Discussion Suicide pacts?

[hrsprayqn]

Why is it that you think suicidal pacts are (statistically speaking) so rare?

If it was possible I always thought it would kind of comforting to ctb with someone else other than alone, and feel it would reduce the instinct to back out.

Just wondering anyone else's opinions, if possible would you rather ctb alone or with another?

 

[jodes2]

If one of you fails it's a likely prison sentence

 

[Avyn]

I assume because it is hard to find a suicide partner that's on the same page as you and a lot of things can go wrong.
Surely some on this forum successfully ctb with a partner they found from here, but it's so much work to travel and trust a random stranger online when you are most vulnerable. I assume that's why it doesn't happen as much

Also, what if the other person wants to kill themselves in a couple of years instead of right now?
What if you can't agree on the same methods together?
What if you survive and get accused of murder/arrested?
What if they change their mind and decide suicide is not for them?

I would love to ctb with a romantic partner, my bf introduced me to that idea but he changed his mind and became "pro life".
Especially after being lonely all my life, it would feel so much better not being alone in my last moments

 

[BillyBob]

Having an extra person can mess things up abit.
In many places it is illegal to have a suicide pact and there is a chance that the person you meet up with could be fake.
Then there is the issue of someone possibly backing out causing you to fail.
As someone mentioned it could lead to prision if one of you fail which is worse then living.

 

[BasqueClown]

Suicide is the ultimate private and freedom stage that a human could do.
Doing with a complete strange terrifies me. And I know that is almost impossible to find a girlfriend who wants to die together to me, so suicide pacts are totally out for me.

 

[Gustav Hartmann]

I had a suicide partner, I chickened out, he is probably dead now. I regret my behaviour, it is easier when you are not allone.

On the other hand, the above mentioned risk to go to jail exists. We planned to hang ourselves in a remoted forest, when he would do it first and I don´t have the courage to follow him I would have a problem.

 

[FuneralCry]

A suicide pact would be an absolutely terrible idea, you just cannot trust people and anyway there is so many risks involved in such a thing, at least to me suicide is already something that is difficult and complicated enough without involving someone else. I think that it's for the best to die alone and that's what I would prefer anyway.

 

[terminalending]

A suicide pact sounds good, but it comes with too many risks. My biggest fear is that I will fail and my partner will succeed and I will be arrested. Moreover, finding a partner, especially online, can be difficult and risky. If I would find someone to be with in my life, I would be very careful to make sure it works out for both of us. However, I don't think suicide with a partner should be encouraged, the disvantages overweigh the advantages!

 

[pele]

Is anyone currently looking for a suicide pact?

 

[themisfell]

I don't trust other people lol

 

[jaxxon_sunn]

Is anyone currently looking for a suicide pact?

Kinda, whats your timeline?

 

[wanttodie]

Is anyone currently looking for a suicide pact?

yes

 

[joshdoc]

IMHO a suicide pact with a total stranger is out of the question since ctb is something too deeply intimate and personal to be shared with just about anybody!Yet on the other hand there are way more people out there considering or fantasizing about suicide than you would possibly dare to imagine.Not too long ago I was visiting a longtime friend in her spacious London flat.One evening over some lovely red wine I mentioned how welcoming and cozy I found her home and how I loved the architecture of its rooms,most of them being graced with stylish wooden beams.As the evening went on one way or another we got around discussing the ctb topic,eventually and to both of our utmost surprise finding out that we happen to share the exactly same ideations about committing suicide by hanging!!!I told her how tantalizing these beams and rafters in her flat were to me and before long we were right in the middle of planning our consensual hanging.The following morning after a delicious as well as sumptuous breakfast we hit the nearest DIY shop and bought some fine Manila rope about 3/4 of an inch in diameter...(to be continued)

 

[inkyabyss]

I think suicide pacts are rare because most people who are suicidal are alone. Personally I don't want a suicide pact because I want to die alone but I completely understand why others desire the closeness before they die.

 

[AllFoxedOut]

just way too risky. I don't want to end up the entertainment of some freak or be sexually assaulted (AGAIN)! maybe if I had a close friend or partner I could trust that really wanted CTB with me then maybe

 

[pele]

Kinda, whats your timeline?

July 2 2024 but I'm in Hawaii

yes

What's your timeline? Also note I'm in Hawaii

 

[Peerless_Cucumber]

I assume because it is hard to find a suicide partner that's on the same page as you and a lot of things can go wrong.
Surely some on this forum successfully ctb with a partner they found from here, but it's so much work to travel and trust a random stranger online when you are most vulnerable. I assume that's why it doesn't happen as much

Also, what if the other person wants to kill themselves in a couple of years instead of right now?
What if you can't agree on the same methods together?
What if you survive and get accused of murder/arrested?
What if they change their mind and decide suicide is not for them?

I would love to ctb with a romantic partner, my bf introduced me to that idea but he changed his mind and became "pro life".
Especially after being lonely all my life, it would feel so much better not being alone in my last moments

I also talked with my Ex about this. He always told me how suicidal he was and how bad his depression was and everything. Then he wanted me to persuade him to go to the psychiatry. I'm not pro life. My time there was awful. It was the worst time in my life. I'd never persuade someone to go there. Never.


There's also a forest next to my village which was used as training ground for the military in ww2. Outside of the forest is a warning sign. My Ex was too scared to go in.


Later when he wanted me to persuade him to go to the psychiatry he said he'd have gone in there with me had I wanted. He was scared. He didn't actually want to die and I realized that. We broke it off that day. Wasn't a healthy relationship for both of us. As I was agitated whenever he said something regarding suicide and he was agitated because I wouldn't even try to persuade him to get help.

We still text with each other sporadically. He'll text dramatic depressed things but I know that he won't ever actually try to ctb. He's just too much pro life for that even though he's depressed. Pretty sad actually.

 

[vednetta]

Why is it that you think suicidal pacts are (statistically speaking) so rare?

If it was possible I always thought it would kind of comforting to ctb with someone else other than alone, and feel it would reduce the instinct to back out.

Just wondering anyone else's opinions, if possible would you rather ctb alone or with another?

If one person fucks up, it's a prison sentence for manslaughter or murder

It's also just difficult to find someone
I have someone who I have made a pact with, and I hope he backs out because I genuinely love him, I know it's selfish but I guess overriding human and biological instinct isn't easy

 

[KarmicRain]

it's just impossible to find someone I can trust enough to make a pact with.
I mean like if you actually tell a person everything you think, they now have the power to fuck up your life under the pretense of "being mentally ill."
I just can't trust people in this world

 

[pele]

Still looking for a partner note I'm in Hawaii and I would like to die on my bday july 2 either this year or next.

 

[ijustwishtodie]

I don't trust a suicide pact to go well. It seems like an obvious disaster that can go wrong

 

[lita-lassi]

ive had a few with a close friend, 2 former partners and now my current. close friend recovered from the brink or wanting to ctb 24/7 and is quite successful (im incredibly proud of him), one partner mightve eventually offed himself, i have no way of ever finding out. if i decide to grab the method currently available, my current partner is absolutely going to jump to join me in a heartbeat and will even pull the trigger for us so to speak. hes been wanting out of existence for a long fucking time

 

[Username1359751]

ive had a few with a close friend, 2 former partners and now my current. close friend recovered from the brink or wanting to ctb 24/7 and is quite successful (im incredibly proud of him), one partner mightve eventually offed himself, i have no way of ever finding out. if i decide to grab the method currently available, my current partner is absolutely going to jump to join me in a heartbeat and will even pull the trigger for us so to speak. hes been wanting out of existence for a long fucking time

Pm me with more info? Im in Oklahoma