Discussion something you would tell your past self?

[Gamja]

You fought hard to persevere. Deep down, you knew the truth — that things won't go well no matter what you do.
Don't open up to anyone again and let them know the real you. They will destroy you.
You thought you were cold-hearted but you actually have feelings.

Don't send that email on October 2019. Don't do it. Don't lose sight of what you already have... or 2020 will be your last year.

 

[Weightoftheworld]

'Go ahead and end it, it doesn't get any better.'

 

[Jojo81]

Work hard.. Don't take impulsive decisions. Don't keep daydreaming.. Study hard.. Work hard. Don't touch cigarettes and alcohol. Save money when you earn.. Good times don't last forever.. Live frugally..money is everything.. Thank God for your good health.. These will save you when you get 40.. But I don't know after that... Being Born was choice less but don't marry and have kid, you are going to make them suffer because of your stupidities...

 

[Painless_end]

I would tell myself to kill myself but I know I won't do it in my past even if my future came and told me.

 

[Jojo81]

Enjoy life at its maximum. Tomorrow you can die.

I have enjoyed life till 40. Now am regretting that I didn't live life frugally as I have finished all my savings

 

[Blueman]

Don't leave a job aged 54 to take a payoff to travel when you've already done loads of travelling and are unskilled unless you have a guaranteed way to secure new employment or a decent pension
I still can't believe I did this especially as I was single but happy with my life in general, no addictions, no health issues, close family, stacks of friends and interests.
I was just bored with the office and with the commute, it's just crazy stuff.
Now am depressed suicidal etc through utter stupidity

 

[User_01]

Don't sleep with Sarah

 

[OnlyTheWind]

Clean yourself up and tell her how you feel. If she says no, kill yourself.

 

[GrumpyFrog]

He is not really your friend. You can't trust him. I know you basically worship him now and it's hard to believe, but it is true. If you trust him and do as he says, you will be seriously hurt and then left alone with your pain and shame and trauma. It will wreck your entire life, forever. Please, keep your distance.

 

[Bustedhornet]

Don't take pharmaceuticals, they will destroy yoy

 

[sadghost]

Listen, you are going to go through a lot. You won't think you'll be able to get through it, but you will. Please learn to say "no." It's okay to not be extroverted and more to yourself - please just stay that way. It will save you so much stress.

 

[mathieu]

Kill yourself ASAP.

 

[Homecoming]

To 18 yrs old me: visit nearby vet store and buy 2 N bottles and CTB ASAP! (N in my country was still legal 15 years ago )

 

[7ighway]

Talk to your childhood friend again before she gets decapitated

 

[nurplexkid]

Just do it.

 

[Final Escape]

Don't become a prostitute or a stripper for a living lol! Don't have sex unless u are married first. Don't get abortion. One abortion often leads to more, not always but often.

 

[Deleted member 18655]

It is not going to get better.

 

[MrBlue]

Please kill yourself now, it turns out exactly as bad you think it will.

 

[Fedrea]

Get the fuck out of that job and relationship now before you health gets worse

 

[Jojo81]

Don't leave a job aged 54 to take a payoff to travel when you've already done loads of travelling and are unskilled unless you have a guaranteed way to secure new employment or a decent pension
I still can't believe I did this especially as I was single but happy with my life in general, no addictions, no health issues, close family, stacks of friends and interests.
I was just bored with the office and with the commute, it's just crazy stuff.
Now am depressed suicidal etc through utter stupidity

That's the perfect example of rat race. I was also employed one year ago. The skills get outdated. There's this constant pressure to keep updated. There's no time to live life enjoying what you do. One deviation from rat race and you doomed. Fuck this way of living.. If you are not born rich or inherited wealth and health.. Then it's shit. Except for the very rare cases like those who became entrepreneurs

 

[krsu]

stay the fuck away from opioids, I know they feel like they are helping right now but be prepared for them to take away anything that ever made you YOU. All that will be left is an empty shell and you will be a slave to addiction, I know its hard to believe but I was so different and outgoing before... I miss those times so so much and I know I will never get them back.

 

[OttOnSN]

Don't call Dad. Jump.

 

[Harleyyy]

Be a bitch. Don't get too emotional because people don't understand you or your love. They don't deserve it.

 

[Iamamistake]

"Don't keep on convincing yourself out of ctb. The vet thought that things would begin to get better once you turn 18 will remain wishful thinking. 2020 smashing your years old plan of freeing yourself isn't going to be pretty. Talking yourself out of it shall not help."

 

[Notme]

Don't work at Morrison's and meet your future partner she will fuck your life up and toss you to the side like a peace of shit. Also don't don't take that job offer. Fuck that mate you said you wouldn't live to see 16 just ctb.

 

[Toptock]

All roads lead to this, don't hesitate this time.

 

[woxihuanni]

Learn to cook. Learn to shut up.

 

[JAG_78]

Please kill yourself now, it turns out exactly as bad you think it will.

OMG yes!. And don't stop trying until you get it right. That would def be my advice to me.

 

[Marauder]

Dont be so passive, introverted and shy. Try everything to get some experience till you are young and full of power. You are going to die anyway so dont take everything so serious.
(I did exactly opposite and because of that my life went to shit)

 

[Final Escape]

That's the perfect example of rat race. I was also employed one year ago. The skills get outdated. There's this constant pressure to keep updated. There's no time to live life enjoying what you do. One deviation from rat race and you doomed. Fuck this way of living.. If you are not born rich or inherited wealth and health.. Then it's shit. Except for the very rare cases like those who became entrepreneurs

This is why I turned to sex work lol! It was just too depressing for me at most work places and I was always the shitty employee everyone picked on.