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LostLily

LostLily

Why do I exist?
Nov 18, 2024
758
My group of friends have this Facebook Messenger group. I realized that one of my friends wasn't a member of that group, so I added her, let's call her L. Well, I didn't realize that another friend (let's call her B) didn't like L. Now B is upset and refuses to post ever again in that group, and we cannot kick L out because it would be awkward, and the admin of the group is B's old acct, which she cannot get into. I feel like I fucked up and ruined everything.

Another friend theorizes that it is because L was/is in a relationship with B's ex-husband. So this is my 2nd group of friends being torn apart due to relationship drama. Another group was torn apart because one friend started dating another's friend's ex.
 
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ma0

How did I get here?
Dec 20, 2024
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I've had at least 3 friend groups torn apart by some stupid baseless friend drama, and I never got involved. It's just so confusing to me, like why should it matter to anyone and everyone?

That shit fucking sucks, hope things get better soon :/
 
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bankai

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Mar 16, 2025
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I've seen so many relationships broken up by the stupidest things, the pettiest jealousies,The slightest slights,I have lost faith in building a relationship with people. You call me 9 times for a loan and i help you out. And the 10th time when I say no, I'm suddenly your worst enemy.
 
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LostLily

LostLily

Why do I exist?
Nov 18, 2024
758
Update: that B got back into her original acct and made another friend admin because that friend volunteer to be the "bad guy" and boot L out of the group.
 

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