Venting My friend thinks I am self harm

[Bad-luck]

my friend thinks I am self harming (which I am). it makes me worried because some other people have noticed the scars but didn't push forward. It makes me so scared and helpless because I don't want to get help and I can't stop self harming. i want this to just end as soon as possible.

 

[CloudyNightSky]

Ahh that sucks. I told everyone that saw them for years "I accidentally hit myself on a stone while climbing". Omg that was so dumb like- my scars are messy but nevertheless quite clearly cuts. So in the end a few found out but not all bc I do sh on my hip/thigh and that area is rarely exposed.
You could just both ignore it or maybe talking helps. If a Person, who you trust, saw the scars maybe talking about it isn't such a bad idea.

 

[Bad-luck]

Ahh that sucks. I told everyone that saw them for years "I accidentally hit myself on a stone while climbing". Omg that was so dumb like- my scars are messy but nevertheless quite clearly cuts. So in the end a few found out but not all bc I do sh on my hip/thigh and that area is rarely exposed.
You could just both ignore it or maybe talking helps. If a Person, who you trust, saw the scars maybe talking about it isn't such a bad idea.

Thanks. Perhaps I'll go and talk to them

 

[CloudyNightSky]

Thanks. Perhaps I'll go and talk to them

That's good. Before you ctb it's important to really make sure since it's probably the most important decision of your life :p

 

[Bad-luck]

That's good. Before you ctb it's important to really make sure since it's probably the most important decision of your life :p

Thanks!