Abaigh

Abaigh

Student
Jan 20, 2020
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I'm really sorry for your loss. Pets are amazing companions and nobody should ever dismiss their passing as a small thing. If it is any consolation, it seems like it was quick with little suffering. From the photos and the way you speak about him, it seems he was very well-loved and knew it during his life.
Thank you. Yes it was most likely instant or almost instant so at least he didn't feel much pain. He was extremely spoiled and he loved it.
I'm so sorry to hear about your cat. I lost my pup late last year and even though I have a new pup, nothing can take the place and fill the sadness left by my pup. I think about her daily and look at photos of her frequently. She would sleep under the covers with me. She'd always sleep on my pillow when waiting for me to come to bed.
Thank you and sorry to hear about your pup. That's so cute that she slept under the covers. What was the pups name?
 
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Suez

Suez

Experienced
Feb 27, 2020
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Yeah just hearing him breathing just soothes me so much too. May I ask do you have a pic of Baxter that you can show?
As soon as i started talking about him i realised that i hadnt transferred his photo from my old phone onto my new one. So as soon as ive done that ill put one on here for you to see. OMG i so want to see his little face now. First mission is to get my phone. Im storing some stuff for a friend downstairs which i dont mind, but its been like about a year now and her stuff sits in front of a large cubboard where i store all my photo albums, all my books, all my media stuff, including old phones etc. So i need to move her stuff agghhh. Its times like this i realise how much her stuff is actually pissing me off.
 
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Lost_the_will2_live

Lost_the_will2_live

11:11
Feb 25, 2020
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I'm so sorry for your loss. What a beautiful cat. My dogs are the only reason I am still here, so I can totally relate to how you feel about your cat!

thoughts with you at this time ❤
 
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Abaigh

Abaigh

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Jan 20, 2020
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As soon as i started talking about him i realised that i hadnt transferred his photo from my old phone onto my new one. So as soon as ive done that ill put one on here for you to see. OMG i so want to see his little face now. First mission is to get my phone. Im storing some stuff for a friend downstairs which i dont mind, but its been like about a year now and her stuff sits in front of a large cubboard where i store all my photo albums, all my books, all my media stuff, including old phones etc. So i need to move her stuff agghhh. Its times like this i realise how much her stuff is actually pissing me off.
Hahahah it's fine don't worry bout the pic too much. ❤️
 
Suez

Suez

Experienced
Feb 27, 2020
279
Hahahah it's fine don't worry bout the pic too much. ❤
Ive been pulling furniture aside and throwing things around in a blind panic at not knowing where things are. Problem was i had two moves within the last year when i had to move and my mum also died so theres stuff ive yet to find thats so important to me. I know its there but i just dont know where. Anyway i managed to find an actual photo of BAXTER WITH BOTH EYES. I wanted to add, unfortunately, because he really was way way cuter with one eye. Image not sooo great sorry.

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Emily123

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May 28, 2019
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I am very sorry honey :heart:
 
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Adamsnolife

Adamsnolife

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May 5, 2020
394
So very sorry for your loss
 
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terry_a_davis

terry_a_davis

Warlock
Dec 28, 2019
707
ok this thread is too much im out
The post this comment is about I don't understand either. Surely it'd be better to put your pet in a rehoming center (I'm assuming this was an option - apologies if not), even if it got euthanized after a certain amount of time if not rehomed and the conditions were not as good as someone's home, they are still fed and sheltered at these places and at least they'd have a chance. The mind boggles tbh.

Op sorry for your loss. Seems it's not uncommon with cats to be run over, I've picked a neighbours dead cat up off the road after being run over and that driver didn't stop either. All the best I wish you well.
 
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Soul

Soul

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Apr 12, 2019
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@Abaigh, I'm sorry. You gave Charlie a wonderful life and he loves you and will always be purring in your heart. Love and light to Charlie x
 
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Borabora

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May 6, 2020
63
I know this might seem like a small thing but it litreally broke my heart I still can't stop crying. He was hit by a car I heard the bang but when I got to him he was already dead. He was completely limp I felt shattered I didn't know I could love an something so much until that cat. He is litreally my pfp on this is gonna miss him so much sorry just had to post to rant a tiny bit.
the person who hit him never stopped never didanything just drove away.View attachment 34317View attachment 34316
So sorry for your loss. We are here for you.
 
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Abaigh

Abaigh

Student
Jan 20, 2020
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Ive been pulling furniture aside and throwing things around in a blind panic at not knowing where things are. Problem was i had two moves within the last year when i had to move and my mum also died so theres stuff ive yet to find thats so important to me. I know its there but i just dont know where. Anyway i managed to find an actual photo of BAXTER WITH BOTH EYES. I wanted to add, unfortunately, because he really was way way cuter with one eye. Image not sooo great sorry.

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Omggggg he was so cute!! I love his fur pattern and colors.
 
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mediocre

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That is not a small thing! A cat is a member of the family imo. I'm so sorry your lost your kitty :heart:
 
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Abaigh

Abaigh

Student
Jan 20, 2020
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The post this comment is about I don't understand either. Surely it'd be better to put your pet in a rehoming center (I'm assuming this was an option - apologies if not), even if it got euthanized after a certain amount of time if not rehomed and the conditions were not as good as someone's home, they are still fed and sheltered at these places and at least they'd have a chance. The mind boggles tbh.

Op sorry for your loss. Seems it's not uncommon with cats to be run over, I've picked a neighbours dead cat up off the road after being run over and that driver didn't stop either. All the best I wish you well.
I completely agree with what you said about the other persons post but we probably don't know all the details. Thank you btw ❤️
 
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Lostandfound7

Lostandfound7

Just waiting....
Jan 21, 2020
995
Oh, I'm so sorry my love. My condolences on the loss of ur fur baby..My 2 pups r the loves of my life, so I can totally understand the sheer devastation. Sending u big virtual (((((((((hug))))))))

Ur baby can never b replaced but I hope that u will find another one soon that u can love on...

