Teen suicides are just sad

[SpaxeZ]

Imagine growing up being forced to go to school which is like a prison system in most places till you're 18 and then you finally get the chance to be free and live your life on your own but then having to kill yourself it's just so sad when I think about my life.. like I gone through all that shit to end up like this at 25. To me suicide more than anything is about having access to methods. If I had a sure method I'd be gone by now

 

[FuneralCry]

In my case I see death as relieving instead, there is no sadness in being unable to suffer in this futile existence that just leads to decay and death anyway. I'm also only trapped here as suicide is cruelly made so inaccessible, it'd be very compassionate to allow people the option of Nembutal to prevent all future suffering.

The true sad thing is how humans so harmfully decide to procreate, the tragedy is how they create unnecessary suffering and problems by forcing the burden that is existence onto others. I only see nothingness as desirable, to have the ability to exist is a curse.

 

[leavingthesoultrap]

I always feel sick to my stomach whenever I read a posts that mention that op lives with their parents. I hope these ppl are 18 at least. I guess they very well could be as housing is so incredibly expensive nowadays

 

[Despondent_Fondant]

There are WAY too many teens on here and yes it is definitely very troubling that they should seek suicide so early in life or at all.

I live in Canada, and we publish yearly extremely in detail statistics about all deaths within our borders. For men between the ages of 15-19, suicide is the second leading cause of death, behind accidental. https://www150.statcan.gc.ca/t1/tbl...dYear=2022&referencePeriods=20000101,20220101 . Yes I did cherry-pick those filters, but suicide among teens is an epidemic. I personally fall within those parameters, and suicide is something that's a constant struggle in my life. Although I did recently start both therapy and anti-depressants, hopefully they fix me. I guess with this post I just wanted to highlight that suicide among teens really is the invisible enemy.

 

[sukuna]

Maybe it's sad but it goes to show how fucked up the world is

 

[todienomore]

in the clinical literature, i ran into the term 'pediatric suicide'

 

[F@#$]

There are WAY too many teens on here and yes it is definitely very troubling that they should seek suicide so early in life or at all.

I agree,I've noticed an increase in the last week or two.

 

[Eastone]

Part of me finds it so depressing, because I do think most of them could be helped. But, I'll be honest, part of me is a bit envious. They made the choice that I still struggle to follow through with - even though I am WAY past my teen years - and it gets harder as you get older.

 

[hellispink]

Its just this world, this sick world we live in. From little , younger years a lot of us lived very much nightmares abuses etc. Its still happening will always happen. I am a grown adult . But my suicide thoughts ideation started at 11y. I cant really blame anybody. They have their reasons. I wish i had left when i was 11 honestly it would have saved me so much shit

 

[Deleted member 65988]

There are WAY too many teens on here and yes it is definitely very troubling that they should seek suicide so early in life or at all.

Couldn't agree more, I'm a little older in age but yes, I definitely do think it's really troubling.

 

[Forever Sleep]

I agree,I've noticed an increase in the last week or two.

Ever since Tantacrul did his video- there was a massive increase.

 

[Abyssal]

As others have said, I've noticed something of an increase recently. I technically don't live with my parents, but I'm still reliant on them for a great deal of my financial situation as well as being monitored on my mental health. I think some people have misconstrued that as being a teen and have been reaching out to me saying things like "my homework" or "my english class" which is VERY concerning. The worst part is that I feel like people think I'm one of them and it eats away at me.

 

[Yuna is My Waifu]

The abuse and bullying i got from school as a teen was terrible and i wanted to die all the time, i just haven't done it yet cause I'm a coward. It doesn't surprise me though that the teen rate is so high, schools are nightmare factories.

 

[Hannah05]

I'm 18 and I feel this. I just can't anymore. I have to die.

 

[heavyeyes]

I always feel sick to my stomach whenever I read a posts that mention that op lives with their parents. I hope these ppl are 18 at least. I guess they very well could be as housing is so incredibly expensive nowadays

I live with my dad and I'm almost 30 lol. I'm disabled but even if I wasn't it would still be too expensive not to live at home or in a house with multiple people

Imagine growing up being forced to go to school which is like a prison system in most places till you're 18 and then you finally get the chance to be free and live your life on your own but then having to kill yourself it's just so sad when I think about my life.. like I gone through all that shit to end up like this at 25. To me suicide more than anything is about having access to methods. If I had a sure method I'd be gone by now

If I had access to a solid method I would've been gone at 15/16. Unfortunately I didn't but now is a better time as any

 

[hibikikyuxx]

Everyone will die one day anyway. Doesn't make a difference if someone dies now or later. What I consider sad is people being so selfish that they force someone to come into existence and suffer through life, all because they are selfish pleasure seekers. Like, if you want a child that badly then there are many orphans out there that desire a home and adoptive parents, but no, you want a mini copy of yourself that badly, huh? It couldn't get more narcissistic.

