@Pain In The Ass you have totally high jacked this post. @MicropBaldCurrycel I'm sorry your post has been overtaking by someone needing to argue their point at any lengths.
yes thats why i left and didnt reply but i have read everyones good replies thank u all but this guy really bothered me and i didnt wana deal with it anymore .
I think folks aren't saying you're wrong, they're saying your delivery sucks. Of course people who suffer from mood disorders tend to globalize, distort, catastrophize—it's part of the deal, and once mood has been chemically stabilized, that's what treatment goes after with things like CBT, and DBT.
It's also true that thought distortions can be annoying as fuck to folks on the outside looking in. But so what? Why vent your frustration? Surely to Christ you can appreciate it doesn't ever do any good? No one's going to have an epiphany because you barked at them, so why bother?
but it is real , i have noticed it... i linked a video where the guy even talks about it and why he doesnt like going out and doing certain jobs anyway this pain in the ass guy totally ruined my whole thread and hijacked it just to impose his views , thanks to the people who actually watched the videos and took time to understand but i didnt wana reply cause that guy ruined everything, i came here for support and to talk about my experience, not do be told its all in my head or i dont know what im talking about when im the one experiencing it.
I totally get the bulge thing. It's not a lack of a bulge, it's there being a certain kind of bulge that is incredibly telling about what's going on down there, and it's very easy to notice. It looks bad, and I definitely get your distress. And yeah, your condition really sucks. People will judge you for it which is just a horrible thing that you can't escape from. It's certainly a good reason to be unhappy and would inspire me to withdraw even more from the world than I already am. There may be ways to conceal it, which sadly doesn't fix the issue, but it's the most that can apparently be done. I don't know how though.
yes thank u , its why i have withdrawn and even the guy in the video he shows it and explains.
i am thinking of ways of concealing it and theres a few options but theres some downsides to that so im figuring out the logistics.
I watched the video, I feel like I learned something today. I never even knew this was a thing. I've heard men talk about having a micro penis but just thought they meant 'on the small side' or something. And I also never considered how this must affect a man's confidence, sense of masculinity, sex life, social life and so on. Never considered that a man would only do certain types of jobs because of it, like the guy in the video. I think he may have been traumatically bullied in the past to make him so self conscious.
thank you for watching the video and taking the time to understand the problem, it affects our lives in many ways .
I was once in a long distance relationship with a girl with a condition called vaginismus (basically she cannot have penetrative sex because it's very painful and uncomfortable) so to her my size was irrelevant, she did have sexual desires but sex would have taken different ways that don't even require a penis at all (we never met in person before we broke up, nonetheless point is there's all kinds of people), I have a friend who is demi/asexual and sex is a minimal part of a relationship to her, there's such cases.
i would love to find a girlfriend like these but how do i find them?
I'm wondering, there is no surgery available to do something about it?
yes but its like 50k usd and i live in a third world country so i dont even know if il make that much in my lifetime.
It's easy for others to dismiss your pain; the words "it's in your head" should be banned from this site. Imo, that message is one of the worst things someone could hear, especially when they're opening up and expressing what they're dealing/struggling with. Those words could be ignorantly hurled at anyone no matter the circumstances, and I'm sure many on this forum (myself certainly included) have been hurt and offended by that very message in their own situations. You don't deserve that, and you have nothing to prove.
thank you so much, and you are so right. No one here should be invalidated, we all came here for support and not to be imposed upon or chastised.
Also, out of curiosity. (You don't have to answer) You would be dating women?
yes i do want to , and thank you for the reply. you take care too.