Sleep in Sweet Peace ChaCha:heart:
 
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TotallyIsolated

Mage
Nov 25, 2019
590
Thats awful I'm so terribly sorry for your loss.

I can't have a pet where I live but I grew up with many cats and dogs. They're members of the family. Losing them never gets any easier.
 
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Soul

Soul

gate gate paragate parasamgate bodhi svaha
Apr 12, 2019
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@Suez, Baxter is gorgeous! It's very rare for a male to have that colouring, I think. Love and light to him x
 
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Jumper Geo

Jumper Geo

Life's a bitch and then you die.
Feb 23, 2020
2,910
So sorry its sad you lost your cat in such a terrible way, we all love our animals most of the time more than human beings but the cat had a happy life with you so remember the good times, :heart:

 
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Abaigh

Abaigh

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Jan 20, 2020
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Oh, I'm so sorry my love. My condolences on the loss of ur fur baby..My 2 pups r the loves of my life, so I can totally understand the sheer devastation. Sending u big virtual (((((((((hug))))))))

Ur baby can never b replaced but I hope that u will find another one soon that u can love on...

Sleep in Sweet Peace ChaCha:heart:
Thank you means a lot❤️
So sorry its sad you lost your cat in such a terrible way, we all love our animals most of the time more than human beings but the cat had a happy life with you so remember the good times, :heart:


Thank you ❤️ Awwww that video is so cute.
Thank you everyone for your nice comments honestly means so much. My family got me a teddy that looks like him so it dosent feel as weird not going to sleep with him on my bed. Image
 
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Brick In The Wall

Brick In The Wall

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Oct 30, 2019
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There's alot of cat lovers here so I'm sure many will sympathize with you. Terribly sorry for the loss of your furry family member.
 
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DJ2000

DJ2000

Member
Apr 23, 2020
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I know this might seem like a small thing but it litreally broke my heart I still can't stop crying. He was hit by a car I heard the bang but when I got to him he was already dead. He was completely limp I felt shattered I didn't know I could love an something so much until that cat. He is litreally my pfp on this is gonna miss him so much sorry just had to post to rant a tiny bit.
the person who hit him never stopped never didanything just drove away.View attachment 34317View attachment 34316

Brutal, good cats are hard to come by these days. My dad had a cat for over 14 years until he ran away and we never saw him afain. Got 4 cats since then to fill the void I guess.
 
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Abaigh

Abaigh

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Brutal, good cats are hard to come by these days. My had had a car for over 14 years until he ran away and we never saw him afain. Got 4 cats since then to fill the void I guess.
thank you❤️What's your cats names?
 
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I’mDone

Experienced
Mar 22, 2020
261
I'm so sorry for your loss. Our furry friends are hugely special and I feel your pain..
 
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DJ2000

DJ2000

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Apr 23, 2020
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thank you❤What's your cats names?

stepsisters stole them from him, and actually 1 just showed up on the doorstep they named max. The others are Sabrina, Bella and Edward.
 
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FusRohDracarys

But what do I know
Mar 31, 2020
236
I am so unbelievably sorry. I lost my childhood cat (parent's cat) to coyotes a year ago and I remember how angry and sad I felt. I know that doesn't even begin to compare to what you must be feeling right now. I'm so sorry this happened to you. I can't imagine how utterly shattered I'd be if I lost my current cats. I'm sending you hugs and hope that you'll find healing and be able to remember how happy you made him and all the good times you have had with him. Please feel free to reach out if you need anything.
 
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Erase.myself

Erase.myself

My body is a prison
Jan 4, 2020
198
I am terribly sorry for your loss and the pain that you are experiencing. That's got to hurt so much. We are here for you. Sending you so many hugs ❤️
 
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So sorry for your loss. He must have meant the world to you and you to him. I was devastated when I lost my dog many years ago. Without a doubt, my best friend. :hug:
 
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torturedbylife

torturedbylife

Enemy of the world
May 2, 2020
130
I'm so sorry for your loss. Your cat looked so young. It breaks my heart when such innocent beings die so young in a brutal way. One of my cats died too 2 years ago but from old age. It really affected me especially when I saw her lying there lifeless :(. Pets deaths are the worst.
 
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HitchHiker

HitchHiker

Student
Jun 23, 2019
140
I'm truly sorry for your loss. What a beautiful boy he was. Losing a fur baby is one of the most painful things ever. They are our family and leave such a huge hole. Sending big hugs to you.

In the UK if you hit a dog then by law you have to report it. But not for cats. It's so wrong and no decent human would hit a kitty and just carry on. I hope that person get a big smack of karma.
 
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Deleted member 10475

Tired.
Sep 11, 2019
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I'm so sorry for your loss, hun. Baxter was such a cutie pie and he'll continue to be through pictures and memories.

My cat (Steve Harrington lol) is literally my world and growing up with so many pets, I know it's hard to finally lose one. I hope you'll adopt another at some point, sending you love and hugs ♥️
 
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Jumper Geo

Jumper Geo

Life's a bitch and then you die.
Feb 23, 2020
2,910
I am an animal lover and I really miss my cool cat what died, but you do realise you have have had a bigger response from people who are killing themselves haha just a thought , RIP pussy.

Life is cruel so why do we still have children, I wish I wasn't born into a violent abusive relationship, why do they have children so they won't be beaten, why the fuck would you want to have a child with a person with no sense of humour and a violent cunt, there should be a law, my main trouble is he died when I was 11 so I never had the chance to torture him and his family (wankers) well that's my vent over, lol
 
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