Venting men scare me

[CTB Dream]

Yea rly many abuse atk hars rly scare ,many make fun injury damage rly tired all ,this all make worse injury damage

 

[MindFrog]

I'd dress modestly in public because I wouldn't want to contribute to the ongoing low-intensity mental abuse that revealing clothes inflict on a certain subclass of (sub)men. It's a living nightmare for them and they are probably the least likely to sexually assault someone, so I'd just feel bad for them and stay modest.

Oh no... Would someone please think of the poor men! ~

Srsly how weak do you have to be to get physiological damage for seeing women wearing skimpy clothes.

It should be their problem if they can't control yourself from harming other people.. Oh but somehow it's still a woman's responsibility for submen like that to behave.

mEnTal AbuSE my ass. Get real.

 

[F&Inside]

Hello. There's a big difference between rude brats and well-mannered grown men.

Although there are some people who never grow up or were educated, or simply bad human beings regardless of their sex.

 

[Angst Filled Fuck Up]

To hell with men. I sure am glad I transitioned to a duck several years ago.

 

[wristcutangel]

mixture of being scared, being disgusted and hatred for me.

 

[Dida]

I got sexually abused by my aunt, my nanny, my older cousins. Physically abused by mom and dad. Personally I'm afraid of being in relationships/friendships because I don't trust women (or men for the fact).

I like being alone.

 

[Disappointered]

Oh no... Would someone please think of the poor men! ~

Srsly how weak do you have to be to get physiological damage for seeing women wearing skimpy clothes.

It should be their problem if they can't control yourself from harming other people.. Oh but somehow it's still a woman's responsibility for submen like that to behave.

mEnTal AbuSE my ass. Get real.

Things get very real in some cases. The spree shootings and other new events will only increase while you pretend that men are not subjected to any distress. Have at it. I won't be crying if you or someone you care about meets a stray bullet or a van or whatever else. I guess it's like playing the lottery.

 

[Life Is My Coffin]

men are disgusting and women are brainwashed into following along with everything they want. tricking themselves into thinking theyre doing it for themselves.

You're just a misandrist idiot lol. Nothing in your post even makes sense

Also this is a good place to share this meme

(it's ironic that women are the ones who watch brutal/rape porn far more than men but nobody here seems to mention this. i've seen studies confirming this)

 

[piddincir]

You're just a misandrist idiot lol. Nothing in your post even makes sense

Also this is a good place to share this meme
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(it's ironic that women are the ones who watch brutal/rape porn far more than men but nobody here seems to mention this. i've seen studies confirming this)

I think women watch that porn as more as they've been through a trauma similar to that which fucks them up more than us as men could know

As I man, and a good man, there are good men out there, I always walked my female friends home after a night out.

Men can be scary, they dont say war is the province of men for no reason.

but I agree with the above comment you can't stigmatise a whole group for the actions of a few bad eggs, plus how many women in toxic relationships have done the same to their BF, brainwashing them or tricking them in thinking their actions are their own. I think this one is pretty 50/50 for men and women

 

[quanxiswife]

You're just a misandrist idiot lol. Nothing in your post even makes sense

Also this is a good place to share this meme
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(it's ironic that women are the ones who watch brutal/rape porn far more than men but nobody here seems to mention this. i've seen studies confirming this)

Lol what is that pic implying? That women secretly want to be raped and just make accusations for attention? I've seen studies about rape fantasies but never any about more women watching "brutal/rape porn", so I'd really like to see the studies you have confirming this. Even if women watched rape porn more than men (which they definitely do not lol), what does this indicate? Why should we mention it? How does it factor into the fact that many women are afraid of men for valid reasons? It's not like women who have rape fantasies are fantasizing about assaulting men and therefore it's men who should be afraid of women, so why did you bring this up?

 

[Document6105]

I'm not at all surprised this thread is another one of "us against them".
People really need to grow up above misogyny and misandry.

To expand on this, everyone's extremely biased with topics like this.

The truth of the matter is women abuse men just as much as men do women.
The type of abuse differs person to person, but this isn't a gendered problem.

Men are more likely to kill their victims (I don't think we really need studies for this), and women are more likely to abuse their victims (see prison studies on sexual abuse among inmates).

The important take away here however is:
Most people aren't criminals.
Sex education is awful across the globe.
Social stereotypes enable a lot of the abuse towards both genders.

Ie, it's perfectly normal to call a man weak if they don't want sex.
A lot of women even abuse men over this.

And it seems just as normal to sexually harass women.
Such as cat calling, groping, getting way too close to personal boundaries.

Should either of these be normal? No, absolutely not.

 

[tiger b]

Well I though op is venting and has the right to. Personally I'm not sure about all the generalisations, but that's by the by.