Discussion My questions to U guys

[H.O.Xan]

1. Have u guys lost ur will to resist? Against anything, differs from person to person

2. Do u guys see the world as kill or be killed knowing fully well that revenge won't turn back or undo the shitstorm that struck u?

3. I'm pleased to inform that I've been accepted into the course I wanted to study. Any advice to handle pressure in uni from here on out?

4. How have u attained ur freedom? To those who have now?

5. How do I start working towards my freedom if I have restrictive household?

 

[TemporaryJob]

1. i personally never lost my will to fight and resist the shit that happenes to me.

2. i do see the world as kill or be killed, and while revenge won't fix what happened it feels pretty good.

3. And for advice on how to handle uni pressure would be planning. i know some for a lot of people planning doesn't help but for me it really does. read your class syllabuses too, it usually contains a lot of useful info that can be used later. And do assignments ahead that way u always have more done then u need. But when stuff stacks up know that any progress is still progress and it's better to just start then to worry.

4. for me attaining freedom was just waiting, i just had to wait to be old enough to escape. i was planning how to get out years beforehand so i already knew how to live on my own, and get a job n such.

5. and i'm not quite sure what you mean by restrictive household so idk.

 

[wristcutangel]

1. i still have the impulse to fight back sometimes, but for the most part i've just left things up to luck. i don't think i can do anything.

2. i'm unsure. i do want revenge though. if the people that brought me down here aren't taken down, then they'll just hurt even more people the same way.

3. unsure, since i'm still waiting to see if my grades will be good enough to be accepted to college myself.

4. i haven't, i don't know if i ever will.

5. i'm in the same situation, so i don't know.

 

[MeltingBrain]

1. I say yes to myself but deep down no .
2. I generally don't seek revenge on smaller stuff. I feel betrayed and hold grudges if you break my trust on the big stuff . Will I seek revenge in that case ? I don't know, I have never been in that position thankfully .
3. Take a course you really like ! Try to aim for excellence and not success, meaning try to be really good at your craft instead of only milking GPA . Take care of your mental health .
4. I won't say I have . Still living in parents house just sustaining.
5.
-Separate your finances and make fair contributions to the household.
- Make fair contributions in daily chores.
-Buy your own stuff with your own money .
-Try to move out .
-Don't ask your parents to make errands for something you want . Do it yourself .
-After you have done the above , you and they will feel the shift . Be firm regarding exercising your freedoms but be respectful [remember they are your parents and they love you (I am assuming)] .

 

[H.O.Xan]

For context. Restrictive means not being allowed to go outside, etc. those of u wondering

 

[suicidalloser]

no
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ok
dunno
dunno

my question to you:
why do you write like alexander? that alone is trauma-evoking.

 

[HighFlight]

1. No, I have the will to resist. But sometimes resistance isn't the best course of action.
2. The world is not black and white. It's a million shades of gray (and every other color imaginable). Learn when to kill, and know that when you do, you will carry that death with you.
3. Congratulations! Focus on your path and not so much on the overall goal. "With one eye focused on the goal, you only have one eye left to find the way." And enjoy the journey - both the good and the bad.
4. Be true to yourself. It is the ultimate freedom.
5. Be patient. Based on your questions, I'm assuming your pretty young. (I'm guessing late teens?) You're 'freedom' is right around the corner. But be careful what you wish for. With greater freedom comes greater responsibility.

Wishing you all the best.