Plans thwarted by alcoholic

[ihateearth]

I just became financially responsible for helping someone out of an abusive situation. They have to move to get away from a man who punches holes in walls and does passive aggressive things like steal their keys and lie about it.

This is further distressing me. It means accepting something I don't want but I need to make sure this person is housed and financially ok at least for a few months.
If I left them in this situation I'd feel worse.

He's a liar and mean alcoholic. When sober he acts like he didn't do things and pays no responsibility. Last week he jammed the door lock so they couldn't unlock it until maintenance fixed it.

He did detox and said he wouldn't drink liquor again. They found liquor bottles hidden in the couch. He drinks little bottles throughout the day. It hurts me to help when I'd rather die, but he's harming them and a child is involved.

I'm mad things are prolonged now. Screw him for hurting family. If he causes issues, I'll have him arrested. I'm in pain and further trapped here. Regardless of despair we still love people. This is agonizing. I can't leave her this way. At least I'll send her off well before I go.

 

[ihateearth]

Also can't get SN as easily as I thought. I'm now considering a gun. We can easily get guns in America. Gunshot in a remote location with GPS turned off or phone left at home increases the chances of not being found.

Sleeping pills and most pills don't work. They've formulated them to not work for CTB, but guns are cheap. Walmart also sells discount bullets.

 

[Dayrain]

Thanks for sharing your thoughts OP. I'm sorry that these unnecessary things happen to you at the moment. And the worst is, it sounds as if the person just has left enough mental capacity to purposely act in a way that he cannot be prosecuted but still tyrannize you.

 

[ihateearth]

Thanks for sharing your thoughts OP. I'm sorry that these unnecessary things happen to you at the moment. And the worst is, it sounds as if the person just has left enough mental capacity to purposely act in a way that he cannot be prosecuted but still tyrannize you.

Thanks. I told him his behavior is escalating and dangerous. When someone starts damaging locks and taking a person's keys that's controlling behavior. It's like he's ramping up and unpredictable.

I let it be known I will call the police if needed The pain I feel from existing is too great to stay for several months, but I need time to get a solid plan. SN isn't easy and a gun requires some prep work. I wish I had the balls to jump off a bridge or in front of a train.

Another option is drug overdose on fent but I don't do drugs to have those contacts. I can't just walk into a trap house.

 

[Dayrain]

Thanks. I told him his behavior is escalating and dangerous. When someone starts damaging locks and taking a person's keys that's controlling behavior. It's like he's ramping up and unpredictable.

I let it be known I will call the police if needed The pain I feel from existing is too great to stay another year or several months, but I need time to get a solid plan anyways. SN isn't easy and a gun requires some prep work. I wish I had the balls to jump off a bridge or in front of a train.

You are right. It sounds like he's done enough already to get fined. It's the madness this causes that is uneccesary, because we didn't ask for existence in the first place. But hats off for taking responsibility for another one in such an emotional state of mind. You would have the right to look after yourself.

 

[ihateearth]

You are right. It sounds like he's done enough already to get fined. It's the madness this causes that is uneccesary, because we didn't ask for existence in the first place. But hats off for taking responsibility for another one in such an emotional state of mind. You would have the right to look after yourself.

Thanks. My deadline is a month now at the earliest. Very angry.