Help my family became unreturnable, with bringing in private policeman, who stayed with them as a friend?

[Ah.ow]

I'm so confused, is this a phenomenon that happens?

now that person too will hear if I asked a family person a question. so it seems I can't.

I feel worse and I wonder where to go, because it seems any option so far, there will be lots of grating gossip about me.

lots of bad will happen over words, whoever I talk to and wherever I go?

I am lost also why the gossipers tell me alot or what they've said? ah

wish I had a burner phone to ask this on, I'm afraid to say anything on this device, including this, but it seems any coordination or followup would need a device. and I haven't seen any safety services do their job. f me