 

[loopdaloop]

Ever since Tantacrul did his video- there was a massive increase.

Yeah, he talked about the forum on a platform (youtube) that a ton of minors use that would have never found their way to this site without that video... He played dumb by not bluntly mentioning the name of the site but that was just plain manipulative because anyone that came across that video could search and find the site without putting any effort into it. He has ironically increased the 'minors problem' of the site...

 

[Praestat_Mori]

Not only abusive parents but also unnecessary high pressures, social and in school, are major causes for teens to become depreessed and suicidal. Then there's all the social media stuff, which obviously also has an impact on this topic.

 

[ijustwishtodie]

I always feel sick to my stomach whenever I read a posts that mention that op lives with their parents. I hope these ppl are 18 at least. I guess they very well could be as housing is so incredibly expensive nowadays

I will never understand people who think that 18 is just this magic age where everybody is suddenly independent and able to live on their own. That said, I used to be one of those people before I turned 18. However, now that I am 18, I realise that people's notions about this age is all bs

 

[doomedtolive]

Maybe it's sad but it goes to show how fucked up the world is

the school system too. if i got more support with my illness at school i wouldn't wanna ctb as much bc of my grades. ive given up on a future because if i drop out its over for me

 

[ayb]

There are WAY too many teens on here and yes it is definitely very troubling that they should seek suicide so early in life or at all.

Yep, it sucks. However I guarantee you that even if there was an actual age verification in place that prevents minors from accessing the site, opponents would still try to shut down SS.

Legalize and regulate assisted suicide already (including for non-terminal reasons as well). Then the parents will have an actual leg to stand on. You don't keep the practice banned then bitch and moan when consenting adults create a site on CTB'ing by their own hand.

 

[heavyeyes]

Yeah, he talked about the forum on a platform (youtube) that a ton of minors use that would have never found their way to this site without that video... He played dumb by not bluntly mentioning the name of the site but that was just plain manipulative because anyone that came across that video could search and find the site without putting any effort into it. He has ironically increased the 'minors problem' of the site...

He manipulated the narrative seemingly to his advantage only for it to blow up in his face. What an idiot. Guaranteed he'll never actually take accountability for all the minors he led to this site. He seems like a narcissist tbh

 

[LetMeBeSad]

I will never understand people who think that 18 is just this magic age where everybody is suddenly independent and able to live on their own. That said, I used to be one of those people before I turned 18. However, now that I am 18, I realise that people's notions about this age is all bs

Fucking, thank you. I'm a fair bit older now but, this magic age makes no difference whatsoever. It's completely arbitrary. And actually kind of goes against evidence that says our brain isn't fully developed until the age of 25. It's absolutely ridiculous.

Unpopular opinion: people should have the right to end their lives regardless of age. I tried the first time when I was 8.

If suicide had been less stigmatized, maybe I could have reached out to someone or told someone how I feel. Maybe I would have tried anyways. Maybe not. But at least there would have been an opportunity to address my feelings. Rather than just stabbing myself in the chest and then covering it up.

And before anyone asks, I have had the conversation with my 17 year old niece and one of my nephews that is 12. I was there for them in a non invasive way that helped them understand some things they may not have considered. I didn't fucking stigmatize their experience and they didn't try to kill themselves, big fucking shocker!!

Does it make me sad that my niece and nephew feel this way. Absolutely. I would miss the fuck out of them and I would feel for my sister and brother. But, IT'S NOT MY FUCKING CHOICE. Nor is it my place to make children feel bad about an already shitty situation.

People that believe this bullshit are exactly like pro-lifers. They are personally uncomfortable with the idea of someone young killing themselves (even though they likely wish they had done it themselves at an early age). Set aside your personal opinions about this magic age of 18 and realize that this is not your choice.

 

[ijustwishtodie]

Fucking, thank you. I'm a fair bit older now but, this magic age makes no difference whatsoever. It's completely arbitrary. And actually kind of goes against evidence that says our brain isn't fully developed until the age of 25. It's absolutely ridiculous.

Unpopular opinion: people should have the right to end their lives regardless of age. I tried the first time when I was 8.

If suicide had been less stigmatized, maybe I could have reached out to someone or told someone how I feel. Maybe I would have tried anyways. Maybe not. But at least there would have been an opportunity to address my feelings. Rather than just stabbing myself in the chest and then covering it up.

And before anyone asks, I have had the conversation with my 17 year old niece and one of my nephews that is 12. I was there for them in a non invasive way that helped them understand some things they may not have considered. I didn't fucking stigmatize their experience and they didn't try to kill themselves, big fucking shocker!!

