences normal life events as traumatic. This is not brought up nearly enough.

My post wasn't about rubbing salt to the wound though. It was about facts. If the shoe fits then wear it. If not, there is no reason to be offended.

Normal experiences as being abusive? Wow.

Yes I've a cluster B PD. But to dismiss childhood molestation, a decade of being bullied and being cornered and hurt by my peers as normal really tops the cake in terms of invalidation.

If you don't have a degree in psych and don't have extensive experience carrying out research (n = 120 or more) on data collection on personality disorders, you should just hold your tongue and stop this inconsiderate generalisation.

 

[tiredandconfused]

It's hard to read everyone's messages. From both sides. I grew up with a parent with npd and Munchausen's by proxy. I believed everything that I was told as a child. That I was less of a person. I have spent two decades trying to prove to myself that I'm ok. I really struggle with isolation. I don't want to be sensitive. I don't want to be a burden. My own diagnosis was so hard to come to terms with. I feel like I failed as a child and I failed as an adult. I want to be 'normal'. I want to sleep. To not panic. To not have my head feel like it's bursting. I over compensate and try and give back too much. I know my experiences. I know the abuse I have experienced. Most people with bpd have been through trauma as a child. We are not difficult people that crave attention. If anything it's the opposite. I try to take full responsibility for my recovery and well being. I accept life and the things I have/ don't have. I work in a job which needs me to give full attention and care to others. It's probably the thing that kept me going. A little purpose. We should try and keep in mind that no two people with any condition are the same. Our experiences are not the same. All we can do is be the best versions of ourselves.