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wildflowers1996
Arcanist
- Oct 14, 2023
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Why do humanitarian workers bother to go to places like Gaza?
It would be easier for them to just pretend what's happening isn't happening, but they don't. They choose to put themselves in danger to help others.
I suppose you could say that they're really going for their own benefit, because helping people gives them a sense of purpose. I don't really think that though. I think they probably wish so, so much that all the horrors happening there weren't happening, and they don't want to be there. You could say that they do what they do because they can't stand to think of the people/animals there suffering - but would it not be easier just to do anything they can to take their minds' off it? To pretend that no one there is suffering? "Ignorance is bliss"?
I'm sure that's what a lot of us do, to protect ourselves. It's too painful to think about, so we don't. But that doesn't make the suffering in Gaza stop, just because we are unaware of it. And if you are aware of that - that is incredibly painful - so you just don't think about it. And so on. But not everyone takes that path; some people are motivated into action, into trying to help those people. Maybe they just lack the ability not to think about the suffering, to pretend it isn't real, I don't know.
But clearly, they're not solipsists, they believe in an external world, of suffering outside of their own. For the same reason I find killing myself really difficult, because I end my own pain, but not others' - and I am no more important than anyone else.
For my own benefit, ending my pain makes sense, so why do I find it so difficult? I won't be there to see my family suffering after I die - but I can't get past this thought "but that doesn't mean the suffering doesn't exist". Maybe it's that thought in itself which is holding me back - if I stop thinking about it, I'll be able to ctb. Am I just incapable of blocking out that thought? Maybe I should be trying to block it out? But there's such a strong voice in me saying "please don't hurt them".
I guess I'm saying - why do we care about others, when it just hurts us?
It would be easier for them to just pretend what's happening isn't happening, but they don't. They choose to put themselves in danger to help others.
I suppose you could say that they're really going for their own benefit, because helping people gives them a sense of purpose. I don't really think that though. I think they probably wish so, so much that all the horrors happening there weren't happening, and they don't want to be there. You could say that they do what they do because they can't stand to think of the people/animals there suffering - but would it not be easier just to do anything they can to take their minds' off it? To pretend that no one there is suffering? "Ignorance is bliss"?
I'm sure that's what a lot of us do, to protect ourselves. It's too painful to think about, so we don't. But that doesn't make the suffering in Gaza stop, just because we are unaware of it. And if you are aware of that - that is incredibly painful - so you just don't think about it. And so on. But not everyone takes that path; some people are motivated into action, into trying to help those people. Maybe they just lack the ability not to think about the suffering, to pretend it isn't real, I don't know.
But clearly, they're not solipsists, they believe in an external world, of suffering outside of their own. For the same reason I find killing myself really difficult, because I end my own pain, but not others' - and I am no more important than anyone else.
For my own benefit, ending my pain makes sense, so why do I find it so difficult? I won't be there to see my family suffering after I die - but I can't get past this thought "but that doesn't mean the suffering doesn't exist". Maybe it's that thought in itself which is holding me back - if I stop thinking about it, I'll be able to ctb. Am I just incapable of blocking out that thought? Maybe I should be trying to block it out? But there's such a strong voice in me saying "please don't hurt them".
I guess I'm saying - why do we care about others, when it just hurts us?