On my 2nd bottle of wine

[BeansOfRequirement]

Started drinking again recently. Only way I'd be able to post like this. Anyway, seems like only one guy I remember from a few years back is still around this forum. Aight, the topic? The topic is some advice. Don't oversimplify or overcomplicate, takes a while to fix these spelling errors. Next up: crying as usual. No gf. Played video game where you date and shit, fuck that sent me off. Thought this would go away with age, testosterone dropping, etc. No way out, no realistic way I mean, I won't die without an ace up my sleeve, there's always some unrealistic shit we can pull, right?

I'm now in my late twenties, this shit is fucking pathetic. How tf I end up here, I'm not that stupid? My autism should have been bypassed? What the actual fuck? Fuck this shit, shit turned to fuck and I keep making the same mistakes. Spelling errors fewer? Anyone even read this? Why there has to be a hot af japanese woman at the gym I go to??? Can I work out without this shit, reminders? Everything links together, or not, some things at least. I fucked up, young men reading this DO SOMETHING. ASK HER OUT NOW. Waiting = loss, in my scenario, maybe in yours it means victory. Why this shit so complicated? Mf neocortex on fire whenever I'm not regarded and all this uncertainty.

Bout to run out of wine. I sincerely hope y'all have a good life, I won't die yet (or even soon), and I'm drunk enough to still write. I try to strive to get a girlfriend with my plan, due to low % the effort involved is low but at least it's something. "Do something, even if it costs you nothing".

 

[WhiteRabbit]

DO SOMETHING. ASK HER OUT NOW.

Take your own advice. It's not too late for you.

 

[BeansOfRequirement]

A bit embarrassing drunkposting, maybe I'll leave it up.

Take your own advice. It's not too late for you.

There is no good opportunity at this moment, and even if there will come another chance at some point my track record is sabotaging it 100% of the time. My plan makes it so that I should be able to work around this, but it's maybe less than a fraction of 1% likelihood of working. Also, if I somehow just get a girlfriend now I think it'd halt my progress and destroy my "story", make basically my entire life so far seem like a mistake instead of a lesson; but the trade off of not having to manage all this emotional pain is certainly not nothing.

Thanks for helping, best regards.

 

[Angst Filled Fuck Up]

Hey man. Have you been working on creating an environment that lets you mingle in person? That would be my priority in your situation. If you're too isolated you don't have the right opportunities to network without pressure, and as such "finding a girlfriend" is jumping the gun.

If you have a good friend or sibling to go out and have a drink with, I would start there. From what I remember, it was always easy to meet new people in England. America's more insular in that respect.

In general, I think fixating on one woman is a mistake, and the whole "asking her out" bit is sort of a lot of pressure too. That's quite likely to backfire in many cases. I think ideally you should sort of fall into a situation with someone organically, without it being a formal process of any kind.

Hope you make some progress soon. Good luck to you.