Sex workers

[Smilla]

I will not loose my time replying to ur stupid post.
I t is obvious from the posts of smilla and final escape how much they enjoy being sex workers.
It will be my only reply to u

What? I am 38. I left this work behind when I was 22/23.

 

[lv-gras]

What? I am 38. I left this work behind when I was 22/23.

ignore the drama if you can and want

 

[Final Escape]

What? I am 38. I left this work behind when I was 22/23.

Smilla u were lucky u left while still young.

 

[Smilla]

To all current and former whores:

Leave your past behind.

 

[Living_Ghost]

What about the whores that love the money?

 

[Smilla]

What about the whores that love the money?

Most whores aren't in it for the money. Something drove them into that lifestyle—something bad and unforgivable

 

[Living_Ghost]

I understand.

 

[Razz_Goku]

I have massive respect for the sex workers.I hope you find your peace @Smila.

Although i never had female friend in real life and still a virgin. lol

 

[Sundayafternoon]

Phone sex, part time, for a few months in '00.

I'll keep the rest of my secrets.

 

[Sundayafternoon]

To all current and former whores:

Leave your past behind.

Most whores aren't in it for the money. Something drove them into that lifestyle—something bad and unforgivable

Did you feel like you had no other choice?

 

[Smilla]

Did you feel like you had no other choice?

I certainly was never a part of sex trafficking.

I was a HS drop out, alone and afraid and never had a BF in HS. No money for college.

Always worked regular jobs alongside being a sex worker, probably in a vain attempt to give myself self esteem.

 

[Living_Ghost]

Quite a leap there Smilla going from never having a bf to being a whore .

 

[Living_Ghost]

Oops BTW that might sound harsh but you used that term also ,I should have said sex worker,sorry.

 

[Smilla]

Oops BTW that might sound harsh but you used that term also ,I should have said sex worker,sorry.

No problem. No offense taken.

 

[Sundayafternoon]

I certainly was never a part of sex trafficking.

I was a HS drop out, alone and afraid and never had a BF in HS. No money for college.

Always worked regular jobs alongside being a sex worker, probably in a vain attempt to give myself self esteem.

That makes sense. Thank you.

 

[longingforrelease]

Part, a big part, of the reason I'm here is that in a manic phase I started cheating on my wife with sex workers. I got addicted to it. I have enormous respect for sex workers, in my professional life I have advocated for decriminalization and getting ridding of the stigma attached to sex work but in the end, my hypersexuality ruined my marriage and my life.

 

[stellabelle]

Any former or current sex workers on here?

I was a prostitute when I was 17-23.

Former, and would consider being one currently if multiple websites were not shut down.

 

[Smilla]

Former, and would consider being one currently if multiple websites were not shut down.

I was one back in the olden days ('97-2002 or so). We advertised in the back of magazines if you can believe that.

 

[stellabelle]

I was one back in the olden days ('97-2002 or so). We advertised in the back of magazines if you can believe that.

Some magazines and free newspapers still allowed it a few years ago!

 

[Smilla]

Some magazines and free newspapers still allowed it a few years ago!

Wow. I didn't even work with a cell phone if you can imagine that. I did mostly outcall for a madam (but worked in a brothel in the beginning).

Then I branched out my own, advertising in the back pages of high end "city" magazines.

 

[Final Escape]

Former, and would consider being one currently if multiple websites were not shut down.

It can be a tough job, you get burned out after awhile. It can make you feel weird about yourself. I can't explain it. You just feel empty at times. I wouldn't say it helps your self esteem although it can temporarily be uplifting. You can feel really used, even though you are using each other and u get compensated. Your body and mind can't distinguish the difference between a violation to it, even if you made a conscious choice to consent. Even though you consent, somewhere inside u don't, even though you perform and provide the service voluntarily. This is what wears you down. You may even be very attracted to some of the men, while this makes it more enjoyable it still doesn't change the reality that it's an unsafe event for you emotionally. It's because of the context, that makes it a difficult job. It goes against female nature even though you decide you are going to override your natural wiring to want a secure intimate relationship with probably just one partner normally.

 

[stellabelle]

It can be a tough job, you get burned out after awhile. It can make you feel weird about yourself. I can't explain it. You just feel empty at times. I wouldn't say it helps your self esteem although it can temporarily be uplifting. You can feel really used even though you are using each other and u get compensated.

It never really bothered me, but I didn't go out as often as I wanted to. I was in an abusive and controlling relationship. After being raped numerous times, I found self worth and healing through sex work, in a sense. That was my own personal experience though. I always said that I'd rather be a "hoe" than a "slut" because sluts do it for free.

