Discussion Please talk to me

[FreedomElsewhere]

I feel so lonely. I've recently gone through a break up and I've been talking to my friends about it. They've all been more supportive and loving than I could have asked for or deserve, but I don't feel understood though. It's no fault to them, I think I've just subconsciously detached from everyone when the person who I thought would be my forever person left me. I thought about what would happen if I went back to dating, then I see people who want children. I don't want to be here anymore. I'm done with people who say they want a long term relationship, only to shut it all down once they don't feel like they have balance and then I get cut because we didn't know each other for very long. I miss being in his arms. I miss kissing each other until we fell asleep. I miss so much about being with him, but he doesn't want to understand anymore. He told me he doesn't want to try. My friends are doing so much more to support me during this time than he ever has. No texts. No call. But everything I want is only something he can give me and not my friends.

 

[concession]

This is great to hear that you have a support network. You do definitely deserve it.
Breakups suck. I did have this feeling of missing something extremely important too and you are not alone in it.

While this feeling is overwhelming right now, in time you know this will be just a distant memory.
Maybe you will find those feelings even silly in just a year or so.

I wish there was something else to do, but good news is that this will get better if you will continue hanging out with friends, working, studying.
Just be aware that you are not thinking straight because of the distress and everything can seam much more bleak than it actually is.

Wish you luck

 

[bankai]

I understand how much you love this person. I understand your capacity for love.Unfortunately, he doesn't understand anymore. So you need to let it go. Unfortunately, none of us can change anyone else's mind.

I hope you find someone else who loves you as much as you love them. Unfortunately, people are fickle and come with their burdens as well. I hope you find happiness and I also hope someone else can make you happy.