Venting "People care about you" "You're not alone" "It'll get better"

[newslaves916]

I hate when people say this shit

"There's people who care about you"

Ok?

That doesn't change how I feel

"It'll get better"

After years it's been proven that it fucking won't it gets worse and I'm not gonna dissapoint myself by continously hoping for good feelings that'll never come

"You're not alone"

Not only does this not change anything, But why the fuck would I be comforted by knowing so many people have such fucked up lives they all wanna die

 

[nobodycaresaboutme]

Huge lies. Such people are not going to be accountable for those words.

 

[Macedonian1987]

For me the sentence "It will get better" pisses me off so much... Because of how untrue it is. With age, life can only get worse not better (in 90% of the cases)

There's people who care about you - sadly this is true for me. I wish nobody cared about me so that I could ctb without hurting anyone. The only reason why i drag this life out and delaying my ctb are my parents. If they weren't alive (dying of old age) I would have ctb years ago.

 

[newslaves916]

For me the sentence "It will get better" pisses me off so much... Because of how untrue it is. With age, life can only get worse not better (in 90% of the cases)

There's people who care about you - sadly this is true for me. I wish nobody cared about me so that I could ctb without hurting anyone. The only reason why i drag this life out and delaying my ctb are my parents. If they weren't alive (dying of old age) I would have ctb years ago.

Yeah same
It would hurt my parents too much and I couldn't do that to them
I also don't have very good methods yet so,
Once they pass away and I have a good method I'll probably do it

 

[kopebaldy]

I keep dragging out days after days, years after years and the only conclusion I came up with was I should've killed myself 3 decades ago.

 

[FrustratedGirl]

For me, the worst is when people say that they're sorry. I don't know, I really hate it. Like and now? Thanks ig?

Also the fact that there are people who care… Another person that suffers because of me (besides myself ^^).

And yes "it will get better" pisses me off too. They don't know?! And in my experience it's like a reverse world stock market: It sometimes gets better for some time but over a long time it only goes down…

 

[Ashes of a Dreamer]

Ok, another lucid soul. Here are the truths people don't want to talk about - specially for suicidals:

- Only a few people really care about you, the majority of them doesn't give a fuck about your existence;

- It doesn't necessarily get better, life is full of setbacks at any time;

- A person doesn't feel lonely with true connection, and it's hard to find.

 

[newslaves916]

I keep dragging out days after days, years after years and the only conclusion I came up with was I should've killed myself 3 decades ago.

I probably shoulda killed myself in 2020
I kept convincing myself it would get better but it's honestly worse to think that, because you'll just feel worse when it don't get better so it's better to not expect it

 

[alstroemeria55]

People don't care. They use you for their own impulses and throw you away. Thinking it will get better is just the lie keeping you alive one more day. One more day of lies and disappointment. I'm waiting for the day where I've finally had enough and hang myself.

 

[Hotsackage]

if anyone cares its us

 

[FadingSnowFake]

"There's people who care about you" - Maybe, and we care about people too. But nobody can understand how it feels to be where we are, unless they've been where we are. I agree with @Hotsackage, we care because we get it.

"It'll get better" - Right, nobody knows, and it's almost an insult when in reality things keep on getting worse and they want us to believe it can get better? It's like we live in a different world and people in the other world cannot comprehend what's happening in ours.

"You're not alone" - This one I use too, on here, when I feel I can relate. But it's true what you say, it confirms we are not the only ones with f*cked up lives. It also reminds me that there are people worse off than me, that I am not special, and that in the end, it all comes to nothing anyways.

 

[Forveleth]

I hate when people say this shit

"There's people who care about you"

Ok?

That doesn't change how I feel

"It'll get better"

After years it's been proven that it fucking won't it gets worse and I'm not gonna dissapoint myself by continously hoping for good feelings that'll never come

"You're not alone"

Not only does this not change anything, But why the fuck would I be comforted by knowing so many people have such fucked up lives they all wanna die

My exact responses to these phraes. It is all empty words as a copy -pasta response to some being depressed. There is no thought behind

 

[newslaves916]

People don't care. They use you for their own impulses and throw you away. Thinking it will get better is just the lie keeping you alive one more day. One more day of lies and disappointment. I'm waiting for the day where I've finally had enough and hang myself.

They want to keep you alive to control you

My exact responses to these phraes. It is all empty words as a copy -pasta response to some being depressed. There is no thought behind

Yup, no actual thought, just a robotic copy paste