Though, I don't care what folks do in their personal lives - more power to them. There's so much stigma regarding women and sex.

 

[Smilla]

It can be a tough job, you get burned out after awhile. It can make you feel weird about yourself. I can't explain it. You just feel empty at times. I wouldn't say it helps your self esteem although it can temporarily be uplifting. You can feel really used, even though you are using each other and u get compensated.

It's no way to live long-term, especially because society scorns prostitutes. We are less than human to the vast majority.

 

[stellabelle]

It's no way to live long-term, especially because society scorns prostitutes. We are less than human to the vast majority.

That is a fact. I've hesitated to disclose it to others, especially in relationships. Quite honestly, it's none of their business though. People judge sex workers so harshly, but not those who solicit them. Even then, it doesn't make one any less of a human being.

 

[Smilla]

That is a fact. I've hesitated to disclose it to others, especially in relationships. Quite honestly, it's none of their business though. People judge sex workers so harshly, but not those who solicit them. Even then, it doesn't make one any less of a human being.

Every time I told a man of my past (except one), they ran far far away.

 

[Walilamdzi]

Following.

 

[not_a_robot]

Yes Iam still some days it's hard other days easier. What I lost to being a sex worker was being able to marry and have kids. I had become a permanent pump and dump for life. Now I'm too damaged to even conceive of ever trying to be in a normal relationship with a guy. Then on top of it Iam now pregnant and contemplating a 5th abortion because well unwanted pregnancy with a terrible guy who used me as a pump and dump. I figured being 41 I wasn't at high risk of pregnancy. I hadn't been pregnant last since age 29.

I liked it, but I rarely had actual sex and was very protective against pregnancy and disease. Never got preggo or caught vd. Most of the men want to be dominated. I thought it was funny that they were using me as a pump and dump; I was getting paid and that was all they were good for to me anyway.
I didn't get sad because I couldn't have a normal relationship; people in normal relationships are miserable, I don't want that. I thought it was funny that the world looked down on me, I was making money having a great life with no attachments. All the things people pitied me for not having were things I didn't want anyway.
Sometimes the sex was really bad, but sometimes really good, too.
I couldn't keep it up because I got too old and sick but if I get well enough I will probably still do it once in awhile, if anybody wants an old sad clown like me (unlikely).
Having sex without getting paid feels wrong to me, all I'm thinking is
"I should not be putting up with this bullshit for free, no sir."

Every time I told a man of my past (except one), they ran far far away.

Girl please. They ran, straight to their regular ho. You know it's true.

Men jerk off with one hand and point their finger with the other. It's ok for men to buy, but wrong for women to sell.
My time as a sexworker was just a way to survive in an absurd world at a time when I was too sick to maintain any other job. I don't feel bad about it, if anything, I find it funny that someone as boring and unsexy as me ever got paid for sex at all. If anybody should feel bad about it, it's the guys, not me.

Misandry, yup that's the word I was looking for.

LOL.

 

[Bärchen]

I was a customer in my early 20's, cause i always knew i wont make it the normal way like having a girlfriend.
I have some good memories, like one girl was really cute and cuddling was awesome.
The last time was about 6 years ago and before that i had a 2 year break....i tried it again a few days ago but thinks have changed. the old brothel doesnt exsist anymore and the online sites like kaufmich (translates to buy me) is full of fakes, they cancel it a hour before or the phonenumbers are dead.

Man sometimes i'm so lonely i would pay them 200eu just for hand holding.

 

[HappyEnding]

I was a camgirl for a few months this year. Does that count? I was on Chaturbate.

 

[Severen]

Any former or current sex workers on here?

I was a prostitute when I was 17-23.

You will be missed. R.I.P.

I was a customer in my early 20's, cause i always knew i wont make it the normal way like having a girlfriend.
I have some good memories, like one girl was really cute and cuddling was awesome.
The last time was about 6 years ago and before that i had a 2 year break....i tried it again a few days ago but thinks have changed. the old brothel doesnt exsist anymore and the online sites like kaufmich (translates to buy me) is full of fakes, they cancel it a hour before or the phonenumbers are dead.

Man sometimes i'm so lonely i would pay them 200eu just for hand holding.

200 euro? Damn... That is a lot of money. When I was living in Germany, you get could an hour for 50 euro in Berlin. But outside of Berlin, it's a lot more expensive. And fuck the Reeperbahn. Good deals in Poland too.