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onceuponadec

onceuponadec

I am a poor wayfaring stranger
Dec 23, 2022
107
I know I'm going to leave behind a letter from my loved ones. I want to include a section for my wishes about my funeral. I don't know everything I want yet, but here are a few things.

My favorite color is blue so I would like to be buried in a light blue dress with black flats. I want blue flowers as decorations for my funeral. I would like to be buried next to my grandparents if they have left before me or next to my uncle J.

If anyone's having a funeral, what do you want?
 
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outrider567

Visionary
Apr 5, 2022
2,875
Requested no funeral, just put me in my mausoleum space
 
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Sapphire

Sapphire

Student
Nov 22, 2022
185
I don't want a funeral. I paid for a direct cremation.
 
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Wannagonow

Specialist
Nov 16, 2022
376
No funeral. Cremation. Buried with my wife (passed away 4 yrs ago).
 
TheBroken

TheBroken

What Really Matters Anymore?
Feb 13, 2022
250
Just cremation - already paid for with instructions for ashes. Delayed because I have to be caregiver again for family member during next few months, but everything is set and method ready/hidden. Can't wait ....... what a relief it will be to be gone.
 
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Thequietone

Thequietone

Student
Dec 4, 2021
121
I know I'm going to leave behind a letter from my loved ones. I want to include a section for my wishes about my funeral. I don't know everything I want yet, but here are a few things.

My favorite color is blue so I would like to be buried in a light blue dress with black flats. I want blue flowers as decorations for my funeral. I would like to be buried next to my grandparents if they have left before me or next to my uncle J.

If anyone's having a funeral, what do you want?
I have already filled out a form from the graveyard I want to get buried at. But I go with cremation and have a urn. I want to have a urn grave in the middle of the graveyard and with no trees so I can see the sky (If there is something after dead lol, hope not but you never know) the urn itself is round like a ball and has a skull on it, I like it rebelious. My parents can decide if they also make a tombstone or not and if they wanna write something about me on it. For my funeral I have made a playlist with songs, they are explaining how I felt all my life, what I felt during death somehow and what I wish for my family. I want them to play all of them and for diner they should buy lots of fastfood. I don't care about what I wear because I will be turning to ashes anyway. I would like if they say a few words about me, something nice.
 
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