Love break up vs. disire for love

[Ch92921]

A lot of men commit suicide when their love break up. Is this pain similar to the pain created if the disire FOR love stays unfilled?

 

[BeansOfRequirement]

I think the pain would be very similar in both. The first one is explosive and the second one is slow and drawn-out. I have type 2 rn, haha.

 

[Ch92921]

I think the pain would be very similar in both. The first one is explosive and the second one is slow and drawn-out. I have type 2 rn, haha.

The later. But in my case it can get dangerous if I dont get what I want>> impulsivity.

 

[motel rooms]

A lot of men commit suicide when their love break up. Is this pain similar to the pain created if the disire FOR love stays unfilled?

I hope I never find out.

 

[Rational man]

Loss of love is a form of bereavement . The pain can be overwhelming, utterly despairing. I think the second is generic unfilled notion of loneliness which brings it's own dissatisfaction. Lust and love are different are they not?. Men can have satisfying sex with others with complete detachment of emotions. Desire for love can get very subjective but it remains elusive until it is present.

 

[Ch92921]

Loss of love is a form of bereavement . The pain can be overwhelming, utterly despairing. I think the second is generic unfilled notion of loneliness which brings it's own dissatisfaction. Lust and love are different are they not?. Men can have satisfying sex with others with complete detachment of emotions. Desire for love can get very subjective but it remains elusive until it is present.

I believe both can be dangerous.

 

[motel rooms]

I think the second is generic unfilled notion of loneliness which brings it's own dissatisfaction. Lust and love are different are they not?. Men can have satisfying sex with others with complete detachment of emotions. Desire for love can get very subjective but it remains elusive until it is present.

I don't mean to be rude, but I don't get a word of this. Are you saying that not being able to find love is not as devastating as losing it? I apologize in advance if I've misunderstood you.

So what if men can have satisfying sex with someone they don't love? I've never had any trouble getting laid, but I was still miserable for over 20 years because I was starved for intimacy. Yes, it's fun to fuck a guy, but it doesn't compare to holding him the morning after & being appreciated as a person instead of just a sweaty body with a dick.

 

[Ashu]

Lust and love are different are they not?. Men can have satisfying sex with others with complete detachment of emotions.

These are false distinctions. Nothing human is this simple.

 

[Rational man]

These are false distinctions. Nothing human is this simple.

You'd be right. LOVE is complicated❤

I don't mean to be rude, but I don't get a word of this. Are you saying that not being able to find love is not as devastating as losing it? I apologize in advance if I've misunderstood you.

So what if men can have satisfying sex with someone they don't love? I've never had any trouble getting laid, but I was still miserable for over 20 years because I was starved for intimacy. Yes, it's fun to fuck a guy, but it doesn't compare to holding him the morning after & being appreciated as a person instead of just a sweaty body with a dick.

Yeh I see what you mean. It maybe that I misunderstood because im a bit fucked up in the LOVE department and i get a little unfocused when it comes.to intamcy. I.was just attempting to describe my pain of losing a guy i felt emotionally attached to. I mean the pain was unbearable. The pain I feel now is like empty hollow pain but its not like 'heart stabbing' pain. Yeh I agree having sex with a person can be great in the ' laid ' way, but how much vulnerable pain do we allow ourselves, so that we can get close enough to be loved!?...

 

[Ch92921]

You'd be right. LOVE is complicated❤

Yeh I see what you mean. It maybe that I misunderstood because im a bit fucked up in the LOVE department and i get a little unfocused when it comes.to intamcy. I.was just trying to describe my pain of losing a guy i felt emotionally attached to. I mean the pain was unbearable. The pain I feel now is like empty hollow pain but its not like 'heart stabbing' pain. Yeh I agree having sex with a person can be great, but how vulnerable do we allow ourselves, to get close enough to be loved!?

I dont want sex, I want romantic watching TV together eating together KISSING!

 

[Rational man]

I dont want sex, I want romantic watching TV together eating together KISSING!

Sure, sounds great.

 

[Ch92921]

Sure, sounds great. Hope you find what you've been looking for

I will stay alone because of obvious reasons! I cant accept that! This is going to become psychological very dengerozs.

 

[LonelyBrazilian]

Is this pain similar to the pain created if the disire FOR love stays unfilled?

I feel this pain every second. It kills slowly.