should I traumatize my sisters boyfriend?

[derpsie]

my sister's boyfriend is into guns and has an ar15 and some other cool gunzzz that I could use to blow my head off, he's offered to take me to a shooting range, im too young to go without a partner and I don't have any friends at this point, im wondering if should go with him and ask for a 45 and blow my head off with it infront of him. im just so desperate to escape id be okay with doing that but what do you guys think. should I just wait until ive found a tall building to jump off of and do that instead?

 

[Wolf Girl]

my sister's boyfriend is into guns and has an ar15 and some other cool gunzzz that I could use to blow my head off, he's offered to take me to a shooting range, im too young to go without a partner and I don't have any friends at this point, im wondering if should go with him and ask for a 45 and blow my head off with it infront of him. im just so desperate to escape id be okay with doing that but what do you guys think. should I just wait until ive found a tall building to jump off of and do that instead?

Check r/SuicideBereavement for stories from people who have had this done to them. He will be traumatized for life and your sister may break up with him out of blame for your death. Don't do it.

 

[iwashere]

tbh i've considered the same thing because i don't have a gun myself, but this is an awful idea. you're not just traumatizing them- you're traumatizing everybody in the shooting range. it goes beyond just 'traumatizing' them. he will likely never get over the guilt in his entire life and will maybe follow you— i mean, imagine. You bring ur girlfriends little sister to a gun range and she shoots her fucking self in front of you. in a way that's almost mean, especially the way you phrased the question. do you want revenge or something? your parents will likely deal with blaming your sisters boyfriend for awhile too. horrible idea and imo it's inconsiderate although i understand you're in pain and desperate times call for desperate measures

 

[NearlyIrrelevantCake]

It's a terrible CTB plan, IMO.

You're surrounded by probably at least a dozen people, if not more, who will immediately react to your attempt. That means they might stop you before you can get a shot off. At the very least, if you do shoot yourself, people will immediately begin providing first aid to you [I guarantee you a gun range has multiple first aid kits and staff likely have basic first aid training] and will call 911.

You're also going to traumatize everyone who's there--not just your sister's boyfriend-- which I think is completely unethical. Your own suicide could lead to a lifetime of trauma for people and even make them kill themselves.

 

[derpsie]

It's a terrible CTB plan, IMO.

You're surrounded by probably at least a dozen people, if not more, who will immediately react to your attempt. That means they might stop you before you can get a shot off. At the very least, if you do shoot yourself, people will immediately begin providing first aid to you [I guarantee you a gun range has multiple first aid kits and staff likely have basic first aid training] and will call 911.

You're also going to traumatize everyone who's there--not just your sister's boyfriend-- which I think is completely unethical. Your own suicide could lead to a lifetime of trauma for people and even make them kill themselves.

I appreciate the advice, it was fun to think about for like thirty minutes but I guess I won't be doing that anymore.

 

[kurgan]

I appreciate the advice, it was fun to think about for like thirty minutes but I guess I won't be doing that anymore.

Personally, once I have the gun in my hand, I'd head out the door, telling people to back off and call the police. I'd make my way down the road to a secluded or wooded area to end it there. If anyone chose to follow, that would be on them.

 

[iwashere]

Personally, once I have the gun in my hand, I'd head out the door, telling people to back off and call the police. I'd make my way down the road to a secluded or wooded area to end it there. If anyone chose to follow, that would be on them.

haha i thought about this too!! but then i thought about how embarassing that'd be lowkey. like people WILL take their phones out and start recording. i don't want my last 10 minutes on earth being recorded and then posted on social media where people will then decide if i really had "gone through enough" for making "such a selfish decision" and "traumatizing everybody else in the shooting range."

 

[kurgan]

haha i thought about this too!! but then i thought about how embarassing that'd be lowkey. like people WILL take their phones out and start recording. i don't want my last 10 minutes on earth being recorded and then posted on social media where people will then decide if i really had "gone through enough" for making "such a selfish decision" and "traumatizing everybody else in the shooting range."

Once you've found your spot, just wait for the police to turn up; they'll soon clear the area of people.

 

[theboy]

Mmm
In my case, I would definitely think about it for a while
I know traumatizing others is terrible but.... Them or me?

 

[derpsie]

Mmm
In my case, I would definitely think about it for a while
I know traumatizing others is terrible but.... Them or me?

Good point. I'm starting to reconsider especially on days like today…

 

[gothbird]

Pulling someone else into your exit is selfish. Unless they've earned that kind of wreckage, there's no reason to destroy another life just because you're done with yours.

 

[SoFewMethods]

Personally, once I have the gun in my hand, I'd head out the door, telling people to back off and call the police. I'd make my way down the road to a secluded or wooded area to end it there. If anyone chose to follow, that would be on them.

That's a bad idea. Shooting ranges have guns, and if someone non-fatally shoots you, you'll be arrested for years without a better way to CTB

 

[kurgan]

That's a bad idea. Shooting ranges have guns, and if someone non-fatally shoots you, you'll be arrested for years without a better way to CTB

Why would someone shoot you?

 

[SoFewMethods]

Why would someone shoot you?

Because you're a person threatening with a gun. If the situation gets too tense, someone might shoot you in fear of their or someone else's safety.