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dandelion_fluff

dandelion_fluff

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Apr 12, 2026
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Omg omg, an old friend from middle school just messaged me and wished me happy birthday!! I didn't know she even remembered. And this comes right after I've been thinking back on those middle school times and missing them. Should I try to reconnect? I'm scared she won't want to rekindle our friendship since she already has tons of friends.
 
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id say go for it. Worst case scenario you dont speak again, but that would've happened if you never reached out anyways. Theres a chance you'll become friends again, i say go for it! If she remembered your birthday it might be a sign she wants to reconnect too. And happy birthday!
 
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id say go for it. Worst case scenario you dont speak again, but that would've happened if you never reached out anyways. Theres a chance you'll become friends again, i say go for it! If she remembered your birthday it might be a sign she wants to reconnect too. And happy birthday!
Thank you! And I'll try. But I already sent back a thank you, and she hasn't responded, and it has been hours. I guess I should try to continue the conversation
 
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Thank you! And I'll try. But I already sent back a thank you, and she hasn't responded, and it has been hours. I guess I should try to continue the conversation
Sounds like a good idea. I find it hard to come up with a response to thank you besides 'you're welcome'. Go for the classic "what have you been up to?", easiest way to continue a convo. Good luck!
 
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