Does it make me sad that my niece and nephew feel this way. Absolutely. I would miss the fuck out of them and I would feel for my sister and brother. But, IT'S NOT MY FUCKING CHOICE. Nor is it my place to make children feel bad about an already shitty situation.

People that believe this bullshit are exactly like pro-lifers. They are personally uncomfortable with the idea of someone young killing themselves (even though they likely wish they had done it themselves at an early age). Set aside your personal opinions about this magic age of 18 and realize that this is not your choice.

Exactly all of this. I agree so much. This age of 18 is completely arbitrary and it doesn't mean anything. I mean is a 17 year old really that much different from an 18 year old?

I agree with your unpopular opinion too and, while I would say I'm shocked that many people on this site would disagree, I'm not really shocked as almost everybody is biased towards children. I remember a thread tantacrul made on here where he was talking about a 17 year old who killed themselves and everybody there was so sympathetic for that person all because he was 17. Sure, suicide is tragic and it's awful people suffer so much to get to this stage to begin with but I believe that this applies to everybody, not just those below 18. I mean I was sympathetic too but because of how he killed himself to begin with, not because of his age. Same goes for everybody else regardless of age. Literally if he killed himself a year later, people wouldn't have reacted the way they did. Is the difference between a 17 year old and an 18 year old that great? I don't think so.

Suicide is tragic for everybody regardless of the age and it should be a personal choice for everybody no matter what. But hey, it's like I always said, humans are emotional creatures, not logical ones. Same goes for everybody here, even me. And people's bias for children is too powerful to where, despite people here saying that they wished to die at a young age, they would always try to prevent another young person from making the choice to die.

You seem like one of the few logical ones to remain which I'm sure your niece and nephew will appreciate. Thank you

 

[penguinl0v3s]

It's not even going to school that's bad. Usually a bad home life is 10x worse than having to go to school.

 

[RichardFirst]

Ultimately, the decision to CTB is a personal one. If a teenager genuinely doesn't want to be here, it's not for me to stop them. However, suicide is a permanent solution to what may be a temporary problem...

I honestly feel bad for teenagers these days. I'm 37, so I grew up before social media was a thing. There was not yet any genuinely whacky ideology at work, and what was there did not have the reach.

 

[LetMeBeSad]

However, suicide is a permanent solution to what may be a temporary problem...

1. You don't know what the problem may be and not a clue if it's permanent or temporary. Many mental health problems don't get sorted out because the psychiatrist can't sort out what diagnoses you even fucking carry.

2. It's pro life drivel. Empty. Platitude. The only thing you're missing is the picture of Robin Williams looking off in the distance with a slight, but definitely happy looking smile.

3. Life is temporary. Who cares about whether the problems are temporary or permanent. Problems in general are permanent. We will never be free of them. That's life. So who cares if I have to deal with one permanent problem or a series of temporary ones. Still have problems.

I hate that saying so much. It's pointless bullshit spouted by someone that didn't take the time to think about it. And I'm not just saying you. I think anyone that says it is inconsiderate and lacks the ability to think before they speak.

 

[RichardFirst]

1. You don't know what the problem may be and not a clue if it's permanent or temporary. Many mental health problems don't get sorted out because the psychiatrist can't sort out what diagnoses you even fucking carry.

2. It's pro life drivel. Empty. Platitude. The only thing you're missing is the picture of Robin Williams looking off in the distance with a slight, but definitely happy looking smile.

3. Life is temporary. Who cares about whether the problems are temporary or permanent. Problems in general are permanent. We will never be free of them. That's life. So who cares if I have to deal with one permanent problem or a series of temporary ones. Still have problems.

I hate that saying so much. It's pointless bullshit spouted by someone that didn't take the time to think about it. And I'm not just saying you. I think anyone that says it is inconsiderate and lacks the ability to think before they speak.

You're missing the sentence that I wrote immediately before that:

"Ultimately, the decision to CTB is a personal one. If a teenager genuinely doesn't want to be here, it's not for me to stop them"

 

[LetMeBeSad]

You're missing the sentence that I wrote immediately before that:

"Ultimately, the decision to CTB is a personal one. If a teenager genuinely doesn't want to be here, it's not for me to stop them"

Yes. Thank you for acknowledging the right to die. Which I agree with. You'll have to forgive me, I wasn't aware that as long as we recognized the right to die first, we can say whatever inconsiderate things we like after.

 

[RichardFirst]

Yes. Thank you for acknowledging the right to die. Which I agree with. You'll have to forgive me, I wasn't aware that as long as we recognized the right to die first, we can say whatever inconsiderate things we like after.

You're on an open forum; you are going to read things that you may not agree with. :(