Probably gonna kill myself my girlfriend broke up with me and she is the only i had and shes gone

[active_daily_user]

There is no reason to keep on going. My choice of death will be SN with the help of SG and PPH. Time to CTB.

 

[ctb7767]

I know how brutal breakups are, but if you can imagine yourself in 6 or 12 months, you will be over it or at least stable. The choice is yours but I would recommend you at least wait that long and then reevaluate.

 

[Sulyya]

So sorry for what happened. There will be more to live for, but whatever you decide, I wish the best for you.

 

[FuneralCry]

The reality is that humans certainly can be so disappointing, you just cannot rely on them and it's true that anything that is seen as being positive in this world only exists to be taken away and lead to more suffering. But anyway, I wish you the best.

 

[SexyIncél]

There is no reason to keep on going. My choice of death will be SN with the help of SG and PPH. Time to CTB.

Would you like to talk about it? Even if you maybe made mistakes, I don't care because we all make mistakes. Or if you wanna hate on your gf, also cool by me. Just curious

 

[betternever2havbeen]

@active_daily_user if this only just happened I can imagine everything feels completely raw and devastating-you really shouldn't make these type of decisions in an impulsive state of mind though. I agree with @ctb7767 and waiting until you have had a chance to come to terms with things and heal.

 

[man_in_red:)]

Don't let her get to ya champ, your better than her.

 

[ChildrensITV]

If you're not a forever alone/incel/below average-looking/autistic male, then I would say give it time. You might meet someone else.

If you are one of the above, then it makes more sense why you want to CTB: because very likely, if you are older, this was your one shot at a girlfriend, and now you will join the growing millions of men in the West who will never get a girlfriend (again). But there are caveats like I said. Maybe you're young? Maybe you have a good social circle where it is easier to meet new girls in? Maybe you're decent-looking? Maybe the standards you have for a girlfriend allow for many women to meet the requirement?

 

[YSK]

I would not reccomend suicide over a breakup, even if it does take a while the pain will not be permanent, breakups are not worth dying over.

 

[ThatStateOfMind]

There is no reason to keep on going. My choice of death will be SN with the help of SG and PPH. Time to CTB.

Hey, if you need to talk I'm here. A ton of my posts here are about my breakup, which happened in December. I felt the same way, like there was no hope. But I do suggest you give it time, as I did. Now, I'm much better. I'm not completely healed but I feel that I've come a far way from where I started. I still think about her often and it's not an easy road, it's extremely difficult, but, I don't think you'll regret it. I haven't yet.

I suggest you go on the games forum, get your post count up, and then we can talk in private. You can talk about literally anything and I will provide a non-judgmental ear and help as much as I can. I hope your still with us and haven't made any rash decisions.

 

[sorrow_sparrow]

I am so sorry to hear that, dear...
but love can be so deceiving and additive,

It manipulates our brain and feeling to the weakest point at a time being, such as feeling lonely, down, useless, angry or betrayed and etc, and it is natural feeling trough breakout... painfull yes but natural..
it feels so bad coz our emotion is not prepared to be broken down and facing disappointment trough our loved one, especially when we trust them with our heart

If you want to CTB because of love, my advice is do it for your love to your own soul not because of others

I personally will be give my heart a rest for a moment, let them to go trough they healing process such as, denial, sadness, angry, and (hopefully) acceptance ( denial and sadness is the worst part, be strong ) and see where the universe decide for me to meet someone else (or not), hang in there a little more my love...

I wishes you all the best cloudy day.... be kind :)

 

[wish_to_live_again]

Great post from @ThatStateOfMind

Breakups can be absolutely devastating. I thought my world ended after my first girlfriend left me...wanted to lay down and die. I laid in bed for a long time...so much pain. But then I forced myself up, found some hobbies, met some new friends, focused on school. It was very hard, but it did get easier with time, and I became a stronger person. And a few years later I met someone much, much better for me! It really happens this way for so many people.

I know that doesn't help now. Just know millions (billions?) have gone through this horrible experience and you aren't alone. Many kind people here to listen to you.

 

[Emptied_soul]

I know how brutal breakups are, but if you can imagine yourself in 6 or 12 months, you will be over it or at least stable. The choice is yours but I would recommend you at least wait that long and then reevaluate.

It's been six months since my bf broke up with me and I still haven't overcome it. Tried dating new people as well but they don't do anything for me and can't feel anything for them at all. I'm broken and I don't think I'll ever overcome it. I just want to die. Some breakups leave you completely devastated.

