drinkclorox
Lost
- Apr 19, 2023
- 7
Quick background info: I'm in my last year of med school. My country does not have a hotline. I don't trust my family and friends.
For the sake of the "family name", my parents forced me to get into med school. I did not apply for med school, her employees did. I tried to purposefully fail the entrance exam but here I am now. I told my mum that I'm clearly not cut out for this because of my crippling depression but she didn't listen.
I have barely passing grades, I'm scared of blood and gore, I feel like I'm going to hurt my patients. I just don't want to hurt other people. I learned nothing these past few years.
It's worse because my mum is constantly monitoring me. I can't type at my phone for more than 2 minutes at a time or she'll take my phone away and look through it. I'm 20+ years old and she insists that I still sleep in her room.
If I don't obey her commands I get whooped multiple times. If I talk back, she insults everything about me and asks me to kms, telling me how she wish I was never born. When I had my failed attempt, she somehow found out and beat me more. I couldn't walk for a few days. She even locked me inside a room, not even allowed to get food downstairs.
I had a talk with her, even my thoughts of ctb. I told her how stressed I was with everything (including her ofc). I said that I want to move out and live my own life. I'm also willing to go to therapy if she supports me. All she said was "Therapy is for crazy people. What will our family members think if you go to therapy?"
My little sister is going through the exact same thing as me and I don't want to see her suffer like me. I have been fighting against her going to med school (she wants to do interior design). But my mum is forcing her and things are going to finalise soon.
All my packages and bank accounts are monitored by her, so I can't buy stuff online. Everyday she asks for the receipts for everything I buy in cash and calculates to see if it matches. I really want to ctb peacefully and painlessly. But I feel like there's this wall I have to overcome first. Advice?
For the sake of the "family name", my parents forced me to get into med school. I did not apply for med school, her employees did. I tried to purposefully fail the entrance exam but here I am now. I told my mum that I'm clearly not cut out for this because of my crippling depression but she didn't listen.
I have barely passing grades, I'm scared of blood and gore, I feel like I'm going to hurt my patients. I just don't want to hurt other people. I learned nothing these past few years.
It's worse because my mum is constantly monitoring me. I can't type at my phone for more than 2 minutes at a time or she'll take my phone away and look through it. I'm 20+ years old and she insists that I still sleep in her room.
If I don't obey her commands I get whooped multiple times. If I talk back, she insults everything about me and asks me to kms, telling me how she wish I was never born. When I had my failed attempt, she somehow found out and beat me more. I couldn't walk for a few days. She even locked me inside a room, not even allowed to get food downstairs.
I had a talk with her, even my thoughts of ctb. I told her how stressed I was with everything (including her ofc). I said that I want to move out and live my own life. I'm also willing to go to therapy if she supports me. All she said was "Therapy is for crazy people. What will our family members think if you go to therapy?"
My little sister is going through the exact same thing as me and I don't want to see her suffer like me. I have been fighting against her going to med school (she wants to do interior design). But my mum is forcing her and things are going to finalise soon.
All my packages and bank accounts are monitored by her, so I can't buy stuff online. Everyday she asks for the receipts for everything I buy in cash and calculates to see if it matches. I really want to ctb peacefully and painlessly. But I feel like there's this wall I have to overcome first. Advice?
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