people only reach out to me on the days they're socially obligated to

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my chronic illnesses are with me 365 days a year. but my family only checks in on holidays. it feels insincere and disingenuous, like they're only doing it to fulfil the social contract.

why not message me on a random Tuesday if you care about me so much? Why not at least reply to my message instead of leaving me on delivered for months.