When I don't know how to approach someone I use a lot of dark humor to reassure myself, but I look more like a creepy psychopath stalker than a potential good relationship at these moments, stress mixed by dark humor (sometime accidental) or absurd scenario sound scary for some people.
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livefreeorpeace
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BNAP is a bullshit non-apology, that's what you gave. Suggesting that you somehow got under my skin (when the opposite is the case) is a backhanded way of saving face and illustrates emotional immaturity. But I'll accept your apology anyhow, and in the future you're going to pay more respect to your betters.
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Yes I'm familiar with how being shy in my case results in being misunderstood because of how I'm doing things people don't realize is due to shyness. So I can sympathize with you. At least you realize what is causing it and can maybe find other ways of communicating but I realize it's not easy to do. It takes a lot of discipline.
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LadyApple
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Couldn't agree more with what you said about the bottom humanity right there.
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The same with top tier men on dating apps, and the rest want cam sex or to have a pair of ears to listen to their narcissist monologues.
Using another ways of communication with people that I could meet in real is dangerous, take care of what I write is easy, but with oral communication I don't have the time to process if I'm acting creepy or not, so I don't hide myself when I write too. It's like a filter, maybe a too much efficient filter because I don't meet anyone in around 3 month of try, but if it happen one day the person will be aware that I can make unexpected dark jokes involuntary and she will not be surprised or scared.
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Women on dating apps are exposed (literally sometimes) to so many real creeps they can't tell you from them.
No woman is going to hear something creepy from a man on a dating app and say to herself "oh he's just socially awkward and only sounds creepy because he's not used to talking to people".
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At the beginning of the month I thought I would give one of these apps a chance to see if someone like me who has never had a partner could change with one. But as many say, it would be a waste of time for that person and if at the end of the day I just ctb, what use would it be to leave one person more damaged?
I'm glad you connected with someone; If you are not in a hurry for ctb I gave it a chance, who knows if you see things in a different way and end up changing for the better.
I'm glad you connected with someone; If you are not in a hurry for ctb I gave it a chance, who knows if you see things in a different way and end up changing for the better.
livefreeorpeace
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Much appreciated, and I take your suggestions seriously. Perhaps I need to give myself a chance, I think that's what this boils down to here.
yes you are right, so I hope to find another creepy psychopath on these...
livefreeorpeace
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You have a good sense of humor, something that is also sorely lacking among people on dating apps.
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What the hell is going on here? Am I missing something? Did I really walk into a thread in which someone told another poster to basically mind her betters? Haha. Anyways, I can definitely see why the initial offense was taken. A backhanded slight towards women was issued. Make no mistake, we are aware of some men's opinions of women when they struggle with finding one.
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Hey ! Don't post my photo on this website !
livefreeorpeace
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Your reading comprehension needs work.
Not to mention, why are you running cover for this racist anyhow?
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Hmm, odd. I haven't seen any indication of racism. Just a lot of sexism.
livefreeorpeace
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Correct me if I'm wrong but intentionally starting a flame war on someone's thread as against the rules isn't it?
Perhaps you missed this one, again reading comprehension needs work.
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greyhound
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Ok Mr. High Verbal IQ, good job using "you're" incorrectly there.
livefreeorpeace
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Meh mistakes happen, fat fingered that one. Fixed now, and if you were paying attention you would have noticed it was a one off anyhow. Nice cherry picking clown shoes.
And coming from the guy who's never met punctuation he would actually use, that one's rich.
I never said that men do not do the equivalent thing on dating sites. In fact quite the contrary, just so we're all clear here.
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greyhound
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Please, please don't CTB. The gene pool forever be missing your High IQ alleles. You must online date and impregnate many women for the benefit of humanity.
livefreeorpeace
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Super edgy bro, good job. Scientific racism is a bit old hat but if that's what works for you, hey why not?
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The ambience here is sublime. I thought this would be appropriate for this discussion.
Dating sites are interesting. I have heard people complaining about them a lot.
Dating sites are interesting. I have heard people complaining about them a lot.
livefreeorpeace
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I believe you are overestimating the average attractiveness of folks who populate those sites. Although I lack the data to prove that to you, so I won't assert it as a fact.
And who do we have to thank for that? And no one cares that you have heard 'a lot of people' complain about those sites, it's anecdotal, and therefore irrelevant.
Sounds like a self-fulfilling prophecy to me. And 'meditation guide' is simply confirming your biases, that won't serve you well in my estimation. I wouldn't let that clown serve as a filter bubble, you'll find yourself in an echo chamber, as you did.
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Happy holidays, have a great time today and tomorrow! Sending you hugs.
livefreeorpeace
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I'm glad you quoted that, it's just facts.
All of your 'white knights' are fleeing like rats from a sinking ship. What happened? Lol.
OP, firstly I would highly recommend if somebody is upsetting you or behaving inappropriately you report the posts. The mods do read, and they will help out. That said this thread was a great read lol.
As far as what you said in the original post I don't think one should live as if they are dead just because they think about suicide. It should not exclude you from looking for a career, or seeking out relationships. I would keep that information to myself while dating however since it will only lead to trouble, but having a dark sense of humor or dark thoughts should not exclude you from a relationship. depression and suicidal ideation does not necessarily mean we will make bad partners, or not be emotionally receptive to our partner. Give yourself a chance.
As far as what you said in the original post I don't think one should live as if they are dead just because they think about suicide. It should not exclude you from looking for a career, or seeking out relationships. I would keep that information to myself while dating however since it will only lead to trouble, but having a dark sense of humor or dark thoughts should not exclude you from a relationship. depression and suicidal ideation does not necessarily mean we will make bad partners, or not be emotionally receptive to our partner. Give yourself a chance.
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