Venting Men that used to bully or ignore me in school are now suddenly very sexually interested in me and reaching out to me?

[BlueButterfly111]

I know this isn't anything special or new, but something is very weird about it. Men that I used to go to school with, all of them who either made fun of me or ignored me are now reaching out to me as an adult. I recently got back to using social media a little bit here and there, I mainly started using it for a specific reason, but it led to me getting in contact with people from the past, like people that I went to school with and distant family members reaching out to me. Like I said, I know it's nothing special about this, I'm sure this happens all the time, but something is weird about it to me because all of the men have been weirdly sexual towards me. I'm only 23, so I'm still very young, so maybe this has something to do with it, but I just find this really weird. I grew up in a small town, and I was always the weird quiet girl and no one showed much interest in me, so I'm not sure why now all of a sudden.

I'm pretty sure that I had kind of a "glow up" as I got older, so I know I could appear more attractive than I was in school. I also want to add that I'm not flattered by this at all, this is actually very offensive and weird to me, and it makes me feel bad and wish they never would've reached out to me at all, and I wonder why they keep doing this. Like literally I don't post anything sexual on my social media, so idk why they think I am interested in sex with them. I understand that they are trying to take advantage of me, but I'm not sure why they think they can do that. I'm pretty sure that they aren't immediately getting sexual with or contacting all the girls they went to school with like this, so I'm not sure why they do it to me, but I've been told that I have a very innocent and kind looking face so maybe that's why?

Perhaps this has worked for them with other people, so they decide to try it on me for some reason. I know a lot of women get sexually harassed so this is nothing new, but like I said I highly doubt that they're doing this to every other girl I went to school with but idk. Maybe it's because they see that I'm single with no kids or apparent boyfriend like everyone else, so they think I must be desperate to have sex for some reason. Don't get me wrong, I'm open to connection, and would love to connect with people, or genuinely catch up on life, but that's not what's happening here, the men are just contacting me and immediately trying to get sexual with me…

My friend said that she met a man that immediately started trying to get sexual with her, so maybe that's what people do nowadays? Hookup culture? Idk. I also wanted to add that the people contacting me I think all have children now, and I don't, so I thought this was an interesting detail…

 

[CC123]

Some men are creeps and opportunistic.
Some get off on annoying women and like the rejection as they know they got to you.
Ignore as many as you want to.
Don't tell them to go to hell, just ignore them.
Sorry you are getting hassled this way.