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You have a BF?
Please stop projecting your issues on others, we get it your sad you get no sex.
Everyone is in different circumstances. Just because something might make your life better does not mean those things work for someone else. Plenty of people with loving partners are still severely depressed.
Maybe because my life's mission isn't to live for a man…this is a really strange thing to say and if you really want that it is super easy because men will literally date anyone as long as you're a female
I want him, he isn't like any other man I have encountered before but I have self destructive tendencies, I try and tell him about my depression and suicidal thoughts but he gets really upset and just wants to make them go away but they can't just go away because I have had them for years
This is extremely true and I'm glad your wife has been there for you
There is a lot to lose, I'm not trying to mentally fuck up another person who cares about meVery lucky people, but im not gonna hate.
What I am gonna do is recommend you tell him the full extent. Let him try to help you. Is there anything to lose?
I'm also a hypocrite cause I keep everything secret.
It's fine I understand where you're coming from, I'm not purposely dragging anyone down. It is hard to let go of someone you love and who wants to keep fighting for you regardless of your mental health and poor circumstances.
I'm sure it's hard but you need to think about the fact that you're being dishonest about something crucial.
I was never dishonest about my mental health, it doesn't take a genius to look at me and realise something is severely wrong. I don't understand it either I cannot just let go because (albeit very rare) some people want to just keep fighting for you. I don't know why or what I did to deserve being fought for but I cannot just ignore that. He may eventually say that I am too much for him and if he does c'est la vie…I never forced or deceived anyone into loving me because I physically can't do it and I'm not desperate for love anyway
Not true for me. My standards are so high, the female I'm looking for was never created.
It's funny, if I would've said this, a mod would've threatened me, because this is mean. It's true, but not very nice. Props.
Lol.
*crickets*
It sounds like he rlly cares, but just fails to understand it..
He may need to know the details from your perspective. You see hopless, he does not.
Ypu obviously are feeling emotive and hurting, but please stop attacking everyone else for YOUR issues, we still get it, sad incel sad and angry.
If you don't tell him the truth, you will eventually have another breakup. That's guaranteed. If you do tell him, it might be more than he can cope with, in which case he would probably leave you, now or later. But if he can cope, he may well stick with you. Perhaps forever. I think your best option is to take the risk and be honest with him.
This is very true, it is a double edged sword and I think I am ready to face it head on
Understand you , i wish i still had her and she hadn't left me or at the very least i could have someone as good as her or better than her but it is what it is , gotta suffer! while she enjoys!
Stan, please listen. It's a fantasy you've concocted.Relationships can be extremely hard. You're having this idea in your head that a relationship can save you. People can be quite selfish. They will leave you for no reason in particular. And they have a right to do that as well. If they're not happy in the relationship either, then they can leave you. So you can't really expect a relationship to save you. Also, if you give someone else that kind of power over you. It's a recipe for disaster. I've seen you post this a few Times Now.Just wanted to say my piece.
Yeah I know
Don't worry about them, they're like this to everyone on this site
Sadly heaven doesn't exist; and the only hell is on earth
