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that's so awful I'm sorry that happened to you, no parent should be able to say that to the child they brought into this world.
my mom made life living hell for me, she abused me, beat me up and didnt let me socialize. Shes one of the many reasons i will cbt
I was adopted when I was a newborn, and my birth parents ruined my life by having sex when they did. Fuckers should have used protection. My birth father tried to reach out and connect with me when I was like 18 (because he legally could). I wanted absolutely nothing to do with him, but I didn't want to be an asshole about it. So I just brushed it off as I was nervous to meet him and I said "maybe in the future haha" its been 9 years since then and I still have yet to meet the bastard.
blocked her number, I didn't need to hear it anymore. I had already gone back and forth with her over text, she had some drinks, initially it was about some unrelated family issues.but it spiraled into how she hadn't been the mother i needed when I was younger and still isn't.
Honestly, you handled it better than me. I can't move up past my current position at the shitty dead end job I work at currently, because when people get on my REALLY bad side too many fucking times (which is honestly hard to do, because in recent years I've kinda stopped giving a fuck) and shit talk me I shit talk em back 10x harder to the point where they break down emotionally. If they shit talk me back even harder instead, I shit talk them back until they give up or break down emotionally. I sort of take it too far.
but my philosophy in recent years has been shit talk my friends or me and get owned.
same, but my father mostly. though my mom shares the blame too.
I relate, my mom often told me similar things, you get used to it, but it still hurts. I'm pretty sure she never fully meant it, but it's still awful to tell this to your own child.
