Venting Sex seems like a trap for procreation.

[AlTheObviousAlien]

Whatever you have to tell yourself...

I mean nature vs nurture us just how well raise your kid to adapt vs general genetics soooooooooo in theory, sure. But let's not act like nature is just on the parents.

 

[itsoverforme303]

I got cheated on and then dumped by my partner in my early 20s. I loved her a lot and what happened at that time basically started my near continuous depressive episodes. It used to happen every now and then before that as well but it got worse after that. That's kind of when I started losing interest in sex. I dated another girl for a short time after that. We broke up but we are still friends (not like we talk very often). But yeah, I haven't had any interest in sex for like 10 years now.

 

[betternever2havbeen]

Wouldn't that partly be on you since you were the one raising them?

Not always the case but that's the risk you take having kids. That statement the PP said about kids not being a long-term fulfilling endeavour (after you've already had one) is shocking to me tho. But I partly got the last thread on this subject locked so I'm trying to be careful what I say...