Communication doesn't have to be verbal at the start. Just as babies do not run before they can walk, there is no reason as to why you can't start off with messages online. I've got places that I can share with you privately if you feel like taking this step is something you're interested in.
Sometimes one person is all we need. Have you found this person to be of any comfort to you in your times of need?
Thank you very much for the offer, while I would love to meet new people I feel as if in some way I would do something to mess up any friendships I could make. Talking to people on a forum so far is more comforting for me since it's not a direct conversation, So I'm willing to talk on here though.
Both people must have their needs met in a partnership or else it begins to fall apart. How long have things been this way between you and your significant other?
He's a good listener but not a good advisor, his advice can be seen as a generic one. But what i know is at least he's sincere and also he kindda fall to the same hole as i am but unlike me, i don't think he had suicidal tendancy yet
Everything has its time. You might not feel as if it's something that you're ready for now, but please contact me privately should that ever change.
Thank you very much for your kindness. It's been a while since I got support like that.
About 2 years. Before that, I felt like I could talk to them. But we went through some rough stuff about 2 years ago, and it feels like they've lost all empathy since then (and this is something they've said). It feels like I'm supposed to be there for them and listen and comfort them, but when I have a dark moment all they do is tell me to man up.
Generic or traditional advice can be useful, though I believe that most people would prefer to have any advice given to be tailored to them. All things considered though, you speak of a genuine connection with this person and you'd be amazed at just how powerful having someone listen to you can be.
1. I don't have an issue texting.
Knowing that you've been able to maintain three freindships with others from your time in school is seriously an acomplishment in itself, so please know that although I am a stranger online, I sincerely commend you for how hard you've worked with all of them.
Your appreciation is noted, and you're very welcome. If there's ever anything I can do to help, please let me know.
As much as I don't wish to speak out of turn given that I'm not in your position, you shouldn't have to suffer in silence because of something someone else is dealing with. Telling people to "man up" when they're facing their own internal demons is about as effective as telling a blind person to "just see" the world around them.
Texting anyone is a starting point, so that's already a win for you today.
Suicide as a topic only brings trouble to those who are insincere in their interest on the topic; anyone who actually cares about the topic at hand wouldn't find discussing the topic an issue. When you signed up for an account on here, was it because you wanted to be part of place where you could share those feelings without feeling guilty?
It gets rid of guilt and is convenient. Nothing will happen if I post here. Being so suicidal feels criminalized irl. I'm not going to tell people about a crime. It kills every conversation, family would kick me out for it, friends would call me selfish or evil for it, and police can be called and will take me to a place with uniforms and less freedom.
It's more devastating when you realise that the likelihood of any of that changing is basically zero. Even though you say what you say, does a part of you still long to speak with someone about the inner workings of your feelings on this matter, or have you long abandoned the idea of ever sharing your thoughts with another?
Ah it's all gone. Goal of therapy is to get better so there's no point in going, declining, and leaving. I don't want to get better, I want to die. And in life, I'm content with sharing enough here.
All things come to an end, and there is no shame in feeling as you do. I appreciate the time you took to reply, even if you feel it has contributed little to how you feel.
I have had many friends in life, but well... I haven't talked to them in months.
This part is really good. I can ascertain to it as I can talk to my mom as long as I wish, but getting her to understand me is more trouble than it's worth. Normies are so painful, it's painful for them to think.
Makes sense. And would they be able to help, fundamentally?
maybe, i know they would do whatever possible to help me, but again, big burden.
SAME, i luv Hardcore Henry, its so incredibly unique and fun to watch (i loved the POV concept), i always wanted a sequel for it.
