mom and dad fighting and threatening to seperate because i came home at 11 pm

[GASLIGHTER7000]

im an 18 year old girl fyi. i want to die so bad. they screamed at me for an hour and then fought with eachother, my mom threatening my dad to leave. i hate my life

 

[gottacheckout]

I bet they are not really threatening to separate because you came home at 11. There is most likely an underlying reason that has nothing to do with you. Try to find a way to drown out the noise, headphones or what have you.

 

[Agon321]

They don't want to break up with each other because of this.

Of course I don't know your situation because I don't have any information, but if I had to guess, they have some kind of small or big conflict and even a small situation can be a flashpoint.
When someone doesn't get along, it doesn't take much for emotions to explode.

You're not the cause of the bad situation, but you're just a scapegoat in a sense.

 

[Slimprofessional010]

I am sorry that all of that happened to you. I understand that all too well. My parents would argue and my mom's boyfriend would always hit her and do even worse stuff to her. I was also abused a lot, over years of abuse. I hope that it has stopped and if not, just do your best. I never knew my real dad, he left when I was young, and I was and are hated. Thanks for saying what happened.

 

[SomewhatLoved]

As someone who grew up with parents that fought for 9 years and then divorced... this is childish. You coming back late should not really have any implications between THEIR relationship. As others have said they likely have their own issues and conflicts and it's coming out directed at you.

You don't deserve this. They're being unfair towards you, please realise that. You can't blame yourself for what is happening between them.

 

[willow115]

Your parents hate each other, it has nothing to do with you.