 

[Galileo3630]

Break ups are a double edged sword, they hurt and are a pain in the ass, but it's not a reason to CTB, sure, you might think that it is, but break ups shelter glow-ups and self-improvement, if you fight through the upcoming weeks you will notice that you'll start working yourself into a better, more beautiful, complex person than you are right now. Yet again, if you want to CTB, I'm not here to stop you, I wish you all the best and a peaceful release if you come to terms with one.

 

[6MillionWaystoDie]

Sorry about your break up. Loss of love in all senses especially a significant other can be devastating. I'm not sure what type of person your partner is or their reason for initiating the break up, but it's not worth it to ctb over. Someone who could potentially just step over your body in the middle of the road on the way to their destination just isn't worth it imho.

While it may not feel that way now, the strengthening process during the recovery phase is often empowering. We often learn new things about ourselves that make us look and be perceived as physically and mentally better off than we were before. Hopefully punishment of the other person is not a partial motive. If so, the best revenge is building yourself up and moving on.

Working out or running outside can help motivate you to look past this moment. Pushing through something physically exhausting little by little can help you feel triumphant in other ways. I hope you will reconsider. As others said give it some time and maybe talk about it with someone here or professionally if you choose. Getting out the raw emotion each day should lower the intensity of those feelings over time.

The ability and choice to CTB is always yours. You can always revisit this if nothing changes for you in the upcoming months.

 

[orca87]

I know how brutal breakups are, but if you can imagine yourself in 6 or 12 months, you will be over it or at least stable. The choice is yours but I would recommend you at least wait that long and then reevaluate.

I wish that'd be true. For me, 12 months have passed and it's getting worse every day. I tried so hard to let go and improve my situation but I destroyed my whole life.
In my case it was more than just a relationship, it was also that I lost my home, my friends, my career.

As long as you have the energy try to make the best out of the situation. It helps me to consider CTB as the last resort.

Maybe give yourself the time and if nothing works, you still can go

 

[juliano2001]

Goodbye brave user. I pray I can gain the strength you showed even in your darkest hours.

 

[SoftWorries]

When my ex and I broke up I ended up in the hospital for a couple days. I couldn't calm down, was paranoid and frightened, felt like the walls were closing in, my heart hurt. It was awful and I was aggressively suicidal.

A few months later I met someone new and continued to get over my ex while we dated. About a year ago we moved in together and everything has been awesome.

I felt like I couldn't live without my ex but that's because it was unhealthy. In a healthy relationship you feel strength in yourself not lost in the other person. Healthy people create healthy barriers and don't let the relationship become codependent in that way.

 

[ThatStateOfMind]

When my ex and I broke up I ended up in the hospital for a couple days. I couldn't calm down, was paranoid and frightened, felt like the walls were closing in, my heart hurt. It was awful and I was aggressively suicidal.

A few months later I met someone new and continued to get over my ex while we dated. About a year ago we moved in together and everything has been awesome.

I felt like I couldn't live without my ex but that's because it was unhealthy. In a healthy relationship you feel strength in yourself not lost in the other person. Healthy people create healthy barriers and don't let the relationship become codependent in that way.

I'm not OP but this gives me hope, it has been a few months and I haven't found anyone but mostly due to lack of trying. I'm on a journey of self improvement, and I hope I can find someone, some day. I'm about to go to college soon so I imagine I may even meet someone there.

 

[absolomonisgone]

I'm not pro life, etc. , but i'm old. have lived a long time. had lots of girlfriends, sex partners, wives, etc...., in that department, stuff will always come up. believe you me. .., not saying it's not valid to want to ctb because of that, ..., i understand..., my first ctb attempt at 16, years ago was because of a girl...., i still remember it to this day....! aha. now, the girl is married, has grown up kids..., aha. life happened. not that i have met her for a long time. just remembered because of your story......, then, in bwtween, i had so many girlfriends, lovers, and 3 wives......, aha. it didn't work out for me. but then...., funny, i loved all those girls and women just like i loved the first one. ...., I'm not telling you what to do..., just sharing my life experience.

 

[_Alfarooq_]

I would not reccomend suicide over a breakup, even if it does take a while the pain will not be permanent, breakups are not worth dying over.

He did say that she was all he had. This could show that he doesn't have anyone else to talk to in his life. He has lost all the people he cares about and now has no reason to live.