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oh_no191

oh_no191

“Is it better to speak or to die?”
Jun 11, 2023
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I've seen so many people talk about this but should I leave a note? It's not really a note it's more of a text because I'll be alone when I do it and text is the best thing I got. The point is, should I really leave a note?
 
physics

physics

Member
Jun 12, 2023
33
Why not? Atleast the people you know won't be investigated if you state the reason clear in the note.
 
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Watlock

Watlock

I just assume everyone hates me.
Jun 8, 2023
38
I guess if there are things you would like to clear up or if you wanted to give them a specific reason…. I wouldn't leave a note. No one would give a shit anyways. Lol
 
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Crono

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Jun 1, 2023
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I personally won't leave a note, my family is partially responsible for the ctb and they know it very well, no note is needed. But if you have someone you love, I think it's better to leave a note, so they have some explanation, maybe reduce suffering.
 
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love_peep

Specialist
May 26, 2023
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I would advise you to leave a note in case your friends don 't know about your plans and your condition , try to write a note so that they don 't feel guilty later because you left this world
 
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ferret-in-a-sock

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Jan 25, 2023
72
I also don't get notes. If I had to leave one jd probably write a book practically.
 
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aab

Member
Jun 17, 2023
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I've seen so many people talk about this but should I leave a note? It's not really a note it's more of a text because I'll be alone when I do it and text is the best thing I got. The point is, should I really leave a note?
I think I'll leave a note so people understand me but in the end it's your choice and you don't have to do it
 
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Elysion

Elysion

Member
Jun 12, 2023
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I've seen so many people talk about this but should I leave a note? It's not really a note it's more of a text because I'll be alone when I do it and text is the best thing I got. The point is, should I really leave a note?
Memorizing increases the risk of suicide failure and can even weaken the decision. In any case, you have committed suicide and whether you know the reason or not, the nature of what you did will not change.
Remember, even in this forum, no one can understand another's understanding, only because they know that everyone is in pain, they respect each other, so how do you expect your letter to justify your action and they can understand your suicide?
 
FuneralCry

FuneralCry

Just wanting some peace
Sep 24, 2020
48,015
It's up to you, but if sending a text meant then there was a chance of other people interferring with plans to ctb then I would see that as being a bad idea, as sadly so many people in this world are anti-suicide.
 
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publicschoolgrad

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Jun 14, 2023
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I say leave a note or social media post. You want to own the narrative and not let other people slander your name.
 
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